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What is the least amount of money you could feed a family of 5 on in a month?????

81 replies

drosophila · 16/08/2009 12:16

Interested to know how cheaply you can feed a family of 5 (one is only 4 months and being Breast fed). WOuld hope to eat reasonable food.

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daisychicken · 28/08/2009 20:32

stressedHEmum - that list is fab - thank you! It is great to get ideas from other people, I find we get in such a rut otherwise!

could I have the recipes for: green bean risotto and creamy chard pasta - I have plenty of green beans and chard in the garden! Would also be interested in recipes for spicy chickpeans and hoppin john if that wouldn't be a problem?

thanks

OhYouBadBadKitten · 28/08/2009 20:34

Thanks stressedHEmum

PinkTulips · 28/08/2009 20:42

decent food and enogh of it: 150 euros a week

lots of pasta and not a huge amount of snackage: less than 100 euros a week

bearing in mind food here is pricier in general and those amounts are for my whole weeks shopping so bog roll, washing powder etc included as i'm not sure what percentage is food and what isn't

stressedHEmum · 28/08/2009 22:08

green bean risotto

1 box risotto rice
1 onion, chopped
1lb green beans or there abouts, chopped
1tspn chopped garlic
4 cups hot veg stock
2 or 3oz parmesan shavings
some fresh basil or parsley, chopped
blob butter

Soften onion and garlic in a little oil. Add rice and stir around to coat with oil. Add stock a cup at a time, stirring all the time. After 2 cups, add the green beans. When all the stock is in, let it simmer gently until the rice and veg are tender and stock is absorbed. Stir in parmesan, butter and herbs. remove from heat, cover and leave to sit for a couple of minutes. Very easy, quick and cheap if you have beans in the garden. This works with runner beans as well, or peas, but they only need a very few minutes cooking.

Chard pasta

1 pack pasta
1 onion, chopped
1 bunch chard, leaves stripped from stems and the whole lot chopped,
1tspn chopped garlic
3tblspns butter
3tblspns flour
about 3/4 pint milk, maybe a little more
salt, pepper, nutmeg

Cook pasta according to pack. Fry onion and chard stems in butter until softened, then add leaves. Cook until wilted. Stir in the flour and cook until liquid is absorbed. Slowly add milk, stirring all the time. Gently bring to the boil and simmer for a couple of minutes, stirring. Season with salt, pepper and a good pinch nutmeg. Mix through pasta and serve. If you have mushrooms, you can add them with the onions.

Spicy Chick peas

1/2lb dried chick peas, soaked overnight.
1 onion, chopped
juice and rind of a lemon
1tspn chilli powder
1tspn cumin
2 or 3 tomatoes, chopped

Drain the soaked chick peas and put in a large pan. Cover with water to about 2 inches over the top. Add a splash of oil to control foaming. bring to the boil, boil hard for 10 minutes and simmer for a couple of hours until tender. Drain and set aside.

Fry spices for a minute in a little oil, add onions and cook until softened. Add tomatoes and lemon and cook until a bit saucy. Stir in chick peas and heat through. Serve with rice.

Hoppin John

1lb black eyed beans, soaked overnight
1 onion, chopped
1 tin chopped tomatoes
handful of frozen peppers or a red pepper, chopped,
couple of fresh chillis, finely chopped or a tablspoon or so of chilli powder
2tspn chopped garlic
2tspns cumin
some chopped spring onions

Drain the beans and put them in a big pan with everything else except tomatoes and spring onions. add a splash of oil and bring to the boil. Boil hard for about 10minutes, reduce heat and simmer for a couple of hours until beans are very tender. Chuck in the tomatoes after about an hour. By the time the beans are cooked, the liquid should have reduced and be a kind of thick, saucy gravy. Serve with rice and sprinkle the chopped spring onion (or ordinary onions) on top.

You can make a kind of spinach curry with chard if you use 1/2lb dried chick peas, soaked and cooked, a chopped onion, a couple of tins of tomatoes, a pile of chard and some curry paste. This is cheap and easy and makes use of the chard from the garden. I only have 12 plants, but we get enough chard to eat it once a week for months and months, so I have a few things that I do with it. Quiche made with chard and cottage cheese, seasoned with nutmeg is good. So is Chard, leek and butter bean soup (lovely green colour when it's blended.) If you have a glut of green beans, you can make the curry above using them instead of chard.

