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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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ememem84 · 21/05/2022 08:25

Food shop today.

WreckTangled · 21/05/2022 08:35

I find asda quite expensive but that might be because it's so far away that when we do go we get carried away. I think I spent £160 last time we went and that was with the blue light discount Grin

lifelongfrugaleer · 21/05/2022 10:21

I think they are cheaper on junk food but much of a muchness on everything else. Probably not as cheap as Aldi but hoping cheaper than sainsburys

northender · 21/05/2022 10:37

I'm with you on Dunelm wreck grrrrr!
The website said they had the things I wanted, but I wanted to see them before paying so went to the shop and it turns out they don't have any of it and the only outdoor dining stuff they had looked such poor quality, I harumphed and flounced out!

WreckTangled · 21/05/2022 10:39

That's so annoying! Have you tried the range? Or matalan?

lifelongfrugaleer · 21/05/2022 16:05

The verdict on Asda: not worth the hassle

Decafflatteplease · 21/05/2022 16:48

@northender hope you are having a lovely weekend away it sounds bliss!

I've tried aldi today. £83 but £15 of that was kids pyjamas which they needed and bird food. Then anything I got in aldi that I had in my ocado basket ready for delivery tomorrow, I've taken out. Ocado is still at £80 odd though and theres nothing there tbh.

I think I prefer Lidl to Aldi but that may be because it's a Saturday so aldi was busy and I also had one of my teens with me so couldn't really concentrate compared to my usual midweek Lidl shops usually on my own. Hmmm

DH says it will take a few weeks to see the savings. I don't know. In my head I know Lidl and Aldi are obviously cheaper than ocado but it doesn't seem it yet. I think I need to do a full month and see.

Good news on the thing that cannot be named car though. £400. So the Isa will cover that. But there a few other issues that will need fixing soon apparently that will be over £1000 but for now it's ok to just do the £400 job.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 21/05/2022 17:05

Aftrenoon everyone such a gorgeous day 2 wash loads dried on the line Smile
NSD, except l sorted and paid for 8 cards with my Prepay amount on Funky pigeon, used a 40% off cards voucher FOUR40 , so posted and with the cards it cost me £17.16 minus the 25% off for using prepay so that is £12.87 including postage for 8 cards or £1.60 each card , personalised and first class postage . Bear in mind you can do these well in advance and first class stamps are 95p !
So the card costs me 65p , admittedly they are the smallest cards but l am well impressed with them tbh. because they are personalised with their names and photos if you want Smile

Gensola · 21/05/2022 17:07

decaff I know what you mean, it masks the cheapness when you still have a lot of stuff you need to get elsewhere!

I have meal planned too:

Sat - out at lovely neighbours
Sun - lasagne and salad
Mon - lamb and three bean chilli with couscous and salad
Tues - not sure as it’s our night to nurse MIL and will prob be a COOK ready meal she chooses and I heat up
Weds - out at a mixer event at work
Thurs - Chicken, Chorizo and Bean One Pot
Fri - another lovely neighbour is having us over

we are flat out with nursing MIL who has been diagnosed with terminal cancer but our neighbours who all know as we asked them to keep eye on house the days we are away are all so nice and have offered to cook for us so we don’t have to.

the lasagna and chilli are batch cooked and in freezer already. The chicken and chorizo one pot I’ll make to serve 8 and freeze loads of it for future weeks.

has anyone here got a bread maker? Do I want one?

CurlsandCurves · 21/05/2022 18:12

@TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans 2 loads here too, I do love a good drying day.
@Gensola sorry to hear about your mil, sounds like you’ve got some lovely supportive neighbours.

£8 spent on ds1 passport photos. And 59p on carrots.

Timetoswitch · 21/05/2022 18:23

Sorry to hear about your mil gen, your neighbours sound lovely and so kind.

We inherited a bread maker, we’ve used it once

grrrr to dunelm!!

I think yesterday and today were NSD. One of my returns I posted yesterday was processed at midnight. Which makes a change on waiting 2-3 weeks.

