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Referendum!

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springbrigid · 09/02/2024 11:27

Anyone inclined to give an opinion? I am leaning towards a yes/no vote, the yes to remove what I see as sexist language in the constitution, the no because the government are so appalling in terms of providing services and rights to disabled citizens and I feel the clause is paternalistic and pushes care on families yet again

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JaneJeffer · 07/03/2024 20:52

Everyone seems to see what they want to see in this according to their own lived experience and own personal views, myself included!

That's the problem Fuzzy. It can mean anything or nothing which suits the government just fine because they don't have to take responsibility for anything thing but they can strive to do so Hmm

People have durable relationships with their pets. Is that equal to marriage now?!

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 20:55

DanielGault · 07/03/2024 20:51

SF silence has been deafening alright. ML is usually front and centre but not a peep right now.

Peadar Tóibín & the Independents have been the only credible, proper opposition.

I think SF are thinking it won't pass so don't want to be associated with the losing side even though they advocated for yes /yes despite having serious concerns re the language. On that basis & as the main opposition party they should have lobbied for No/No but decided to virtue signal instead despite their "reservations" on the language.

DanielGault · 07/03/2024 20:56

JaneJeffer · 07/03/2024 20:52

Everyone seems to see what they want to see in this according to their own lived experience and own personal views, myself included!

That's the problem Fuzzy. It can mean anything or nothing which suits the government just fine because they don't have to take responsibility for anything thing but they can strive to do so Hmm

People have durable relationships with their pets. Is that equal to marriage now?!

It is if you 'strive' hard enough 😂

OchonAgusOchonOh · 07/03/2024 21:01

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 07/03/2024 20:45

My DD and I are seeing the referendum completely differently. She wants to remove the clause 'woman in the home' and says it's obsolete. It doesn't say 'a woman's place is in the home' I said but she says it is the obvious and only interpretation. I want to keep the clause because I think it recognises the valuable contribution of women's work in the home and also it means that the state must step up and support women who choose to stay at home with their children. Which one of us is right? Am I being narrow-minded?

She says that 'durable relationships' is in EU law and is not a problem. I don't know enough about the law to know if this is a problem. Personally I like marriage as a contract between two individuals because it's defined. I do not wish to exclude single parent families from the definition of a family but are they included in the revised article? I take 'durable relationships' to mean between two adults.

DD did not seem concerned about the 'strive to care' issue. I thought she would as she normally is sympathetic towards minorities which is the position of vulnerable people in this instance.

Everyone seems to see what they want to see in this according to their own lived experience and own personal views, myself included!

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Interestingly, the Irish version of the constitution uses the word "teaghlach" which is more family living in the same household than home. And the Irish version trumps the English translation if there is any discrepancy. A more accurate translation would be “the State recognises that by her life within the family, woman gives to the State a support without which the common good cannot be achieved”.

DanielGault · 07/03/2024 21:10

Lol!!!

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 21:10

👏😂

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 21:12

I don't know about anyone else but I'm have a nice glass of wine, I'm on edge now😭

Genderwoo · 07/03/2024 21:13

https://x.com/WomensSpaceIre/status/1765412783481376996?s=20

The claim of removing something sexist is spurious. Add father to this, and rectify the hundred+ omissions of women/female/daughter/her? Now that would be more sensible.

for the Xless 👇

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VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 21:20

Genderwoo · 07/03/2024 21:13

https://x.com/WomensSpaceIre/status/1765412783481376996?s=20

The claim of removing something sexist is spurious. Add father to this, and rectify the hundred+ omissions of women/female/daughter/her? Now that would be more sensible.

for the Xless 👇

Insane! Exactly I can't understand why guardians & fathers can't be added sure that's everyone covered & equal.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 07/03/2024 21:23

Fathers, guardians, single parents.

Genderwoo · 07/03/2024 21:59

Don't mind adding where indicated, but also don't want the singular contribution of the physical act of motherhood to be diminished, such as the recent abandoned attempt in the Netherlands to remove the word mother from population registries and replace it with “parent from whom the child was born.” Coupled with moves in many EU countries promoting surrogacy, I can't not see it as more erasure.

https://nltimes.nl/2024/03/04/minister-quickly-halts-unnecessary-plan-drop-word-mother-national-registry

Also, changing 41.2 may give warm progressive feels, but doesn't alter the fact that duties in the home are still overwhelmingly done by mothers, working outside the home or not.

Minister quickly halts “unnecessary” plan to drop word “mother” from national registry

The Dutch Cabinet quickly reversed course on Monday about plans to stop using the word “mother” in the population register. A proposal emerged earlier in the day that the word would be replaced with the gender-neutral phrase “parent from whom the child...

https://nltimes.nl/2024/03/04/minister-quickly-halts-unnecessary-plan-drop-word-mother-national-registry

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 07/03/2024 22:05

Duties in the home are still overwhelmingly done by mothers, working outside the home or not.

