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What is the least amount of money you could feed a family of 5 on in a month?????

81 replies

drosophila · 16/08/2009 12:16

Interested to know how cheaply you can feed a family of 5 (one is only 4 months and being Breast fed). WOuld hope to eat reasonable food.

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Doobydoo · 16/08/2009 21:30

I think,from reading this,that meal planning is the key and shopping around.
We tend to eat the same sort of things.
Dp and ds2 have wheat intolerance and ds2 has Alpro soya as main milk source at the moment[he likes the Teco one too]
Ds1 and I are veggies,but ds1 is so fussy about food[total nightmare tbh]I think it's important to have the variety for the boys too.Ds2 can eat a box of grapes in 2 days![he is 2 and a half]

Goober · 16/08/2009 21:51

Meal planning is deffo the answer. I have only been doing it about a year. I sed to throw lots of food away as it went past the BB date and I used to fill the freezer with food, at great cost, then stand for ages scratching head wondering what to cook that night. This way I have exactly what is needed and no waste.

Goober · 16/08/2009 21:52

used not sed!

blueshoes · 16/08/2009 21:59

That would depend on the age of these 5 persons. Obviously 3 teenagers would eat more than 3 under 6 years.

We would spend about £80 per week for 3 adults and 2 children below 6. That would be the entire supermarket bill, including booze, toiletries, cleaning materials, nappies, toilet paper etc.

Doobydoo · 17/08/2009 07:21

Blueshoes..HOW? Am eager to know

blueshoes · 17/08/2009 09:07

Doobydoo, I guess through meal planning.

To save time, I also don't just cook for one dinner, but for at least 2, sometimes even 3 but freezing the last portion. That bulks up on ingredients and is more economical. We eat a lot of rice (in addition to the usual pasta), which we buy in 5 kg sacks from the chinese supermarket at about £7.50 and lasts for ages.

Dinners are substantial but lunches are either leftovers or sandwiches. I do cheat in the sense that dd and ds eat at school/nursery but they don't eat much. A lot of times, I just cook a cut down version of the adults dinner for them eg since they don't like 'spicy food' or bits of mushroom/herb, I decant a small bit of the pasta sauce for their portion, before I load on the 'spice' etc for the adults.

I shop at Sainsburys, so not really making an effort to economise. But I do look out for offers of non-perishables eg toothpaste, toilet paper, nappies, laundry powder, ale, dh's deodorant and stock up during the sale. I also buy a lot of Basics items (eg peppers of different shapes), which works perfectly fine.

I don't buy ready meals or pop.

Reesie · 19/08/2009 20:41

I do 2 shops. A supermarket on line shop for a fortnight and a Lidl one every week to buy fresh food/cheese/nappies etc. It's kindo of sad that I know what products are cheaper where. Also - is there is a bogof offer of an item I usually buy - I will stock up.

Menu planning is the secret really and be really strict in buying what you need.

Breadmakers are fab - a loaf will cost over a pound to buy but costs under 30p to make. I make one most days.

Mix soda crystals with your washing powder - half washing powder/tab and then half soda crystals.

Don't buy any extra cleaning products, I find washing liquid works well to clean bathrooms. Floors come up really clean when mopped with washing liquid and a bit of washing powder in the water.

We often have left overs from the previous evening meal for lunch.

I spend about £70 per week for a family of 4.

midnightexpress · 19/08/2009 20:55

I would recommend this book - it's really excellent. She talks at length about how to cook as previous generations did (ie not wastefully, by planning etc) all, inclluding a look at the costs per portion of various things, if you use them properly (ie cooking a chicken, using hte leftovers for risotto/chicken pie etc, using the scraps and bones for soup etc. With recipes. She has a newer one called The New English Table, which I think is more recipes, but haven't seen it.

They have the New English Kitchen 2nd hand on Amazon v cheaply too (in the spirit of economy ).

Frasersmum123 · 26/08/2009 10:53

I spend £80 for a family of 5, plus another £10 a week for fresh milk, bread and bananas.

