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I’m worried about the mental health of the nation due to covid restrictions

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Maplebeth · 23/01/2021 20:09

This applies from those to children to those in their early 20s.

My niece and nephew both graduated from University in the summer and have started new jobs remotely. They are obviously very thankful that they have been able to find work, but both are seriously struggling with depression, loneliness and aniexty due to not being able to meet co workers and feel like they cannot fully get to grips with their new roles. Learning from more experienced co workers is critical and this cannot be done remotely.

My children are both young and I worry about the effect this has on their education and their overall well being. I did work experience in schools (which led me to realise teacher training wasn’t for me) and the teachers with whom I spoke told me that children will just easily forget the information if they aren’t always being told and listening (for example when the kids go off for the summer holidays, they come back and struggle with what they were doing in class). My husband and I are both key workers, however I am able to work remotely so am trying to homeschool them but am struggling very much. My children are so devastated and miss their nana cousins school friends and auntie and uncles so much. I don’t know if I made the right decision not taking a key worker place. My husband is a police officer and members of the public are being increasingly hostile towards him and his colleagues for trying to do their jobs to protect the community and keep the public safe (and no they aren’t giving women with coffees fines).

I am normally a very positive, optimistic person but I am struggling to see how long this can go on for without some very damaging consequences to the mental health of our nation. We live up North and have been in covid restrictions for a very long time. Sad

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Emmie2021 · 24/01/2021 09:16

Why the hell cant my 11 year old son play Saturday football outside ? zero risk of transmission , certainly less than people crowding inTo supermarkets ! WTF are we doing to our kids !!!!

Spongeb0b · 24/01/2021 09:27

I hear you @Maplebeth I was fine during the first lockdown or 2...I’m an introvert, I liked working from home. My kids were ok, I kept their spirits up etc. This time around I’m really struggling. I don’t know if it’s the fact that the weather is shit so the kids can’t get outside as much. Or if it’s the fact that in the summer we didn’t think we’d be back where we are so we had hope. I work in mental health and I’m starting to struggle myself and needing to follow my own advice. My kids are missing their friends and they are stuck inside due to icy weather after being on zoom all day. All I can hope for is that things start to improve in the spring. I’ve put myself forward to administer vaccines because I think I’m at the point where I just have to feel like I’m doing something - anything - to make some kind of difference to this situation and stop it feeling so never ending xx

Maplebeth · 24/01/2021 09:47

Now seeing the kids won’t go back into school until after Easter. My children’s early years education has been totally ruined.

This is a national disgrace.

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partyatthepalace · 24/01/2021 10:36

It’s an awful time OP. But there is no choice, as we have to keep figures down so NHS can cope, just. (Note to stop underfunding NHS in future).

People are resilient over all. Your kids are little and clearly well parented so don’t worry about them, they will catch up and be fine. Ditto your nephew and niece.

I do think the mental health after shocks will hit the bottom of society and the more vulnerable hard mind you, and I don’t have much faith resources will be put in place, sadly.

MotherForker · 24/01/2021 11:00

What about my dc? They have a parent on the verge of a mh crisis, and on top of that will have to deal with the split of their family. I think history actually shows us that resilience can help in the moment, but not the aftermath.

Even a bit of appreciation would help, rather than constantly reading that I don't matter because it's mh that I am ill with rather than covid. It doesn't matter if I die.

ElectraBlue · 24/01/2021 11:13

I am getting sick of people dismissing the impact of this shamble (never ending lockdown because of government incompetence) on mental health...

People are losing the will to live and that is as deadly as Covid.

Humans are not built to be locked indoors indefinitely without any contact with friends/family and without a clear roadmap out of this mess.

Enough also with the war references please. The entire population was not locked indoors during WW2 unable to meet their families nor did we have to deal with a bunch of incompetent, arrogant politicians as 'leaders'.

People are getting increasingly fed up and losing hope because the confidence in the current administration is low and we can see that they don't have a plan/strategy to deal with this and have so far failed at everything they touched.

Locking in healthy people is not a long term health strategy.

We will kill more people from mental health breakdowns, suicides, poverty (as so many are losing their jobs and soon homes) and the fact that somehow we have decided to accept that treating everyone with Covid means it is OK for people with cancer, heart attacks and so on to drop dead...

As you can tell I am very angry at the constant gaslighting that is done of people who dare to question whether this strategy (if there is one) of talking to the public like they are toddlers to be frightened into submission is actually to be tolerated.

I am sure it must feel very self-righteous to keep calling people 'selfish' and 'covidiots' for those who are seating comfortably on furlough in a decent home with a garden surrounded by their partner and kids.

For those who live in cramped housing, are completely isolated and have little money coming in the walls must feel like a prison...

As far as I am concerned this government had until March to get its act together, After that I will no longer follow their 'rules'. And I won't be the only one.

namechangeforthis24 · 24/01/2021 11:20

Although I think we have no choice but to have these restrictions I do think a lot of people's MH is suffering whatever their age.

I also agree with a pp in that most of us are putting on a brave face but a lot of us are struggling in private. I know I am. My DH is shielding and I am his full time carer, it is very hard for both of us. But whenever I talk to someone on the phone or zoom or in the street (socially distancing!) I find myself putting on a chatty, smiley front. MY DH is the same, being extremely stoical and mostly not letting on how bad he is feeling.

Flowers to everyone who is struggling.

Liking80 · 24/01/2021 13:34

This is such a difficult situation. In lots of ways I know we are better off than a war situation but these comparisons are over played.
Lockdown has taken away so much of what makes us human, socialisation. I feel for children. I also feel for my parents & their peers lucky enough to be in their 70's healthy, with a bit of money, often for the first time on their lives. Their good years are being lost to this pandemic.
On bad days, I like to think of today's children later in their life telling stories of lockdown, with their children & grand children rolling their eyes!

Emmie2021 · 24/01/2021 17:20

It’s such a load of crap

It’s very mild in most people or no symptoms ffs

TheKeatingFive · 24/01/2021 17:26

Locking in healthy people is not a long term health strategy

This gets to the heart of it in one sentence

Wildswim · 24/01/2021 17:56

It feels like the government can't think of any other solutions or policies than lockdown, so continues with it despite all the problems it's already causing and the multitude of problems it will create in the future. Not least, tanking the economy.

I despair to hear Matt Hancock say that lockdown will only end 'when there are no new variants' to the virus. It mutates all the time!

MarshaBradyo · 24/01/2021 18:02

@Wildswim

It feels like the government can't think of any other solutions or policies than lockdown, so continues with it despite all the problems it's already causing and the multitude of problems it will create in the future. Not least, tanking the economy.

I despair to hear Matt Hancock say that lockdown will only end 'when there are no new variants' to the virus. It mutates all the time!

I know.
TheKeatingFive · 24/01/2021 18:07

It feels like the government can't think of any other solutions or policies than lockdown, so continues with it despite all the problems it's already causing and the multitude of problems it will create in the future. Not least, tanking the economy.

Yes exactly.

Lockdown is a ‘simple’ (rather than easy) solution and they’ve got nothing else.

The truth is, the people we’re governed by are pretty limited in their abilities and imagination.

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