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Myths re lockdown was wrong

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Betsyhilton · 21/10/2023 20:10

Just seen someone on another thread basically trying to claim that lockdown didnt reduce deaths. The contested John Hopkins survey seems to be encouraging people who basically behaved selfishly, ignored medical advice and did what they liked to now claim retrospectively that they just knew lockdown was wrong.

AIBU to think these are just basically selfish irresponsible people who ignored official advice at the time because it caused them inconvenience and are now jumping on any theory to try to justify their self centred behavior?

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Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 22/10/2023 08:11

What happened in the third world? Countries or regions where there are few medical services , and very little social security ? Where people tend to live at very close quarters, with poor sanitation facilities? Social distancing would be a fantasy.

I expected to see horrendous reports of devastating death rates , bodies literally ‘piled high’ . Remembering the crisis of HIV/AIDS in many places, I expected something worse. As far as I could tell, this did not occur, although it is difficult to access reliable data now that thé WHO is not an impartial organisation. So why didn’t Covid have the same effect there as historical pandemics? Is it something to do with the age profile of their populations? #

Unlike many PP, I don’t blame the Government for the initial response. Virtually every developed country followed the same route, many with more draconian measures than we adopted. On the party political side , I remember the Opposition calling for longer and stricter lockdown when relaxation was suggested, so no prizes there.

We also forget that many citizens were demanding more stringent measures, and actively policing their neighbours’ compliance. So while I personally would have followed a more relaxed regime, I’ m not sure it would have been universally welcomed.

I think what Covid showed was the prevalent terror of death, not just for oneself ( an understandable although ultimately futile concern) but as a concept for ‘everyone’. I also think that that terror was seized upon by many institutions as an opportunity to move closer to a totalitarian control of the population , which many governmental and nongovernmental institutions find very attractive.

#I’ve just remembered that I have an acquaintance with mission connections in a very deprived third world country, so I shall try to find out .

Goingsomewhere · 22/10/2023 08:18

Lookingatthesunset · 22/10/2023 00:54

I started reading this thread but it was making me too cross so I have skipped pages of it.

Lockdown clearly saved lives - but that wasn't the primary reason for it. The NHS could never have coped. In that sense, it was the only thing to do. It wasn't as if the UK was the only country to implement it!

I felt safe at home. I had my family home with me. I actually remember it as quite a lovely time - basically "stop the world and I got off". The weather was lovely, and there was always online. I started ordering groceries etc online, and I have kept that up. I always hated supermarkets anyway.

I got to work from home. It took Covid to truly propel organisations into the 21st century in terms of flexible working. I wrote a dissertation on the benefits of wfh (which concluded that hybrid was best from most points of view) in 2005. When I wrote it, I thought we would have moved forward sooner than 2020, because the tech was there, and I never foresaw that it would take a pandemic to force the change!! Pre-Covid, we wouldn't have been permitted to wfh even half a day!!

For me, the worst effects of lockdown were that my DC3 didn't get to sit GCSEs or AS levels. I definitely feel that after one year or no public exams, there should have been mitigations put in place to protect students and allow them to sit exams. As a result, my intelligent DC, who isn't great at exam technique has missed out on that practice, and didn't get into their first choice uni. Plus they won't have to sit exams at uni until finals. DC is sitting on a 1st moving into second year, but them's the breaks.

I realise and understand that there were people way more affected by lockdown than we were as a family. I still think it was the right thing to do, at the time.

Lockdown crapped up your kids' University lives while you sat in the sun? but 'them's the breaks'. What a joke

TrashedSofa · 22/10/2023 08:24

I don’t know either way but many aspects of lockdown sere unnecessarily cruel and ridiculous. I often think about single parents living in tower blocks with no garden access. No way should these people have had an hour a day outside. Utter nonsense. Elderly people on their own/people dying alone/giving birth alone. Utterly preposterous. Disgraceful decision making

This is a good point @BeethovenNinth. There are lots of things we could've avoided doing and still locked down. Nothing to say people couldn't have been encouraged to spend lots of time outdoors. In England, we never had the one hour a day rule, although they did in Wales, but people like those you mention often needed more than we got in order to facilitate them in exercising. Elderly people with no gardens who need to sit for regular rests if out walking, for example, needed to be told this was fine.