I always buy whatever is on BOGOF and try really hard to keep it down - I have contest with myself on how much I can get for how much money

GossipMonger · 26/08/2009 10:57

We should all set ourselves a challenge of having a 'freezer night' where we can only eat what is in the freezer! We do this a lot as things tend to lurk at the back of the freezer.

Am going to do this tomorrow as I have eggs (fridge not freezer!) and a bag of potato wedges. Tomorrow night will be omelettes and chips and broccoli!

Saltire · 26/08/2009 11:04

I notice a few of you use Lidl - I ahve found that the last 3 times I ahve gone there that prices aren't much cheaper than the ikes of Asda , in fact somethings are more expensive.

I usually spend between £50-£65 a week either at Asda or Sainsburys online. That includes the delivery charge. I get mine delivered on days when it's cheaper.

I do loosely meal plan, but want to do it better.However Dh is going through a "I need to lost some weight" thing at the minute and wants salads and chicken and fish every night, whereas as a fmaily we maybe have salad 2 nights a week, and eat a lot of pasta "I don't want that it's full of carbs" from DH.

mollyroger · 26/08/2009 11:12

I have recently been forced to drop from roughly £100 per week (milk extra) to around £50 a week (and cancelled poor milkman ) That includes toiletries etc but I don't need to buy them every week.
It's easy at the moment as I have home grown veg and fruit to supplement with. But I am genunely scared about winter.
I also make home made cakes etc. We don't have a big freezer which makes it hard. And one of my children will not eat rice or pasta to save his life.
I am being a lot more imaginitive with meals and wasting nothing.

Scootergrrrl · 26/08/2009 11:24

This was a really good thread on saving money on food from a while back.

stressedHEmum · 26/08/2009 16:28

I feed all 7 of us (kids 19,16,12,10,6) for around £90 a week. This includes all the things like toilet roll, laundry stuff, toothpaste etc. but not shampoo or soap, because I buy the solid shampoo and palm oil free stuff from Lush.

I get a large organic veg box and large organic fruit box delivered every week along with 2 gallons of organic milk, 1/2doz organic eggs and 1/2pint organic double cream. I get a meat box delivered occasionally from www.blackface.co.uk, usually the pie and casserole box, any other meat is delivered from a farm just up the road. I buy fairtrade where ever possible and I use eco friendly cleaning stuff when I don't make my own. We also only buy organic drinks for the kids so either rocks, Belvoir or whatever similar is on offer. I use organic cheese, butter,yoghurt, peanut butter etc as well.

I meal plan based on what is in my box that week. I am veggie, but no one else is. I make meat once, maybe twice, a week, but usually as more of a flavouring than a main event (1lb mince can make chilli for three meals, 1/2lb venison can make casserole for 6 people plus leftovers.) I cook fish once, sometimes twice a week, but again not as a main event (fish chowder, fish cakes, potato bake with anchovies, kedgeree sort of things.)I make my own bread, biscuits, cakes, jam etc., cook with lentils, beans and rice regularly.

How much is reasonable for you to spend on a family of 5 depends on a lot of things; the ages of the children, how much meat you eat, how much time you have for cooking and, ultimately, how much money you have to spend on food. If I had more, there is no question that I would spend more, but if I had less than I do now, I could manage on it. When things were very tough last year, I dropped the organic and managed to buy everything we needed for less than £50 a week for 7 of us.

stressedHEmum · 26/08/2009 16:40

Just in case anyone is interested, here is a sample meal plan:

breakfasts; strawberry scones, pancakes with apple syrup, malted wheaties, multigrain hoops, yoghurt with fruit, fruit juice to drink.

lunches: toasted pittas with hm tzatziki, lentils and rice with salad and grated cheese, scrambled egg rice with peas and onions, courgette and cheese muffins, chick pea burgers in rolls with salad, refried bean and cheese quesadillas, pasta with scrambled eggs and cheese

dinners:
broad bean couscous, green bean risotto, venison casserole with pink mash and brocolli, steak and veg pie with new potatoes and carrots, pasta and fish pie with peas and corn, courgette, tomato and brie pasta, potato and salmon grill

baking: seed cake, plum cake, honey biscuits.

