I'm in North Queensland and I have been almost completely unaffected by covid in my day to day lifr. My DC's daycare centre has been open throughout. Clubs and classes have continued. Shops, bars, restaurants etc have remained open. I don't think I've ever even seen someone wearing a mask since March last year.
Back in March 2020 we had about 6 cases of covid in my city which were all travellers returning from overseas. They were quarantined and then recovered. No one here has had it since. If it wasn't for the fact that our borders are closed and I have access to the internet, I wouldn't even think the pandemic was still going, in all honesty.
I have family in the UK and 2 of them have died from covid. Several others have survived but are now suffering long covid. Many of them have lost their jobs. One is not receiving the cancer treatment that they should be. It's fucking horrible. I didn't even get to say goodbye to the ones that died because obviously I can't get there, and it all happened so fast. The funerals were just done over the internet.
I think there are a lot of factors which contribute to this vast difference. It's too simplistic to say that one govt got it "right" and one got it "wrong". The UK was always going to be more vulnerable to this kind of thing. It's home to the busiest airport in the world, it's very densely populated, it's a stop over for a lot of long journeys, it relies heavily on public transport, the NHS was already crumbling and couldn't cope with anything extra... the list goes on and on.
I hope the vaccine is rolled out very quickly and that you start to see a big drop in the death rate. You've had a really shit time of it and whatever you want to blame it on, it's definitely not the fault of the general public who are the ones suffering right now.