@Nellodee
If this is the case, I think one of the first things we need to see is a loosening on restrictions about seeing other people outside, particularly for children. I think Scotland have got much better rules on this than England have.
And yes this. If they're not in school, allow those younger children to not not count in numbers for gatherings. Then individual families can determine if they're are happy to take the risk, rather than the school staff.
Mind you, our local playgrounds are busy and the children are NOT socially distancing, so people are doing this regardless here.
Though tbh the playgrounds and parks are really the only visible rule,breaking I'm seeing much off. We appear to have high compliance with masks, etc.