Hope these help any

daisychicken · 29/08/2009 14:17

stressedHEmum - thank you! will be trying these over the next couple of weeks

stressedHEmum · 29/08/2009 16:50

no problem, daisychicken. If you want to try the chard quiche, here is a rough guide:

soften 1 chopped onion and a bunch of chopped chard in a little butter and oil until chard is well wilted and onion and stems are soft. Remove from heat and stir in a small carton of natural cottage cheese, a couple of chopped tomatoes (optional) and a good pinch of salt, pepper and nutmeg. Beat in 2 eggs and pour into a cooked shortcrust pie case. Bake at 180 for about 1/2 an hour until pie is set and golden.

chard and potato curry:

couple of pounds potatoes, cut into chunks
big bunch chard, stems stripped from leaves and all chopped
1 large onion, chopped,
2 tins tomatoes
1tblspn cumin seeds
1tspn chopped garlic
1tspn ginger
1tblspn curry powder
good splash oil

Par boil the potatoes until almost done. Drain and set aside.

Heat the oil in a big pan until hot. Add spices and fry for a minute or two until the smell fab. Add onion and chard stalks, fry for 5 minutes or so, until softened but not browned. Add chard leaves and tomatoes and cook for about 10 minutes. Add potatoes, mix well and cook for another 10 minutes or so until veg is cooked and curry is saucy. You can stir in some fresh parsley or coriander if you have any growing. This is nice with flat bread and yoghurt with mint.

Things to do with green beans

1lb-2lbs green beans
3lbs potatoes, chopped
2 onions, chopped
1 ham hough
4 pints veg stock, or enough to cover
black pepper and garlic

Put the whole lot in a slow cooker and cook on low all day. Strip the ham from the bone before serving. Use a slotted spoon to serve, as it should be a dry dish, not soup. Keep the cooking liquid for stock to make soup.

1lb green beans
3lbs potatoes
about 1/2lb cooked ham, cut into cubes,
1 pint cheese sauce

Cook the green beans and potatoes until tender. Mix through the ham. Pour over cheese sauce. Pour into an oven dish and bake for about 15 minutes at 180 until hot and bubbly. You can sprinkle some grated cheese on top if you like.

1 1/2lb green beans, cooked
1 onion, chopped and softened in oil
4oz cheese, grated
1 tin condensed mushroom soup
breadcrumbs

Mix everything except the breadcrumbs until well combined. Pour into a baking dish and sprinkle the breadcrumbs over the top. Bake at 180 for about 20 minutes, until hot and bubbly. My kids really like this with crusty bread or mashed potatoes. You can add cooked, chopped sausages to it, if you like, to make it a more substantial meal.

bamboostalks · 29/08/2009 17:17

These recipes are fantastic stressedHEmum. Your meals plans are amazing, never seen the like. Do you work outside the home?

stressedHEmum · 29/08/2009 18:12

No, I don't work outside the home.

I HE 4 of my 5 kids. DS1 is at uni. 3 of my boys have Aspergers and one has dyslexia and a visual-motor problem (only my DD is normal ) and my OH travels more than 3 hours a day, 6 days a week to get to work, so I haven't a hope of working anywhere else, really.

Sometimes, I wish I could because we struggle so much as OH earns not a kick in the shirt more than minimum wage and his wages are taken up completely by rent, council tax and travel to work, so we have to live on the WFTC and family allowance. ( We have had all claims for DLA for the boys knocked back because we aren't in contact with any professionals because we have been dxed and abandoned each time.) If I could get a job, it might help a bit. That's why my meal plans are so detailed, I have to try and keep the costs down as much as I can. We have to do organic, though, or my ASD boys' behaviour really suffers, especially the youngest, particularly if he drinks squash or whatever. Since we changed back a few months ago, he has really improved, so it is worth the extra money, just wish it wasn't so much extra!

baskingseals · 29/08/2009 18:45

Can I just say stressedhemum that your food is literally making my mouth water, it sounds absolutely delicious. Thanks for all the inspiration.

stressedHEmum · 30/08/2009 13:22

Thank you baskingseals and bamboo stalks. Being skint makes you creative, lol! Hopefully, they will help someone out a bit.

