My partner, has constantly had problems gaining access to his kids, if he makes any attempt too when his ex does not want him too, She tells the children the most awful lies about him.
He is afraid to go up against her because if he does the fallout towards the children is horrible. He pays for his children , but she constantly asks him for more money and if he can’t ( as in he has nothing left) she will tell the kids they have to stop their clubs and activities because “Daddy is a druggy and out with slags”
about 6 weeks ago he had a breakdown after he was stopped by the police for speeding. He then found that she had gained so many points for speeding and because the car is still in his name and registered at his old address because he left the car for her.
she did not forward to him any of the court letters ( he would of paid the fines and taken the wrap) he was banned, he needs to drive for his job so he lost his job. Which meant no money which meant he was not allowed to see the kids.
because of the breakdown and her telling the kids he is a piece of sh*t he hasn’t contacted them he was just broken.
he has started talking about reaching out, he is very fragile. They’ll be major fallout at first she will be vile, however if anyone has any advice on how he should reach out ?
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Partner not allowed to see his children
Brewer1977 · 11/06/2022 16:49
Honaloulou · 11/06/2022 17:48
How has he tried to sort this out? There are some obvious steps to take, if he wants.
FishcakesWithTooMuchCoriander · 11/06/2022 17:51
I’m afraid I just don’t believe the driving ban explanation. Even if he didn’t sign the car over to her, he would surely have contested the points she had amassed, not just accepted a driving ban. It doesn’t make any sense at all.
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