Obviously you've said you don't agree with hard lockdown, so this doesn't apply to you, but I'm always surprised people who think it was the right thing to do and want it to be an option in future pandemics aren't more keen to make this point. If I felt that as strongly as some posters, I'd be spelling out how we could get it less wrong, in order to try and keep people onside with the idea!

Fatcat00 · 22/10/2023 08:29

Differentstarts · 21/10/2023 23:24

A con? so me being hospitalised for over a month nearly dying and now suffering from long covid to the point I can no longer work just imaginary then. Are the 4 people I know who died of covid not actually dead then since covid is a con. Just because covid never effected you personally doesn't mean its not real. It's incredibly disrespectful to make statements like this. When someone dies of cancer or cardiac arrest do you go up to their families and say its a con that didn't happen. Do better.

No, you “do better”. Covid was obviously real as a virus. The whole pantomime that went with it was a con. Couldn’t care less if you find that disrespectful, it’s the truth.

TurquoiseMermaid · 22/10/2023 08:32

HelinaHandcart · 22/10/2023 00:13

My goodness, people are arguing that China OVERstated the number of Covid deaths?

Just loopy.

Mumsnet has been pretty well taken over by Covid deniers. There are a lot of antivax conspiracy theory types who hide it under the guise of posts like the ones on this thread, not coming right out to say they think Covid was a hoax, but downplaying it.

TurquoiseMermaid · 22/10/2023 08:32

Fatcat00 · 22/10/2023 08:29

No, you “do better”. Covid was obviously real as a virus. The whole pantomime that went with it was a con. Couldn’t care less if you find that disrespectful, it’s the truth.

Case in point.

You can't argue with conspiracy theorists who believe Covid was "a con."

EggEggEgg · 22/10/2023 08:35

@Neurodiversitydoctor

You obviously don't work in education or child development then. I have been doing this job 15 years, I have never seen such profound and unrecognised developmental delay. There has been a massive increase in speech delay of children entering reception up to 25 -50 % in some areas, it was always more like 10% before. It's not just the speech, they aren't toliet trained, they don't eat with cutlery, they can't share. For those babies born into deprivation at the end of 2019, I'm not sure they will ever catch up. So many of those vital first 1,000 days were spent in isolation.

I apologise, but some of this doesn't make much sense to me. Who is responsible primarily for toilet training and basic skills training? Isn't it parents and guardians? Why would lockdown and isolation change this profoundly?

EggEggEgg · 22/10/2023 08:37

@Fatcat00

No, you “do better”. Covid was obviously real as a virus. The whole pantomime that went with it was a con. Couldn’t care less if you find that disrespectful, it’s the truth.

Why did most countries put in place much the same mitigations then?

justasking111 · 22/10/2023 08:37

Xmas 2019 my DIL had it as did the rest of her family, she ended up in hospital medics were baffled by the cough. She had cleaned for Chinese visitors in their Airbnb.

Early 2020 DS in university halls had it as did everyone at university he said. A few went to hospital.

Planes flew around the world students returning from Christmas and New year breaks. Skiing holidays.

So it was far too late to shutdown really . If we had done it sooner I do think that it would have helped.

TrashedSofa · 22/10/2023 08:44

EggEggEgg · 22/10/2023 08:35

@Neurodiversitydoctor

You obviously don't work in education or child development then. I have been doing this job 15 years, I have never seen such profound and unrecognised developmental delay. There has been a massive increase in speech delay of children entering reception up to 25 -50 % in some areas, it was always more like 10% before. It's not just the speech, they aren't toliet trained, they don't eat with cutlery, they can't share. For those babies born into deprivation at the end of 2019, I'm not sure they will ever catch up. So many of those vital first 1,000 days were spent in isolation.

I apologise, but some of this doesn't make much sense to me. Who is responsible primarily for toilet training and basic skills training? Isn't it parents and guardians? Why would lockdown and isolation change this profoundly?

I think a lot of it is parents struggling at the same time too, isn't it? And then also DC from families facing particular challenges generally benefit particularly from things like playgroups that weren't in place during the lockdowns. DC who entered reception in 2022 and 2023 would've been those where there was interference with free nursery hours, and obviously we provide that for a reason. Am not in child development though so no doubt @Neurodiversitydoctor could give a more comprehensive explanation. This is just what I have heard from people I know working in schools and nurseries.