flopalong · 01/09/2009 18:17

I don't get to many treats, get big packs of loo rolls, deals on nappies, I only use washing up liquid for everything too. I put baked beans in alot of things (redused sugar or salt, sometimes I wash them) put them in chillis, cottage pies, caserols lol. They bulk things out, as do tins of tomatos. Make sure you clean up with cloths and flannels (you prob do) I ended up using wet wipes alot whch is bab for the environment and the pocket. Do you really need kitchen roll (if u get it) cut down on sugar, drink less brews (have water) use less juice (or have water) don't get to many branded stuff. As others have said, I find the cheaper supermarkets no cheaper either. The only things I can see is the branded processed crap. An initial layout of herbs and spices will set you up for a cheaper weekly shop. If your ever up on money get extra rice pasta and tins of beans and tomatos. Own brand are not always the best deal either branston beans have a good deal on at asda think its £1 for 4. saisburys do a big bad of fair trade bananas for £1.09 (very big)

wonderif · 06/10/2009 12:41

There is four of us and I would say we would spend about 300 a month.

I buy 7 jugs of milk at beginning of week and they are on offer at local store for 75 for 2 liters which is great.
same with bread i try and buy 7 loafes and freeze too.

i make hugh pots of homemade soup/stew spag bol, chilli and freeze.

jackieOpaperLANTERN · 06/10/2009 22:16

four of us, me, dh, ds (5) and dd (2.9) and 1 cat, approx £250 per month, everything made from scratch, we are veggie tho so that probably helps keeping it down.

galen · 12/10/2009 14:06

stressedHEmum what an inspiration! You must be amazing to HE ( We used to HE and I know how much time it can take up!)and cope with your boys individual needs and make such wonderful menu plans and stick so well to your budget!

Generally we spend around £100 a week for 8 of us, (6 DC and DH and me) thats for everything - cleaning stuff and toiletries inc.
Use the slow cooker a lot.
A lot of casseroles
Always use up leftovers (Sunday chicken becomes rissotto the next day etc)
Always look out for bargains when shopping - Morrisons is good for reduced stuff if you go at the right time. Got 2 very large gammon joints half price the other day - got 3 meals out of each one(roast with pots etc,,Ham and leek risotto, ham and mushroom pie)
Bake most cakes and biscuits myself and bread sometimes.
Always look out for special offers on things like washing powder and but whichever is reduced or the best value.

would like to get it uner £100 a week though really.... will need to try harder!

giveloveachance · 12/10/2009 14:28

wow stessede you should write your own cook book!!!!!

I too go for the cook more now to eat later - and if I have the oven on for a roast I also bake at the same time.

I've been doing the economy gastromony thing, using left overs for other meals in the week or using the meat cold for sandwiches.

Always go for the bargains too and freeze whatever I cant use up straight away.

Look out for ads for supermarkets, I go to several different ones depending whats on offer - have never paid full price for nappies for example.

Do stick to fav brand of washing powder - but it has been on offer in morrisons and sainsburys recently so bought a few boxes.

Galen £100 for 8 of you = you are fabulous!!!

Meal planning is a must, then you don't waste so much - and fewer trips to supermarket!

LaTruchaaaaaaaaaargh · 12/10/2009 14:38

We spend about £70 for three per week, so £280 a month.

Some of my favourite things that work out economically are:

I whole chicken, breasts removed, legs removed.

Carcas boiled to make soup. The bits of meat picked off the carcass and made into rissoles with mashed potato and bechamel OR meat picked off the carcass and boiled in the stock with rice or with pasta and some of the stock veg cut up small. Surprisingly delicious.

Legs used to make a stew with lots of potatoes and other veg.

Breasts used to make a curry or some such with lots of sause.

Also, a packet of 'soup mix' (one of those ones with lentils, pearl barley etc). Fry a little bacon and onion. Sweat some diced potato, carrot and wede with this. Add the soup mix, boil with stock. ALso surprisingly good.

Although, obviously I'm not as good at this as some

{off to glean wisdom from the rest of the thread}...

stressedHEmum · 13/10/2009 23:48

Galen, I think £100 for 8 is pretty fab. Unless you have a bigger family, I don't think you realise how much harder it is, just the amount of things like Loo roll and washing powder that you need pushes the cost right up. None of my friends can come to grips with that at all and think that shopping for us is the same as shopping for their families of 2 or 3 children under 10! I find the same with the washing, actually, they all moan about their laundry because they have to do a couple of loads every other day!

I always do the leftovers thing as well. If a chicken doesn't give me three meals and a pot of soup, I am gutted and a pork roast had better do 3 as well.

Givelove, funnily enough my OH is always on about me writing a cookbook. Foolish man. He reckons if other folk can do it, so can I. The very thought of it makes me LOL. However, I am perfectly happy to share my miserly cooking tips with anyone who asks.