I said this to my DD. I felt the generation gap between us tonight.

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 22:09

Genderwoo · 07/03/2024 21:59

Don't mind adding where indicated, but also don't want the singular contribution of the physical act of motherhood to be diminished, such as the recent abandoned attempt in the Netherlands to remove the word mother from population registries and replace it with “parent from whom the child was born.” Coupled with moves in many EU countries promoting surrogacy, I can't not see it as more erasure.

https://nltimes.nl/2024/03/04/minister-quickly-halts-unnecessary-plan-drop-word-mother-national-registry

Also, changing 41.2 may give warm progressive feels, but doesn't alter the fact that duties in the home are still overwhelmingly done by mothers, working outside the home or not.

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That sounds so clinical & cold, glad it was abandoned.

springbrigid · 07/03/2024 22:22

Readytoevolve · 07/03/2024 20:28

I will rewatch thank you.

I was having this debate with a friend this week.
I asked them would this change to durable relationships devalue marriage, and they said, well that’s only for religious purposes anyways so it doesn’t matter.

Did I hell get married for the Catholic Church.

I despair for this vote tomorrow if that’s how people think of marriage. So many legal battles will result and the CF of people will enter new levels.

I think a lot of people are stuck on, families who are together and not married and how good it is for them. I say just get married if it matters to them. But this is one very small example. Durable relationships is a bollox made up term.

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The article that the state will support and defend marriage will still be in the constitution

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springbrigid · 07/03/2024 22:23

Slanabhaile · 07/03/2024 18:45

🤣🤣

I'm voting No/No. I don't like the distinct lack of clarity (feels like on purpose) from the government.

I’m voting yes no

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VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 22:23

Just pondering here over the published Attorney Generals advice that the Ditch shared tonight.

Should the whole election not be thrown out on the basis that Roderic O Gorman & the government withheld vital information from the electorate & taxpayers?
This is very serious. The Attorney Generals advice is what we should all be heeding in our vote yet it was withheld. Surely the election should be null & void?

springbrigid · 07/03/2024 22:26

Ceirseach · 07/03/2024 16:50

Thank you for the explanation @springbrigid

No problem - basically lawyer up peasants!

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Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 22:27

Regardless of whether the care referendum passes or doesn't.

This time next year carers will still be leading for services and support

Only then there will be election campaigning and they will promise the earth, moon and stars

The sad reality is carers and people with disabilities still won't be seen.

springbrigid · 07/03/2024 22:28

festivefavorites · 07/03/2024 18:50

I think online sources are exempt.

They’re exempt but tbh if the ditch has had it for a while it’s annoying they released it too late for it to be on broadcast media as it could really swing things

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Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 22:33

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 22:23

Just pondering here over the published Attorney Generals advice that the Ditch shared tonight.

Should the whole election not be thrown out on the basis that Roderic O Gorman & the government withheld vital information from the electorate & taxpayers?
This is very serious. The Attorney Generals advice is what we should all be heeding in our vote yet it was withheld. Surely the election should be null & void?

Won't be thrown out, he asked for advice got it , didn't like what he heard , so tried to bury it.

The problem is this change will stay for the rest of my life time anyway.

And maybe others on this thread depending on ages

Radyward · 07/03/2024 22:33

Why exactly is this referendum needed??? No clear answer on that
I just feel is this joke tomorrow to please their eu masters??? I just cant trust anything said by varadkar et al BUT met someone today in their late 60"s voting yes because its what they govt are advocating

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 22:39

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 22:33

Won't be thrown out, he asked for advice got it , didn't like what he heard , so tried to bury it.

The problem is this change will stay for the rest of my life time anyway.

And maybe others on this thread depending on ages

But could it not be thrown out on the basis that he refused to release information that the public need to know to make a legitimate, knowledgeable decision? All the govt were in on it.

I wish the Ditch had released a day or two early in time for the life debates.

I'm 44 it will be here for my lifetime too, I have three young daughters, I shudder & fear for what life will be like for them in the years to come.

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 22:40

Radyward · 07/03/2024 22:33

Why exactly is this referendum needed??? No clear answer on that
I just feel is this joke tomorrow to please their eu masters??? I just cant trust anything said by varadkar et al BUT met someone today in their late 60"s voting yes because its what they govt are advocating

And at a cost of 23 million @Radyward ... Look at the cuts they are making to SEN education in primary schools. It's disgraceful.

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 22:45

Radyward · 07/03/2024 22:33

Why exactly is this referendum needed??? No clear answer on that
I just feel is this joke tomorrow to please their eu masters??? I just cant trust anything said by varadkar et al BUT met someone today in their late 60"s voting yes because its what they govt are advocating

It doesn't surprise me if a lot of elderly vote yes, it has been installed in them listen to, church, police, government

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