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Covid before Christmas!

100 replies

clarepetal · 23/12/2023 07:47

Just tested positive this morning. Anyone else? I guess that's Christmas at home now....

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Custardpudding · 23/12/2023 23:35

We have it and cancelled visitors. I’ve cried too. It’s the first time I’ve had covid and I’ve been so ill. Very bad cold, tired, coughed a bit, not loads, but voice has gone. Shivery and achy and on day 6. I’ve tested so not to pass to elderly vulnerable family

HalloweenIsDone · 23/12/2023 23:41

I tested today. Just out of curiosity really. My partner, one DD and I have it. I'm really ill and in a lot of pain with aches. To top it off I found my DD has nits as well so rather than sleeping it off I'm nit combing everyone's hair. Partner is working all Christmas so it's just me and the kids. Tonight was going to be our Christmas. I'm so pissed off.

Barbadossunset · 23/12/2023 23:50

Dh and I have got it. We both feel low and lacking energy and I feel irritable and short-tempered, for example felt irrational rage when I dropped toothpaste cap and it rolled under bath.
I think we got it at the Carol Service last Sunday - it was a crowded church and apparently singing passes it on easily.

Scarletttulips · 23/12/2023 23:53

If you are sick and contagious you wouldn't want to pass it to anyone especially just before Xmas.

I’ve had it twice on mandatory testing, no symptoms either time - I could’ve had it many times over.

I would also test to see elderly relatives - hardly a mega expense.

Custardpudding · 24/12/2023 07:17

I think mine came from Carol service too 😭

izzy2076 · 24/12/2023 08:19

Me too. I tested out of curiosity as I felt very odd on Thursday. Bed bound and miserable now! Lots of aches (epically in fingers!) congested eyes, sick...

buonnatale · 24/12/2023 09:01

Tested positive this morning too. Have had worse colds but were seeing vulnerable people this evening so thought I should check...

BigHoops · 24/12/2023 09:27

Found my people! Just tested positive. Very strong line that came up straight away. Been feeling lousy the last few days and scratchy throat yesterday, then tight chest. Feverish sleep so tested this morning.

Absolutely gutted. Was going to go to the panto today, parents will take the DC (DH also not feeling well although tested negative). Cancelled plans to visit in laws after Christmas. I feel so guilty, plus my 73 year old mum isn't boosted (she chose not to be) so am worried about that. But she is here now (they live several hours away) so all I can do is try and avoid close contact.

Only had Covid once before in 2021, and it spoiled a much anticipated holiday. Seems it likes to play nasty tricks on me!

Don't feel great, got the cough and feel very congested. But I'm up and about. Will take it easy though. The thing about Covid is you don't know what it's going to do, or how bad it will get!

Sympathy to you all. It's shit.

Daisies12 · 24/12/2023 09:29

Your poor partner you’ve ruined it by being foolish and testing. We’re ill, no way I’d test. Just get on with your life

Floofydawg · 24/12/2023 09:37

People have all been jabbed now though. It's not the panic it used to be. I wouldn't be cancelling Christmas because of it unless I felt very ill.

BigHoops · 24/12/2023 09:41

To the previous two posters - I was last boosted in 2021, so pretty sure that's worn off! Regarding testing, we were going to visit vulnerable relatives, would you have me taking chances on that??

I'm never usually ill. But as was the case last time, whilst I'm hopefully not as ill as some with it, Covid is not a mild cold for me. I had a strong suspicion it wasn't which is why I tested! Never usually do so.

BigHoops · 24/12/2023 09:42

Why do these threads descend into petty bickering?? We are all feeling sorry for ourselves, plans are ruined, some people don't have the food or gifts in yet as Covid has messed that up for them. Whining about folk being stupid for testing is just unkind and pointless.

OneMoreTime23 · 24/12/2023 09:42

Husband tested positive on Friday. Had been struggling with a cold all week but got breathless on a dog walk and thought he had better check. (He has had all but the most recent boosters as a severe asthmatic.). Doesn’t seem to have passed it on.

All 4 of the people we were meant to be spending Xmas day with are clinically vulnerable (one had surgery on 21st) so we’re home alone and doing Xmas on 6th Jan instead.

user14699084786 · 24/12/2023 09:44

50% of our household have tested positive…really hoping the rest of us avoid it as we have on previous infections!

It’s been just as bad as previous times - bad cough, fever, snotty nose. I also blame the carol concert - people dragging themselves along “because it’s Christmas” and spreading it as they go!

Barnabusbear · 24/12/2023 10:06

Daisies12 · 24/12/2023 09:29

Your poor partner you’ve ruined it by being foolish and testing. We’re ill, no way I’d test. Just get on with your life

Says thee on the Covid board Hmm

Rainyblue · 24/12/2023 10:21

Yes it was the aches that made me suspicious it might be Covid. I’m not feeling very snotty but head, neck, back and chest hurt.
Plus coughing but to be honest I was coughing anyway due to the recent chest infection so that’s no different.

Generally no I wouldn’t bother testing as the advice is that you don’t need to test, but we were due to be seeing elderly relatives so I felt it was the right thing to do.
I am not in a fit state to host anyway!