WreckTangled · 21/05/2022 18:29

I ordered some batteries from Amazon for £3. So LSD here.

I took DD's passport photo on my phone. It only took six days from posting to receiving the new one back.

Hairband100 · 21/05/2022 18:34

Decafflatteplease · 21/05/2022 16:48

@northender hope you are having a lovely weekend away it sounds bliss!

I've tried aldi today. £83 but £15 of that was kids pyjamas which they needed and bird food. Then anything I got in aldi that I had in my ocado basket ready for delivery tomorrow, I've taken out. Ocado is still at £80 odd though and theres nothing there tbh.

I think I prefer Lidl to Aldi but that may be because it's a Saturday so aldi was busy and I also had one of my teens with me so couldn't really concentrate compared to my usual midweek Lidl shops usually on my own. Hmmm

DH says it will take a few weeks to see the savings. I don't know. In my head I know Lidl and Aldi are obviously cheaper than ocado but it doesn't seem it yet. I think I need to do a full month and see.

Good news on the thing that cannot be named car though. £400. So the Isa will cover that. But there a few other issues that will need fixing soon apparently that will be over £1000 but for now it's ok to just do the £400 job.

I think its the aisle of surprise 😂 that sometimes nobbles good intentions with Aldi and Lidl.
I take a list and am quite strict with DH

I tend to take a list and price up before I go rather than have free range in A or L as you end up over spending on "stuff"
I also much prefer Lidl but do a monthly Ocado shop for stuff I cant get there.
The price differences are astonishing -skin on fries 89p in Lidl compared to £3.30 Ocado but also 200g more.
I like the 3 for £10 on fish with Ocado , meat is bought monthly from farm shop ( not huge meat eaters)
Another trick is pushing back the shops so making a 7 day shop last 10 before I go again.
Whats your weekly budget ? @Decafflatteplease

Decafflatteplease · 21/05/2022 18:43

@Hairband100 I'm a bit embarrassed to admit we don't have a budget 😱

But generally it's around...
£150 on ocado although this Includes toiletries and cleaning stuff most weeks
£50 top up at m and s
Around £20 butcher's
£30 a week school dinners

£70 a month milkman
We usually do a monthly Lidl shop for around £100 but am slowly trying to replace ocado with Lidl or Aldi or at least half and half and am trying to go to Lidl in the week now to then buy less at my m and s top-up.

So around £1000 a month.

For context there's 6 of us. Various dietary needs and restrictions. I generally cook 2-3 different meals of an evening although some nights it's similar eg if it's spaghetti bolognaise for example with garlic bread I don't need to cook anything else as some children will just have spaghetti. Tonight was 3 different meals albeit simple. Curry, pizzas, nuggets and chips

Decafflatteplease · 21/05/2022 18:48

Joining in witj a rough meal plan

Sunday..... homemade lasagne, brocolli, garlic bread. Homemade Mac cheese.

Mon...slow cooker chicken tacos / chicken nuggets and rice

Tue....not sure yet

Weds.... homemade turkey meatballs, spaghetti, garlic bread

That's as far as I've got so far!

Hairband100 · 21/05/2022 18:55

Decafflatteplease · 21/05/2022 18:43

@Hairband100 I'm a bit embarrassed to admit we don't have a budget 😱

But generally it's around...
£150 on ocado although this Includes toiletries and cleaning stuff most weeks
£50 top up at m and s
Around £20 butcher's
£30 a week school dinners

£70 a month milkman
We usually do a monthly Lidl shop for around £100 but am slowly trying to replace ocado with Lidl or Aldi or at least half and half and am trying to go to Lidl in the week now to then buy less at my m and s top-up.

So around £1000 a month.

For context there's 6 of us. Various dietary needs and restrictions. I generally cook 2-3 different meals of an evening although some nights it's similar eg if it's spaghetti bolognaise for example with garlic bread I don't need to cook anything else as some children will just have spaghetti. Tonight was 3 different meals albeit simple. Curry, pizzas, nuggets and chips

Thats a big spend but your income must obviously allow for it?
Do you meal plan?
This is the secret for me, meal plan, check what Ive got in and then list.
4 of us here, some dietary restrictions.
I also batch cook so that the allergic one can just have a meal out of the freezer.
3 meals a night is exhausting!
Was the £70 a typo for Milkman?

