I don't think it's ok OP and hope DD and the others mentioned on this thread get better soon. I too am really struggling with the choice kids/parents have now re: schooling a) accept child will get covid shortly or b) deregister. It's a stark choice. There’s a parent strike next Friday, so I guess others don't like this choice either.
I know there's loads we don't know about covid yet, but what we do know e.g. neurological issues, organ damage, long covid etc is frightening to me. It’s not as frightening as those things being dismissed/ignored in decisions being made about school communities and their families. Cases in young kids are the highest they’ve been to date.
My kids aren't old enough to be vaccinated, but for those with kids that are old enough and want the vaccination, it must be awful knowing that the summer has been wasted. Whilst other countries were addressing ventilation, we also did nothing. The non-isolation of household contacts at this stage also makes no sense, unless we are deliberately removing all safety nets in a quest for herd immunity - irrespective of harm to kids, staff and their families. Deliberate mass spread doesn’t help keep schools open, so that makes no sense either.
As for NHS, there are signs of it being overwhelmed already which affects everyone. I think it’s bizarre that this is our key driver of covid policy anyway. Does it mean that if we had 100 times current capacity, we wouldn’t do anything if that many people were getting sick from covid? Does it mean that if 10,000 people a week die from covid, but we have sufficient capacity in hospital, we normalise that too?
I don't think we've been 'following the science' for a long time - wasn't the wide view that vaccinations could do a lot of the heavy lifting, but that layers of mitigations were needed? We don't even mandate masks on public transport, despite our high cases and (to me) death rates. As younger kids can’t get vaccinated, why did we remove all other mitigations? Where’s the science? Some schools are even doing whole school assemblies.
Forcing normality with high case rates and no protection in place is especially brutal for kids, teachers and their families that are vulnerable. As well as the physical risks, how does that not mess with their mental health? I’ve seen posters raise this and be met with a ‘do something about your anxiety’ type response.
Here’s an article about why they took a similar approach in Florida and how well it’s working out for them. https://sciencebasedmedicine.org/lions-led-by-donkeys/