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Have people forgotten about social distancing?

139 replies

confuseddotcomma · 04/07/2021 08:42

Went to a big family get together yesterday. Everyone was hugging and kissing and there was no social distancing at all. Is this the norm these days? I got a lot of weird comments for saying I didn't want to kiss anyone hello or goodbye!

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GintyMcGinty · 04/07/2021 09:50

Yes many of us have decided to get on with life as most are jagged or double jagged.

Inastatus · 04/07/2021 09:50

is this the norm these days? Of course it’s the bloody norm to hug your family!

Mrsjayy · 04/07/2021 09:54

You are "allowed" to hug and not be socially distanced from F&F now, I think it was mid may that we were given permission.

LemonRoses · 04/07/2021 09:55

What’s good for the SoS....

Dozycuntlaters · 04/07/2021 09:57

Of course people can hug, and I think it's absolutely crazy that people have accepted the government giving us a date when hugs were allowed. It's like we've lost the art of rational thought and just follow what we're told like a bunch of sheep.

The vaccinations have been rolled out, we have to accept that covid js part of live just like flu is and has been for years. If you're waiting gif there to be no cases before you hug your family and friends you're going to be waiting till hell freezes over.

bishbashbosh99 · 04/07/2021 10:05

Yep. Fuck it

moynomore · 04/07/2021 10:27

I thought we were "allowed" to hug now?

wheresmymojo · 04/07/2021 10:31

Social distancing with family and friends stopped on May 17th

ApolloandDaphne · 04/07/2021 10:32

You don't have to hug if you don't want to but it is allowed and others can if they so wish.

sashagabadon · 04/07/2021 10:32

I’ve never really socially distanced as can’t do so at work or commuting to work and have seen my family throughout.
If other people want to that’s fine, up to them

MouldyPotato · 04/07/2021 10:33

I still try and distance when out and about but hugging is ok since May

MouldyPotato · 04/07/2021 10:33

Though I've never been a big hugger

Chillychangchoo · 04/07/2021 10:34

God you’re a hoot 🤣🤣

Tinysalmonswimminginastream · 04/07/2021 10:48

I'm gutted hugging is back 😂

MrsLCSofLichfield · 04/07/2021 12:26

@lynsey91 - sorry to hear about your parents, that's incredibly hard.

I really couldn't care less what the government says. We have one the highest per capita death rates in the world, they have shown themselves to be incompetent throughout.

BogRollBOGOF · 04/07/2021 12:42

I've been avaliable for hugs throughout but respected friends that weren't ready. That's had a gear shift since May. I did get a few in 2020 and they were never actually banned.

I can barelyremember what family is thanks to distance and ultra-caution.

Casual social distancing died back around March-April.

The bush-leapers mainly calmed down by this time last year but some anomalies persisted into the winter. Walking past a stranger was never a substantial risk.

Overthebow · 04/07/2021 12:42

Hugging and not social distancing has been allowed with friends and family since May.

HopeYourHighHorseBucks · 04/07/2021 12:45

Is this the norm these days?

It's always been the norm and was a temporary measure put in place. Quite sad that people think like this tbh.

juliainthedeepwater · 04/07/2021 13:07

Gosh, are some people still staying 1m apart from friends and family? Apart from anything else, you must have massive houses/gardens!

Apparently all social distancing (in restaurants etc. I guess) due to go on July 19th.

I am concerned that leaving it all down to individual choice will result in tension (or, more likely in this county, awkwardness!) between people with v different perspectives and priorities.

octopusrus · 04/07/2021 13:13

Matt Hancock says it's fine Grin

Greyrootszerohoots · 04/07/2021 13:28

‘Everyone was hugging and kissing and there was no social distancing at all. Is this the norm these days?‘

I’m so sad about how much the pandemic has changed us that people are literally asking if it’s normal to hug family.

CoffeeWithCheese · 04/07/2021 13:35

@kowari

Yes, Hug Day was in May. Though my family who wanted to hug did it earlier, and some still prefer not to, but you are certainly 'allowed' now.
There's a 4 day swingers festival around near here this weekend... think we progressed long past Hug Day a good while ago.

It is glorious.

LoathingAndFear · 04/07/2021 14:21

I hate hugging and value my personal space, so if a social distancing law were to come into effect, I would not be upset Grin.
But I remember the government saying hugging was allowed from a few weeks ago.
Agree the various permutations of guidelines/restrictions/relaxations has been a confusing mess.
I would have assumed hugging was allowed now Confused

SmidgenofaPigeon · 04/07/2021 14:26

Like fuck I let the government dictate whether I get to hug my family and close friends and I never did. Don’t see them often but I never didn’t hug them when I saw them between lockdowns.

But I don’t hug or kiss people other then my DH generally, and personal space is still important to me, pandemic or no pandemic.

loubylou1010 · 04/07/2021 14:32

I haven't social distanced for months I also don't know a single person still doing it