Twintummy · 20/10/2009 17:45

I meal plan and now do my Tesco's shop online. We don't eat processed food. Mine tends to be about 100-130 a week but I'm sure I can get it down. Includes all meals and packed lunches for the kids.We are family of 5 and DH and kids are huge eaters!

Twintummy · 20/10/2009 17:47

I also get 3 meals out of a roast chicken. Soup and chicken & aspargus risotto which is yummy.

linconlass · 28/03/2010 20:49

lisa123- where do you shop please...

jaabaar · 29/03/2010 17:17

THe best way to save lots of money is to plan your meals for the week and buy ONLY what you need for those meals. No extra food. It has helped me cut down on waste, save money and always knowing what to cook!

Before I was spending double coming home from shopping and still had nothinig to cook.....

toja555 · 30/03/2010 16:15

We are family of 3 and we spend £300 per month for food, cleaning things and baby things (nappies etc). I am sure we could manage to go under £250, but not much less.

tanmu82 · 09/05/2010 19:20

There are 4 of us (Me, DH and 2 DC's) and I manage our weekly shop on approx £50 (give or take a few quid) each week.
I have to be really anal in order to stick to this, as it includes all toiletries and cleaning stuff too. In fact, this week I also managed to get 2 birthday presents for a couple of parties the kids went to this weekend and came in at £53.

Each week I scour the sainsbury's, Lidl and Co-Op websites (our local shops) for special offers and plan a menu for the week around this. I then create a shooping list in Excel which tots up the total of everything as I go (I told you I was anal!) The off I go to the shops. Whatever I can't get a good deal on, I look for in the 99p shop (mostly toiletries and cleaning stuff, or snacks) I only buy what I need for my menus and no more.

We all take packed lunches which are fruit, sandwich, yoghurt and a treat (crisps/flapjack etc) and sometimes me or DH have leftovers.

We have a few more months of debt and then I shall be able to up my budget, but tbh I think this is a much more efficient way of doing the shop in terms of less waste and I know exactly what I'm going to buy and for how much before I even leave the house. I work full time, yet I cook everything from scratch except for a friday when I let the kids have oven chips with sausages (DH will cook us a thai curry then)

sorry for long post!

bacon · 29/06/2010 12:52

Wow, just read through all of this and its amazing. I spend no less than £120 per week which includes wine and approx 4 bottles of hi-juice squash, nappies.

I reckon on average I must spend £600pm on food which is ridiculus.

But I always wonder on these average spends - I assume that takeaways are not added on. Lunches - are these included and eating out at relatives, say on a Sunday.

I still dont get it, if the average item in the basket is £2 then some of you are saying that you are spending £50 then thats only 25 items incl all lunch food, salads,milk.

Cooking from scratch isnt always cheaper either, especially baking. There are numerous items you have to buy to your usual list.

5 bottles of milk = £7, two-three loafs quality wholemeal bread = £3.60 veg & fruit £12,and so on... so I'm still pespexed how you can still keep the shop down. I assume some of you are only buying one tin against a value 4 tin pack?

stressedHEmum · 30/06/2010 20:55

Bacon, I shop monthly so when asked about a weekly shop, I divide what I spend by four. We don't eat takeaways, ever, because we can't afford them and because I HE, we all eat lunch at home, bar DH, who usually gets a sandwich or something at work. He can't really take lunch in with him because they have nowhere to keep it during the day. That's separate but comes out of his "going to work" money. My shopping is probably around 80/90pounds a week at the moment for 7 of us, but that includes dry nites and things like that. It should go down again soon when my allotment starts producing.

I cook everything from scratch and do all my own baking, but I buy flour in 25kg sacks from Shipton Mill so it spreads the cost. I also plan everything but I don't just buy one tin or whatever, I buy about 30 tins of tomatoes a month for example and the same of beans. I only buy things when they are in season, no salad in winter, for example, no leeks and parsnips in summer. I also avoid buying things like berries and other expensive fruit, except as an occasional treat when they are in season. I also look for things that might be on offer, that I know we will use.

I think that a lot of food expense is about expectation, to be honest. We are happy to eat a lot of beans, pulses, rice and pasta and to make do with tinned and frozen fish, but a lot of people wouldn't want to do that. I get laughed at when I tell my friends that I can get 5 meals plus stock fro the kids from a leg of lamb. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.

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