Whiskers4 · 24/12/2023 10:27

Covid tests selling like crazy at work. Nice to know there's a fair amount of who care about others more than themselves.

Hope you all feel better soon and can enjoy Xmas even if it's not how you planned

WombatChocolate · 24/12/2023 10:36

Those who wouldn’t test whilst feeling grotty in these few days before Christmas - are you seeing relatives in their 90s or those undergoing treatment which reduce their immune system? Are you seriously saying that under these circumstances you wouldn’t test??

Jeffsmeffsmiff · 24/12/2023 11:43

Really annoys me that people refuse to test. We're hosting family for Christmas. One family member told us that they visited a friend with COVID a few days ago and were very annoyed about not realising before going round. Now they have a " bad cold" but it's "definitely nothing to worry about". Were shocked and a bit outraged that we've asked them to test before they come. They were just going to come anyway. DH is vulnerable (but has been boosted) but the rest of us either haven't been jabbed in ages (years?) Or are kids so haven't at all. I realise that if we got it it would probably not make us super ill but I still don't want it. And especially not at one of the very few times in the year when we are all off work and school and looking forward to spending time together. We've got loads on that we've paid for as well - panto, skating etc. they were happy just to risk that because they "really want to see the kids at Christmas" I mean I'm not really happy to host someone with a "bad cold" anyway if I'm honest, but I guess I'll just be expected to put up with that. Defo not going to if it's COVID though.

YouSayChorizoIsayChorizo · 24/12/2023 12:00

SallyWD · 23/12/2023 08:54

I'm tired of people saying "Why did you test?" all the time as if it's perfectly acceptable to ignore covid and pass it to elderly relatives. I keep seeing people on here saying "treat it like a cold. If your symptoms are mild carry on as normal". This is just stupid and irresponsible advice!! Makes me so angry.
Six weeks ago I managed to pass Covid to my 83 year old mother. I had no idea I had it. I was feeling great, no symptoms when I first saw her. She ended up becoming very ill. She collapsed, was unconscious, we had to call an ambulance. She then spent several days suffering from delerium, thinking she was a child and asking for her mother. She was too weak to walk so I more or less carry her to the toilet. She kept wetting herself. All because of covid. Six weeks later she's a lot better but still not right, still weaker than usual and worryingly still confused at times.
My previously healthy 43 year old friend has lost her job due to long Covid and now uses a mobility scooter.
But anyway, why bother testing?? Just carry on as normal, merrily spreading it.

Totally agree. I didn't even know "Why did you test?" was a thing until I came on this thread. Seems extraordinary to me - surely the question is "Why didn't you test?" - but it's an aspect of society uncovered by the pandemic that's just depressing, and having covid is bad enough.

I caught what I thought was a mild cold some time in the last week or two. Have since been to London twice - PP3-masked on the train/tube and in shops both times, but not in restaurant or theatre - and have been out and about locally. Felt rough after a day of festive gatherings, but just thought i was getting a bit old for rich food and alcohol.

Then yesterday, Saturday 23rd, suddenly I couldn't taste or smell anything. Ping! Isn't that what people had during covid? More out of curiosity than anything, because covid is so off my radar, I did a test and there it was, for the first time - the dreaded T line. Turns out DH has it too, but is over the worst and is ok for taste/smell.

My cold symptoms have mostly gone, though I don't feel like doing much and can't talk for long without straining my voice. But the taste thing is a real downer. Everyone's been really good and there's been lots of rearranging. Now I just have to face prepping food I won't personally enjoy - must be what it's like to work in a restaurant!

What bugs me is all the media attention on the Covid Enquiry - where did it go wrong, who should we blame for what, as if it's just a bad memory - when all the time JN.1 is spreading merrily through the population.

userxx · 24/12/2023 12:17

@Barnabusbear it comes up in active. I didn’t realise the covid board was still going to be honest, it seems like a lifetime ago 🤷‍♀️

Barnabusbear · 24/12/2023 12:33

userxx · 24/12/2023 12:17

@Barnabusbear it comes up in active. I didn’t realise the covid board was still going to be honest, it seems like a lifetime ago 🤷‍♀️

Yeah, it's all us sheeple educated people who care about others

Thecovidchristmasfairy · 24/12/2023 20:56

Another one who has tested positive today. Gutted. Cancelled hosting on Xmas day and visiting family on boxing day. Luckily all presents sorted and wrapped and food bought. DH is brilliant so has swooped the kids up and given them a normal Xmas eve and is busily sorting everything else. But Christmas is my time. I just love it! Sadly going downhill by the hour.

wonderingwhatlifemeans · 24/12/2023 21:22

I had it Christmas last year. Tested positive the day I was due to travel to stay in a hotel with my family. Lost the hotel money and we got Christmas dinner from Whole foods delivery!!!

AngelasEyelash · 24/12/2023 22:48

Had a snotty cough all week but only tested positive this morning. Family are here, but a party tonight & drinks with 2 sets of friends tomorrow are off for me - some vulnerable people there. Everyone else (no symptoms) is out now so I've had a bit of Christmas cake & am watching Christmas films. Disappointed, but I wouldn't feel comfortable mingling knowing that I could pass the virus on. Not the Christmas i envisaged!

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