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Am I allowed to see my support bubble....

53 replies

bigmistake1 · 10/01/2021 10:39

Quick question as I can't work it out from the guidance. I'm a single parent and my mum, who also lives in her own, is my support bubble for childcare purposes. We're also her support bubble as she got really depressed in the last lockdown when she couldn't see anyone.

We moved into a new house yesterday and have no internet or tv ( engineer coming tomorrow). Would it be ok to take my children around to my mum's so they can access WiFi? And I can get some unpacking done. She lives a 10 min walk away in same town.

OP posts:
Jackblackcat · 10/01/2021 10:41

Yep, you are always allowed to see your support bubble.

DoYouRememberTheInnMiranda · 10/01/2021 10:41

If she's your support bubble, i.e. the one other family you are allowed to treat as the same household (allowed for you as you're single, or also allowed as she is) then yes, no problem, you can stay at hers.

If you have a different support bubble as a single adult, and she is actually your childcare bubble, then technically you shouldn't go to hers but your child could.

BridgertonBride · 10/01/2021 10:42

Childcare bubble? So you can go out to work not so they can go on WiFi!

Lemons1571 · 10/01/2021 10:42

As long as neither of you are support-bubbled with anyone else

Lougle · 10/01/2021 10:42

Absolutely fine.

IK14 · 10/01/2021 10:44

Technically yes

But given the current situation is it wise? Does your mum go out shopping? Do you? Your children go to school?

Contact will increase risk. I'd think twice.

BridgertonBride · 10/01/2021 10:45

Whitty said no meeting with family and friends ‘unnecessarily’

bigmistake1 · 10/01/2021 10:46

Thanks all. Yes, we are only in the one bubble as she is.

Thought it was ok, just being ultra cautious as I had the police at my door last night as one of my new neighbours reported me to the police as a coronavirus breach as the cottage we've moved into used to be a holiday cottage and they thought I had come on holiday ( I haven't, just urgently needed somewhere to live while my new build house completion is delayed.

OP posts:
BridgertonBride · 10/01/2021 10:47

If any of you get covid then that’s it the bubble stops. What will you do for childcare if your mum can’t have them? Extra visits is extra risk

thebearschairs · 10/01/2021 10:47

@bigmistake1

Thanks all. Yes, we are only in the one bubble as she is.

Thought it was ok, just being ultra cautious as I had the police at my door last night as one of my new neighbours reported me to the police as a coronavirus breach as the cottage we've moved into used to be a holiday cottage and they thought I had come on holiday ( I haven't, just urgently needed somewhere to live while my new build house completion is delayed.

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WhenTwoBecomeThree · 10/01/2021 10:48

Yes you can, you're treated as one household

Mumofsend · 10/01/2021 10:49

Yes. My mum is my support bubble and we just live as we are one household.

dementedpixie · 10/01/2021 10:50

If you're in a bubble you can act as if you are one household so it's s fine for her to have your kids while you sort out the house

dementedpixie · 10/01/2021 10:51

@BridgertonBride

If any of you get covid then that’s it the bubble stops. What will you do for childcare if your mum can’t have them? Extra visits is extra risk
If one of them gets covid they all isolate so OP wouldnt need childcare Hmm
IK14 · 10/01/2021 10:51

@dementedpixie

If you're in a bubble you can act as if you are one household so it's s fine for her to have your kids while you sort out the house
But less risky if she doesn't.
Palavah · 10/01/2021 10:52

@BridgertonBride

If any of you get covid then that’s it the bubble stops. What will you do for childcare if your mum can’t have them? Extra visits is extra risk
What extra risk? It's no different from if they were part of the same household.

I've also not seen anything that says the bubbles stops if one of you is symptomatic. That wouldn't make any sense. If someone in your support bubble gets symptoms/positive result then you behave as you would if someone in your household did.

IK14 · 10/01/2021 10:53

If someone in your house gets it you stay in one room away from everyone else!!

bigmistake1 · 10/01/2021 10:55

@IK14

If someone in your house gets it you stay in one room away from everyone else!!
But that wouldn't be possible as a single parent of two young children Hmm
OP posts:
Orf1abc · 10/01/2021 10:57

If someone in your house gets it you stay in one room away from everyone else!!

And shit in a bucket?

Back in the real world, most households don't have the luxury of such large houses (or such obedient children) to make this possible. So they do the best they can.

IK14 · 10/01/2021 10:57

No. But if mum got it she'd not go surely?!

Or if I child got it? And I'd have to be pretty incapable before I let my mum near.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 10/01/2021 10:57

@IK14

If someone in your house gets it you stay in one room away from everyone else!!
When you're a single parent of young children that is impossible.

It's fine OP. Your support bubble is like your household. When Whitty said no meeting unnecessarily with family and friends I think he meant don't meet people outside the home who aren't in your bubble.

dementedpixie · 10/01/2021 11:00

@IK14

No. But if mum got it she'd not go surely?!

Or if I child got it? And I'd have to be pretty incapable before I let my mum near.

Nobody said she was sending her child while her mum has tested positive for covid.

Shes asking whether on this occasion she can take her children to her mum's (who is in a bubble with her) and yes, its allowed.

partyatthepalace · 10/01/2021 11:01

Yes, you can always see your bubbles.

IK14 · 10/01/2021 11:02

It's necessary to have WiFi. Can't wait til tomorrow.

If bubbles are banned this will be why.

dementedpixie · 10/01/2021 11:04

The whole point of a bubble is so you can act as one household. What's your problem with that?

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