Girlie I am starting to come to that conclusion too. About 7 years ago I moved out for 3 months and that helped for about 4 years as I suppose it forced him to see that taking me for granted wasn't guaranteed. I'm coming to the stage where I'm saying what's in it for me?
We got a wedding invite during the week, a neighbour who we are fond of, and we have a trip with my parents booked so can't go to wedding. My reaction was 'aww no I'm so disappointed to be missing on their big day, plus the occasion with all our neighbours' His was I suppose we'll still have to give them a present.
Yesterday he was off and said he would do the grocery shopping, which I had planned to do after work. There were some clothes to be exchanged in Penneys(Primark) for dd and groceries were aldi f&v in f&v shop and a library book to be returned. He hadn't the dc dd was at school, ds with au pair. Got a phone call what's this about penneys, does that need to be done, why have I go to f&v shop why not just aldi, I'll be under pressure if I've to do all this sh*t. I replied calmly and said fine I'll do it, I'll be under pressure sat as per usual. Response was to hang up on me! 
End result all he did was aldi. I will have both dc with me on Sat, hungry after doing swimming lessons. Plus I must do the baking on sat eve for dd's party on Sunday too 
Sorry rant over guys
Fencing I will check our mortgage statement tonight as I'm not sure what the split is in insurance and I'm able to access it online
Fluffy matching knickers what are they 
I've very functional debenhams bras in black and nude, also have nude and black underwear from penneys very basic range
Don't how are you feeling today? Great about the job opportunity definitely apply. Great that you've everything in for the weekend away too
I did really well in the frugaleers stakes last night purchased frozen lego castle for dd and a construction type lego thing for the boy she's having her party with both 20% off which finishes today
They're having a cupcake decorating station so I went to tesco for sprinkles - all reduced by 75%, well all the ones I bought so I spent about €8 on €32 worth of stuff. Delighted.
Also bought a luxury jar of korma sauce which says at end of instructions to add half a tin of coconut milk, I will dilute further and add in some curry paste as I have my parents to visit for the weekend and this will be dinner sat night. Far cheaper than getting a takeaway, bought a bag of mini poppadums for €1.50 instead of naan bread at €1.50 for 2.
Bought a white vest top reduced to €3.75 also, my current one is very grey.
I use Reep Rewards app which pays out 15c per receipt. Did my Tesco shop in 3 separate transactions to earn 45c instead of 15c. Also helped my budget as top was out of personal spends, cupcake stuff is being split between us and other mum, and remainder was grocery budget using joint account card.
Tell me about lakeland heated airers[intrigued] I'm allergic to clothes horses, so it's either clothes line or dryer and in winter the few bits that can't go in dryer go on racks on radiators.
Well done to anyone who has read to the end of this epic post. Can you tell I opened it up in a separate window