A couple of sources, if you want to see the real picture in the US.
Firstly, covidtracking.com/ This has data and analysis, broken down regionally. The headline note is that the US has been very badly impacted, but it's largely been regional, mostly because the place is so big. So, in April/May New York was devastated, to the point they were struggling to cope with their dead. Now it's sweeping through California.
On California, the LA Times is worth reading. The coverage for the last week or two has been absolutely chilling. Hospitals rationing oxygen. Open discussion of triage committees to decide who gets ventilators. Ambulances told not to bring people with a low chance of survival to hospital. The opening up of pre-admission bays in hospital car parks, with one paramedic caring for multiple people in tents, so the ambulances bringing them can get out on the road again. Open concern about how to manage the bodies.
There is a strong strand of individualism and suspicion of authority in the US - more so than here - plus things like mask-wearing have become politicised. There's also a leadership vacuum. None of these things help. This means there has been no coherent national strategy. As others have said, the US is hugely regional. It's almost worth thinking of it as a collection of countries rather than one united states. Some have stricter regulations than us (my friend from Michigan was horrified we don't wear masks outside - mandatory there at the time). Some have lighter restrictions, but more observance of them, because people are scared. Some have lighter restrictions, which people are ignoring...
Looking at the official figures, their deaths/100k are similar to ours. However, when I last ran the stats in October, their excess deaths were substantially higher. At that point, it was clear that their official stats were capturing about a third fewer excess deaths as covid deaths than ours were. I don't know if that has continued through this wave but, I rather suspect that, when statisticians look back in a few years time, they will find they fared even worse than current fatality figures suggest. That's in the context of much lower population density and much higher levels of hospital and ITU beds per capita than the UK.
Basically, it's a mess. I have a friend who is a gerontologist in South Carolina, and I'm hearing similar stories of ITU overload and exhausted, crying nurses that I'm hearing from UK colleagues. If you're not hearing it's a mess it's because the UK news is running three stories: UK Covid, the Trump soap-opera, and Brexit. With no space to cover the American covid bloodbath. But it's happening.