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Sick of having plenty of money on paper but not enough to actually live!

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MrsMop2026 · 31/03/2026 17:31

We get around £3,000 a month on paper that is loads.
Shouldn’t be struggling at all but why am I always struggling to put clubcard vouchers & pennies together at the end of the month.

Rent - £1,200
gas & elec - £300 (paying back some debt)
council tax - £150
water - £35 (on a special tarfif)
petrol - £200 (but obviously that’s now going up and god knows what that will come too - and yes I use my free bus pass where I can and no I can’t use less)
cats - £200 (i have four so it’s expensive Im trailing the cheaper supermarkets litter at £2.99 for 10 litres atm so hoping to get this down and next I will try cheaper cat food)
Food - £600 (cant get this cheaper ones diabetic other has AFRID)

leaving me with £260 a month but that just seems to go so quickly with school uniform, school trips, the occasional day out. :(

I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I don’t do expensive days out, takeaways are a luxury in this house.
It is so stressful isn’t it? How does everyone else manage?

OP posts:
Wellthatsitthenisuppose · 09/04/2026 00:32

Augustus40 · 08/04/2026 07:14

You can sell pets on gumtree if that helps.

I hope you are not serious. They are not commodities to be sold on

CRD67 · 09/04/2026 07:28

MrsMop2026 · 31/03/2026 18:01

Tried that, thats how I ended up with two. Family member died unexpectedly no rescues would take them.. and we got lumbered with them! The other family members took the dogs. It was a loose loose situation.

Edited

Sorry to say this but it has to be said. You're prioritising cats over your family's income and happiness. Face the harsh factv that they are an unessential luxury you can't afford. Put your children first.

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