Dymaxion · 22/10/2023 09:00

Yes, actually, the research does show that a close knit community can prevent many mh problems, particularly things like depression.

Does anyone have links to this research ?

1dayatatime · 22/10/2023 09:15

"Did the forcing people to stay in their homes and closing workplaces and schools slow the spread of a contagious disease and prevent illness and deaths?"

Absolutely it did

Did the forcing people to stay at home, closing workplaces and schools result in a greater number of deaths in the long run and massive societal and educational damage "

Absolutely it did through missed cancer diagnosis, increase in cardiovascular deaths, mental health illness. Massive backlog on the NHS. Children's education permanently damaged. Plus £500 billion of additional debt that means there is no money available for fixing this damage.

Quite simply it was a choice of:

Do you save one life today but that will mean the loss of 5 lives tomorrow or do you accept the preventable loss of one life today in order to save 5 lives tomorrow.

And Governments around the to varying degrees chose the former because Governments only care about the short term and not the long term (that's another Government's problem) and through mass hysteria made possible by the internet and social media.

Right now flu and associated pneumonia cause more deaths each winter than Covid ever does. But no one in their right mind is suggesting we shut down the country for 3 months in order to reduce flu and pneumonia deaths.

Lastly this was all clearly explained at the time by a lot of people who were shut down as either covid deniers or anti vax. So it is most definitely not a case of hindsight thinking.

MyOtherNameToday · 22/10/2023 09:18

tpxqi · 21/10/2023 21:25

It’s almost farcical when you see people walking around with masks still. And the you get the odd batshit thread on here by someone asking whether they should isolate because they tested positive for Covid.

Seriously, it’s scary that these people walk among us.

I had to respond to this utterly stupid comment. Some of us still wear masks because we are medically vulnerable to Covid. I don't ask others to wear them. I wear them for 6 weeks after hard-core immunosuppressive treatment because I have very little immune system left, can't get vaccines for 4 weeks afterwards and don't especially want any more lesions on my brain if that's alright. Covid gave me a few new ones last time and that was plenty thanks.

I wear a mask because for those weeks I'm very at risk but I don't sit at home because I'm a working parent with clients to see. They don't bat a fucking eyelid at me wearing a mask because they're not complete fuckwits at this stage after a global pandemic and they realise that yes, some of us will always be more at risk from things like Covid and flu.

And yes I will indeed be 'walking among you' but frankly I'm very lucky to be walking at all, I wasn't for a while after Covid relapsed the underlying condition I didn't know I had.

LadyEloise1 · 22/10/2023 09:21

I would like to know, with the benefit now of hindsight, what country fared best through the Covid pandemic.

Sweden, at one point was being heavily condemned for its policy which differed very much from its Scandinavian neighbours.

Who was right ?

ruffler45 · 22/10/2023 09:25

tpxqi · 21/10/2023 21:48

This poster swallowed and has now regurgitated the governments dictionary of spin and hyperbole.

War against a new enemy? Oh dear.

So how would you have saved the world then?

Are you a expert in managing pandemics, viruses etc etc?

Dymaxion · 22/10/2023 09:26

Right now flu and associated pneumonia cause more deaths each winter than Covid ever does. But no one in their right mind is suggesting we shut down the country for 3 months in order to reduce flu and pneumonia deaths.

I am not sure that is completely right ?

https://www.ons.gov.uk/aboutus/transparencyandgovernance/freedomofinformationfoi/influenzadeathsintheukbetween2012to2022

Influenza deaths in the UK between 2012 to 2022 - Office for National Statistics

https://www.ons.gov.uk/aboutus/transparencyandgovernance/freedomofinformationfoi/influenzadeathsintheukbetween2012to2022

TrashedSofa · 22/10/2023 09:33

People complaining about others wearing masks are being twats. Nobody has any idea what the rationale of a random stranger is.

ruffler45 · 22/10/2023 09:36

ruffler45 · 22/10/2023 09:25

So how would you have saved the world then?

Are you a expert in managing pandemics, viruses etc etc?

Did you know from the first time the virus was mentioned what the world should do and what would happen? Or is this with the benefit of hindsight?

