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Anyone else awake? Need a friend.

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AEJS · 08/01/2021 01:55

My husband was admitted to ITU yesterday. He is really sick.
It’s 2am and I just can’t sleep. I don’t want to wake anyone up but was wondering if anyone else was awake for similar reasons. It would be good to hear from others in a similar position. Xx

OP posts:
Desmondo2016 · 08/01/2021 01:56

I'm not awake for a similar reason but I am awake. Tell us about your husband?

KeyIndexAug · 08/01/2021 01:57

I'm so sorry to hear that op Flowers

TheoriginalLEM · 08/01/2021 01:58

Awake here, sending positive thougjts and a hand to hold.

inquietant · 08/01/2021 01:58

How very scary. I think if you want to wake someone in RL this is a serious reason so that would be fine. Is he too ill to contact in any way? Brew for you

AlexaShutUp · 08/01/2021 01:59

So sorry, OP. That's tough - not surprised you are struggling to sleep.

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AEJS · 08/01/2021 02:06

He is a fit 44 year old. The worst illness he has had in all 23 years we have been together is a cold. We have 2 teenage sons. They are broken.

I have a health condition that puts me on the vulnerable list and I have been shielding since March. We were so so careful. I have no idea where we caught it.
All 4 of us took ill shortly before Christmas. Our boys had a mild version thank goodness. I was hospitalised for a few days as a precaution. My husband just got sicker and sicker. When the ambulance came yesterday his sats were just 57.
I am terrified.

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AlexaShutUp · 08/01/2021 02:09

I'm so sorry, OP. This virus is so unpredictable as to who it strikes the worst. The stats are on his side, though, if he is 44 and in good health. Have you completely recovered now?

minipie · 08/01/2021 02:10

I’m awake OP, how tough for you. Are either of your boys awake, maybe you could cuddle up together if so. Hope for the best for you.

Bilgepumper · 08/01/2021 02:14

Sending a massive handhold @AEJS 👐. I know there have been some further advances in treatment for Covid patients, so hopefully your DH will be fine. Everything crossed for you and your family. 💐

ACupOfTeaSolvesEverything · 08/01/2021 02:15

I’m awake. My boy can’t sleep so neither can I.
Can you cuddle up to one of your boys?

Separateatone · 08/01/2021 02:15

I’m awake. Sending you a virtual cup of your favourite tea in your favourite mug, and a wrap around the shoulders of a warm blanket.

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AEJS · 08/01/2021 02:19

I am doing ok health wise. I am still pretty weak, it’s a horrible virus.
He is on a c pap mask and they are having him lie prone for long periods of time. It’s not a pleasant experience. He is being given a whole cocktail of drugs and also having plasma.
The nurse I spoke to yesterday when they admitted him to ITU told me that his blood tests were not good. They are showing evidence of multiple organ failure.
They are crazy busy and are not able to update family as often as they usually would which is hard.
It’s very quiet in the house so I’m pretty sure my boys are asleep. I do have two fluffy dogs on the bed with me. They usually sleep in our room but on the floor. Until last night they had never both jumped up. That can’t be a coincidence. They know something is up.

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SheldonesqueIsUnwell · 08/01/2021 02:22

I’m awake. And I’m sending positive thoughts your way.

And a bit of a hug because I don’t really do them but you sound as though it might help a tiny bit.

The smallest hours are the worst for worrying Flowers

Separateatone · 08/01/2021 02:23

That sounds very worrying. Are the dogs giving you a snuggle?

SheldonesqueIsUnwell · 08/01/2021 02:23

And aye. The dogs know. Flowers

Defenbaker · 08/01/2021 02:24

OP, it's likely he is receiving oxygen and plenty of care to support him through this, so his stats are probably much better now that he's in hospital. He is young and strong, he has a good chance of recovery and there are more drugs available now to help Covid patients.

Have you received any word from the hospital? Perhaps you could give them a ring for an update? If they're too busy to talk perhaps they won't answer, or might just give you a very quick update then end the call, but it might help you get through the night to know more. Crossing all fingers for you and your DP.

whaa · 08/01/2021 02:25

Pets are amazing like that. Our neighbours cat began to cuddle up with me when I was struggling. Am sending hugs . So sorry op. It will soon be morning. Things seem better in the morning x

Rupertpenrysmistress · 08/01/2021 02:27

AEJS I am so sorry to hear about your DH that must be terrifying. Luke op said he has age and health on his side so that is a big positive, he is in the best place and as you know alot more is known about this awful disease. I may have missed it how old are your DC?

I am up with my 11 year old ds he was in hospital over the weekend and has been diagnosed with a neuro/immune disorder that is affecting his mobility basically the entire right hand side of his body. I was so scared when we were waiting for his brain scan results and of course I was alone so, I can feel a very very small part of what you are going through.

I assume the hospital will phone with updates oh it's such an awful time when you can't visit your loved ones.

I am sure you know but I hope you try to look after yourself particularly if you also have health problems. Keep talking on here it helped when my ds was unwell.

madroid · 08/01/2021 02:28

Try to stay positive OP. I know that’s an irritating cliche, but your DH is relatively young and fit. He’s got a good chance of recovery. Plus we know so much more about treating this now.

Thinking of you Flowers

PointlessUsername · 08/01/2021 02:28

Hoping you hear some good news from the hospital soon.Flowers

Defenbaker · 08/01/2021 02:29

Sorry, OP, my post crossed with yours, so wasn't much use. You could try ringing for another update... they will understand that you'll be worried sick.

It's good the dogs are cuddling up to you, take care OP.

Barkleyspaubles · 08/01/2021 02:36

So sorry to hear this. I'm lurking here thinking of you. Flowers

TheVanguardSix · 08/01/2021 02:37

I’m awake and in the exact same boat as you, OP- DH’s experience mirrors your DH’s. It’s just a complete and utter traumatising experience... the horrible days of violent illness leading up to hospital admission... the great unknown ahead. And the worst part is that we can’t see them. Flowers hugs and strength

Wingedharpy · 08/01/2021 02:38

I'm awake too and sending positive vibes your way.

So sorry to hear your DH is in this scarey position.

Having read reams of stuff regarding Covid, I do remember reading about the plasma therapy you mentioned up thread, and the beneficial effects it has on poorly Covid patients, so fingers crossed for Mr AEJS.

VimFuego101 · 08/01/2021 02:38

Everything crossed that he turns a corner soon, OP.

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