And another:

Breakfasts; malted wheats, multigrain hoops, OJ muffins, peanut butter muffins, toast and hm jam

Lunches: savoury muffins, mushroom soup, corn fritters, potato cakes with broad beans and mint mashed in with hm salsa , tuna pasta salad, fry bread with honey and chopped fruit, buttered pasta with courgettes, onion, tomatoes and basil

Dinner: creamy chard pasta, Spanish rice with prawns, lentil and new potato curry, spaghetti and meatballs, chilli bean wraps with salad and sour cream, sloppy joe subs, Mediterranean beans and rice with cornbread pancakes

Baking: beetroot cake, butter cookies, flapjacks.

TheDMshouldbeRivened · 26/08/2009 16:52

bout £400 a month but 2 are hungry tenagers and youngest is in a special diet.

Podrick · 28/08/2009 12:20

stressedHEmum i would like to live at your house

daisychicken · 28/08/2009 12:34

stressedHEmum - any chance of recipes please? Can I ask how you managed to spend less than £50/week for 7 (non-organic)?

We spend £50/week for a family of 4 incl toiletries/cleaning stuff. We eat meat maybe 2-3 times per week, rarely eat fish as dh is a fusspot and grow as much own veg as possible though didn't have space for onions and potatoes this year (will have next year though ). We also have chickens. Our homegrown veg is organic and we buy the best meat we can afford but rarely organic. Our freezer is full of veg and fruit for the winter but am nervous of the next few months as dh was made redundant a few months back and despite every effort.. new work (SE) is very slow so need to keep the budget even lower.

daisychicken · 28/08/2009 12:36

just wanted to add to my message: I bake our bread and make all cakes/biscuits. I also cook all meals from scratch. As a sahm, I have time to be able to do this.

WorkInProgress · 28/08/2009 12:40

My top tip if you online shop - look at the site before you menu plan and see whats on special offer and BOGOF. Then menu plan using the special offer stuff - saves loads esp if you use this for more expensive meat. Doesn't always work - special offers seem to be the things that aren't in stock and it's a real bummer when half your weeks menu is missing, but this doesn't seem so much of a problem lately.

alwayslookingforanswers · 28/08/2009 12:48

£250-300 including all cleaning stuff and nappies. Only buy decent meat.

bubblegumsupermum · 28/08/2009 12:50

I just done my tesco.com as always every week, and I can't get my bill down less than £130 a week, there are four of us and I buy more or less the same stuff every week, it's awfully expensive!!

OhYouBadBadKitten · 28/08/2009 12:52

stressedHemum. Not seen blackface before. Interesting. How do you find it?
Is the quality good?
Does the packaging stay sufficiently cold that it could be left in the garage til the evening?

Their monthly box looks like it would supply all our meat desires without a problem.

Jojay · 28/08/2009 13:18

WorkInProgress - that is a really good tip - why didn't I think if that??

Thanks

stressedHEmum · 28/08/2009 20:18

Daisychicken,

keeping it to £50 was not easy and took a lot of planning and work, but my DS1 was starting at uni so all our money went into that and I had to make do with what was left.

Some of the things that I did were:

cook 500gm green lentils with 1kg brown rice, 2 onions,a packet of whitworths dried vvegetables,a couple of stock cubes, garlic and black pepper. Simmer it in 14 cups of water until everything is cooked and the water absorbed. Then I used this as a base for lentil loaf, lentil burgers, lentil and rice soup and to eat just by itself with salad and grated cheese.

Cook 2lbs pinto beans with onion, garlic and black pepper, Divide into 2 portions, serve one as is with rice and things to put on top like sour cream, grated cheese, chopped onions and tomatoes. Divide the reaming portion in 1/2 use one to make refried beans for quesadillas and the other to mix with kidney beans to make chilli.

Tis sort of thing was a regular feature. Cook a big pile of beans of one kind or another and then use them as the basis for 3 or 4 different meals. So one week might be lentils and chick peas, another would be black eyed beans and pintos. If you don't want to eat the same bean 4 times in a week, cooked beans freeze well.

