@whittingtonmum
We got two 30 minute zoom sessions this week which wasn't really much of a lesson more of a quiz and a chat. The rest was videos, worksheets & tasks. This is year 4. Luckily my employer has been brilliant and has full time furloughed me so I can be an untrained teaching assistant. Pausing the videos when they tell you to, do number 1 and 3 on worksheet, continue with video, explain anything she doesn't understand and check and correct her work. At least the school has provided enough material this time round that I can actually follow the curriculum if I sit with my daughter the entire time to understand what they explain in the video so I can do what a TA would in the classroom. Honestly it's a joke. No idea how my daughter would cope if I was working. Knowing that some class mates are being taught properly in school and everyone else gets thrown under the bus is heartbreaking. Thanks to my furlough we will be ok, but many many others won't be. For two weeks fine- but not for months on end.
This is what worries me. Not a criticism of you in the slightest.
Parents are putting far too much pressure on themselves because they don't understand what happens in a classroom, through no fault of their own.
You say that you give help for her to understand, just like a TA would. But that's not true, unless your child has special needs. Even then, a TA would very rarely help a child 1.1 for a whole lesson.
One of the most important things teachers say to children is "use what you know and apply it to this piece of work." Children need to develop independence in their learning, or they won't learn.
I say the same to other parents - your child might struggle with some questions. This is completely OK. They may say they don't know how to do it. But in school, the best teachers and TAs don't jump in at the first sign of struggle. They encourage the child to think it through. Your child might not answer all of the questions. This is OK too. If your child is of average ability, they won't be able to answer every question of every piece of work, because teachers have been told to post 4 hours of work for ks2. Well what takes high fliers 4 hours might others 6. This happens in school too.
I'm not sure if I've been a bit rambling in this post but my key point is that parents can cut themselves some slack. Your child won't fall behind if you're not able to be there all day.