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LFT - data protection breach?!

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polyjuicepotion · 07/07/2021 17:49

Please help, I need urgent advice.
My DC has invited a friend over. They are both secondary school age. I know there have been some children who were self isolating in the class meaning that covid has been going around at school.
My DC forgot to do their LFT today (usually done twice weekly) so I suggested they do it after school, and since the friend said they forgot to do theirs as well I asked if they wanted to do it too.

Long story short, both tests negative but later on I received a furious text from the friend's mum who accused me of breaching data protection and said that she will take legal action for making her child do the test at my house.
Any advice appreciated.

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titchy · 07/07/2021 17:51

What data breech? Have you posted his result on Facebook or something?

MikeHat · 07/07/2021 17:53

There are some wierd people who object to tests but it sounds like this child does them routinely.
You have her number, just ring and explain what happened and that you had no clue she would object to her DC doing the test at your house instead of theirs.

dementedpixie · 07/07/2021 17:53

What was the data protection breach?
I assume they did their own tests without your intervention

Aposterhasnoname · 07/07/2021 17:53

Whaaaa? Have you missed a bit out? If not, she’s nuts.

VanCleefArpels · 07/07/2021 17:54

Might she be actually thinking of a potential breach of privacy (about the result) instead of breach of data (batshit stupid)? If she was concerned about her son having a positive test and other people knowing about it o think she’s the one with issues. Ignore!

SonnetForSpring · 07/07/2021 17:55

Sorry to hear this. She sounds difficult. They citizens advice? I don't think she can actually do anything.

polyjuicepotion · 07/07/2021 17:55

No, of course not posted anywhere! I am guessing that if the test was positive, that would be personal health information about them that I would know ( and shouldn't normally have access to)

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Justmuddlingalong · 07/07/2021 17:58

She's overreacting, but I'm sorry to say, I think you overstepped the mark.

SonnetForSpring · 07/07/2021 18:01

@polyjuicepotion

No, of course not posted anywhere! I am guessing that if the test was positive, that would be personal health information about them that I would know ( and shouldn't normally have access to)
Health information is private and the school wouldn't tell you who tested positive so she is kind of right but she is over reacting. Nothing will happen. Don't worry.
nancy75 · 07/07/2021 18:02

Presumably you didn’t hold him down in a headlock & stick the thing up his nose?
She sounds like she likes a drama!
Can’t imagine how she would Sue you for a data protection breach, a play date isn’t really what the data protection laws cover.

Heelsofsteel · 07/07/2021 18:02

I agree, you really overstepped the mark.
Are you quite sure you didn’t have an ulterior motive (you thought the other kid had a bit of a cough for example , and thought you’d do an underhand test?)
Anyway I’d be super pissed off with you too.
I’d probably not mention it but it’d be the last time my kid went to yours.

polyjuicepotion · 07/07/2021 18:04

Yeah I think retrospectively it wasn't such a good idea to ask them to do a test. I don't think I would have minded if someone asked my child to do it at their house. If it's negative, what's the big deal? And if positive, I would not want them to stay and mix with others. But I guess, people have their own reasons. However, threatening with legal action? Very stressful experience.

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titchy · 07/07/2021 18:05

Health information is private and the school wouldn't tell you who tested positive so she is kind of right but she is over reacting. Nothing will happen. Don't worry.

I assume the kid consented. Unless there's a significant drip feed about to come that he's has a learning disability and couldn't consent?

polyjuicepotion · 07/07/2021 18:07

No drip feed. But they are children. Both under 16

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Cornettoninja · 07/07/2021 18:07

How old are the dc? The older they are the less (thin) ground she has to stand on. Her dc can make their own choices about whether or not they want to use a test independently.

Heelsofsteel · 07/07/2021 18:10

I’m just not convinced of your reasoning. Perhaps the other mum feels the same.
I’d think if you’re at the point of using sneaky tactics to test my child without my consent , you shouldn’t be hosting playdates.
I can’t imagine in a million years asking a guest to do a lateral flow test, especially a child, and it’s totally bizarre you felt it was acceptable to do so without even sending a text to the mum first.
But we all have different things that piss us off I guess.

Geamhradh · 07/07/2021 18:10

Tell the daft apeth you'll see her in court.

Cornettoninja · 07/07/2021 18:10

You might (or might not) find this helpful www.cqc.org.uk/guidance-providers/gps/gp-mythbuster-8-gillick-competency-fraser-guidelines

titchy · 07/07/2021 18:20

Are LFTs the new 'sneaking a peak at the reading record' Grin

polyjuicepotion · 07/07/2021 18:23

Thanks for those reassuring me. I am guessing one reason she cannot really take legal action is that no actual harm was done?!

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chickenyhead · 07/07/2021 18:26

You didn't ask him to the test, he said he forgot and you offered. He chose to do the test. No coercion. He did it himself.

He must be so embarrassed. Poor kid.

Iliketeaagain · 07/07/2021 18:27

Eh - I'd like to see that case in court.

"My sons friend was doing an LFT after school, parent offered my son a test kit if he wanted to do one too. He did it voluntarily. I'm suing that parent for allowing my son to do a lateral flow test in her house Confused"

Honestly, covid has made some people crazy. Unless you pinned him down and forced a swab up his nose, I'm not sure any solicitor would even take up the case! I assume he could have said no thanks.

SonnetForSpring · 07/07/2021 18:28

I honestly wouldn't worry. I can see how it happened. It's a lesson to us all though.

enjoyingscience · 07/07/2021 18:29

Did you register the test on the NHS website after he took it? Maybe that’s what she objects to. That would be transferring data.

Sadly for her, the government already know her son exists, so I don’t think you’ve revealed any great secret there. She sounds looney tunes. I don’t think a court would be terribly interested.

polyjuicepotion · 07/07/2021 18:58

No, I did not register the test. Admittedly, this is another reason why I should not have had them do the test - each one needs to be registered. I just wasn't thinking.

Yes, definitely lesson learned.

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