AdoraBell · 21/05/2022 18:58

Frugal win 😀 went out for coffee, local place, and they had an event on with free food. Had lush pulled pork and chips 😋

DH spent £60 in B&Q, garden stuff.

Decafflatteplease · 21/05/2022 19:01

No not a typo 😱 but that's a month not a week and is milk bread eggs and juice

I'm a SAHM and carer. DH has a fairly high wage but we still need to cut back hence being on this thread. One step at a time....

WreckTangled · 21/05/2022 19:03

Adora that sounds delicious!

I meal plan dinners, lunches, breakfast and snacks. I also look on the Aldi website before I go to see what's on offer. I will use a 500g pack of mince and it will do enough for two meals for the four of us. I also buy the part bales baguette to add to meals for everyone else sometimes to bulk them out a bit. I might do lasagne next week actually, the dc love it.

Gen sorry about your mil what a hard time for you. I'm pleased you have supportive neighbours

Hairband100 · 21/05/2022 19:08

Decafflatteplease · 21/05/2022 19:01

No not a typo 😱 but that's a month not a week and is milk bread eggs and juice

I'm a SAHM and carer. DH has a fairly high wage but we still need to cut back hence being on this thread. One step at a time....

I was wondering if you bathed in milk ?😂

Lots of good tips and so glad to see EWFL is back on, but miss Greg even if hes a bit annoying, he and Chris had good chemistry.

marthasmum · 21/05/2022 19:08

Spendy day today.
£102 on pub meal out with DPs family - but we don’t see them often so nice to catch up
£97 Costco (more than I intended as always, but boring stuff we need like cat and dog food)
£128 petrol (it’s almost 30p a litre cheaper at Costco!)
£74 for the month at butchers

So lots of spends but pretty much accounted for.
I was interested to see your food budget decaff. There are 5 of us and I aim for £600 a month but tend to overspend. My milk bill is £50 a month so I understand yours!
it sounds like the need for different meals complicates things but I’m guessing it is a need.
also I know what you mean about Ocado v Aldi. I’ve moved to Aldi from Tesco - definitely cheaper for what I buy, but I go round chucking lots of treats in for the kids as it’s so cheap and then it always ends up being more than planned. It pains me to pay more in Tesco but the scan and shop thing (or online option) keeps me in line a bit more.

Bottom line I guess is I like food and eating and we are not in the situation of absolutely having to stick to a budget - just that I could use the money in other places.

mrs I used the funky pigeon code too but couldn’t get it as cheap as yours. What is the prepay option please?

gen sorry to hear about your mother in law. DSis and I are realising that we will need to do more for the DPs quite soon. I’m a bit daunted as to how that’s going to work with a very FT job and them being 2 hours away from us. Luckily they could also afford to pay for some help.

WreckTangled · 21/05/2022 19:49

Just spent £40 on some low carb staples (pasta, wraps, lasagne sheets chocolate) it doesn't come out of our food budget though, I pay out of my personal spends. Not such a lsd after all.

Hairband100 · 21/05/2022 20:08

I agree @marthasmum
Sometimes spending a bit more saves you money if it reduces the impulse buys.
We have the milkman also.
Yes it costs more per pint but reduces plastic, supports a local business and means I dont end up buying lots of extras popping out for milk.
It also stops the "We've run out " dramas😁

WreckTangled · 21/05/2022 20:15

We don't use that much milk really. I usually buy 4 pints and we might have to buy another 4 during the week. Depends if ds is having ready brek or not

marthasmum · 21/05/2022 21:24

Well I’ve just proved my own point by going to Aldi intending to spend £90 and spending £120 😳
To be fair I needed a few toiletries etc and it will last 10 days, but there was a large amount of snackage. I’m going to try Tesco for the rest of the month. Plus, I think I need to rotate the snacks as I tend to buy everything, every week - need to vary it up a bit more.