Neurodiversitydoctor · 22/10/2023 09:46

EggEggEgg · 22/10/2023 08:35

@Neurodiversitydoctor

You obviously don't work in education or child development then. I have been doing this job 15 years, I have never seen such profound and unrecognised developmental delay. There has been a massive increase in speech delay of children entering reception up to 25 -50 % in some areas, it was always more like 10% before. It's not just the speech, they aren't toliet trained, they don't eat with cutlery, they can't share. For those babies born into deprivation at the end of 2019, I'm not sure they will ever catch up. So many of those vital first 1,000 days were spent in isolation.

I apologise, but some of this doesn't make much sense to me. Who is responsible primarily for toilet training and basic skills training? Isn't it parents and guardians? Why would lockdown and isolation change this profoundly?

Routine health visitor visits were stopped
Nurseries closed
Informal support networks disbanded.

I want to make it really clear I am not talking about middle class DCs doing potato prints and turf trays with their furloughed parents and zoom calls with granny.

I am talking about either single parent families or families where their only employment might have been insecure and not eligible for furlough or a keyworker. Older siblings no longer at school and therefore getting fed at midday, digital poverty. Do I need to go on ? If you really can't see or understand how that might impact a child's development I don't know what to say. This is how between a quarter and a third of children grow up in this country.

Fatcat00 · 22/10/2023 09:49

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inamarina · 22/10/2023 09:54

WestwardHo1 · 21/10/2023 21:11

So OP you know "many" people who died of COVID?

Funny because I personally don't know any. And no, I'm not a Covid denier and yes I was fully jabbed and yes I obeyed lockdown rules until I really started to worry I was losing my mind. I wasn't prepared to totally lose it.

I’m the same, I don’t know anyone who died from Covid.
That’s anecdotal of course, but I do wonder about those people who claim to know many who died - are they talking about people the personally knew or cases they heard about on the internet?
We followed most rules apart from the particularly silly ones.

1dayatatime · 22/10/2023 09:57

@tpxqi

"It’s almost farcical when you see people walking around with masks "

+++

Wearing face masks is common practice during winter flu / cold season in the China / Japan etc way before Covid became a thing.

It serves two purposes of stopping you getting a cold / flu / covid etc and secondly if you do have a cold / flu / Covid it stops you spreading it.

I have no issue if people choose to wear one I just object when it is compulsory.

Parker231 · 22/10/2023 10:00

inamarina · 22/10/2023 09:54

I’m the same, I don’t know anyone who died from Covid.
That’s anecdotal of course, but I do wonder about those people who claim to know many who died - are they talking about people the personally knew or cases they heard about on the internet?
We followed most rules apart from the particularly silly ones.

We have two friends who died of Covid. One in his mid 50’s and the other early 70’s - neither had any pre existing health conditions. Both died in the first year of Covid just before the vaccine rollout and we will always wonder if lockdown had happened earlier (as we now know it should have) and they’d had at least their first vaccine, perhaps they would still be alive.

Eddyraisins · 22/10/2023 10:01

1dayatatime · 22/10/2023 09:15

"Did the forcing people to stay in their homes and closing workplaces and schools slow the spread of a contagious disease and prevent illness and deaths?"

Absolutely it did

Did the forcing people to stay at home, closing workplaces and schools result in a greater number of deaths in the long run and massive societal and educational damage "

Absolutely it did through missed cancer diagnosis, increase in cardiovascular deaths, mental health illness. Massive backlog on the NHS. Children's education permanently damaged. Plus £500 billion of additional debt that means there is no money available for fixing this damage.

Quite simply it was a choice of:

Do you save one life today but that will mean the loss of 5 lives tomorrow or do you accept the preventable loss of one life today in order to save 5 lives tomorrow.

And Governments around the to varying degrees chose the former because Governments only care about the short term and not the long term (that's another Government's problem) and through mass hysteria made possible by the internet and social media.

Right now flu and associated pneumonia cause more deaths each winter than Covid ever does. But no one in their right mind is suggesting we shut down the country for 3 months in order to reduce flu and pneumonia deaths.

Lastly this was all clearly explained at the time by a lot of people who were shut down as either covid deniers or anti vax. So it is most definitely not a case of hindsight thinking.

How do you know that it saved one at the time then 5 later?

I do agree it was a choice and a very difficult one. How many people were hospitalised is probably a better indication not only deaths as if they had been unable to get treatment even for something not covid related it would have been carnage.

gh.bmj.com/content/6/8/e006653