When making rice, always cook extra to make either into hot rice for breakfast or eggy rice with onions and peas for lunch. same with potatoes, make extra, mash and make into potato cakes for snacks or a quick lunch with beans.

I bake my own bread, cakes, biscuits etc. and use any dying bread to make tea bread or whatever.

I used tinned tuna or salmon for fish and can make a kedgeree for the 5 kids with 1/2lb smoked mackerel. I can make one tin of tuna feed all 5 as well by making white sauce with an onion and a tin of peas or corn and serving with rice ot toast. Another one they like is a tin of tuna mixed with a tin of mushroom soup, a cooked onion and some frozen peaas and corn, served over mash or toast.

We ate soup a couple of times a week with homemade bread and something like rice pudding or crumble. Split pea types are cheap, so are bean and ham ones.

Other things that are regulars are tomato rice with cheese, garden veg rice and beans, spicy chick peas or chick pea burgers, bread omelette with veg.

This is an old meal plan that might give you an idea of the kinds of things that I was making:
Monday:
HM ready brek ( porridge whizzed on the blender), fruit juice
lentil sloppy joes, fruit
pasta bake, brocolli, carrots

Tuesday;
pancakes, fruit juice
creamy tuna jackets, fruit
butter bean and ham stew, hm bread, mixed veg

Wednesday;
apple oat bread, milk
rolls and slice sausage, fruit
lentil anad potato curry, HM chapattis

Thursday
cereal, fruit juice
split pea soup and polenta pancakes
sloppy joe pizza

Friday
pb&j muffins,milk
cheesy wedges, fruit
sausage casserole, dumplings, brocolli, hm bread

Saturday
polenta cakes with icing sugar, milk
rice-a-roni stir fried with egg, fruit
potato bake, mixed veg

Sunday
cereal. fruit juice
bean and soy burritos, fruit
fish pie, carrots and brocolli.

Orange squash, chocolate milk, pancakes, plain muffins, potato cakes and choc chip oat cookies for snack.

here's another one:

Sunday:
Coffee cake, fruit juice
morrocan veg stew, rice
lentil loaf, hm garlic and herb potato chunks, sweetcorn, hm oatmeal bread
snacks: hm muffins and doodle bugs

Monday:
cheese and courgette scones, fruit juice
corn fritters, fruit, bread and butter
lentil and rice soup, hm onion bread yoghurt
snacks: pancakes, lemon whirls

Tuesday:
banana loaf, milk
creamed tuna toast, fruit
tomato rice, cheese, cornbread
snacks: frozen grapes, scones

Wednesday:
wholemeal muffins, fruit juice
corn chowder, bread,
hoppin john ( a kind of spicy thing with rice and black eyed beans), salad
snacks: fruit, seed cake

Thursday:
cereal, milk, fruit juice
pasta and beans
minestrone macaroni, hm garlic and cheese bread
snacks: fruit, spice cake

Friday:
easy apple struedel, milk
pea and ham rissotto
chick pea curry, rice
snacks: yoghurt, rye muffins

Saturday:
pancakes, fruit juice
chick pea and chorizo soup, bread
potato and baked bean bake, chard
snacks: frozen frubes, fruit

Sunday:
orange juice mufin bread, milk
fishy fritters, fruit
spicy chick peas, rice
snacks: apple and raisin bread, yoghurt

This must be the longest post ever! We only have a tiny garden, but I have converted the kids old sand pits into containers! So we grow tomatoes, celery, peas, beans, carrots, courgettes, spinach, chard, herbs and cucumbers in summer and cabbage, cauliflower and kale in autumn and winter to eke things out a bit as well. At this time of year there are a lot of courgette and cheese muffins on the menu!

If there are any particular recipes that you would like, let me know and I will type them up.

Blackface .co.uk are great. The meat is fabulous, my big boys love the rabbit, when you can get it, and the venision. The stuff is delivered before lunchtime in a big box insulated with polystyrene, shredded papper and stuff. The meat isn't frozen, it is chilled and I would think that as long as it's not left somewhere in the sunshine it would be fine until tea time.