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Anyone feeling rubbish this morning due to new restrictions/tiers?

46 replies

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 09:19

It doesn’t really feel like Boxing Day. I’ve not really seen anyone for months, yesterday we were allowed to mix 3 households, we stayed home most of the day and my dad invited us over for an hour in the afternoon, they hadn’t seen anyone all day either so I was excited about seeing them, turned up and he had not told his partner we were coming and we were forced to sit in the garden in the freezing cold whilst dc’s opened their presents from them, we didn’t stay long as the kids were cold (we didn’t come prepared to sit outside). Now it’s Boxing Day and we can’t mix households at all and I’m feeling pretty rubbish about the thought of being stuck at home for the next 3/4 months.

Luckily our tier hasn’t changed today but I border a county that has gone into a higher tier, my friends are there, I go shopping there (as it’s literally 5 minutes up the road) and dd2 goes to school there. I’m sure in the next week or 2 we will end up in a higher tier anyway.

I know people are going through worse things, I know I’m lucky to be still i tier 2 but the loneliness is real. I am a single parent with 2 dc’s with sn’s, my mum is in my bubble but I only see her once every 2 weeks, I have just had my hours reduced at work so I’m stuck at home even more.

Anyone else feeling a bit down about it all this morning? Maybe just the come down after Christmas Day?

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Todayisgood2 · 26/12/2020 09:25

We've just gone into tier 4. Family live hours away so we saw nobody yesterday or today.... and not going to be seeing anyone soon .
Just getting on with it but waiting to hear about primary schools- that will make or break us depending if they're open or not in January....

Toocold · 26/12/2020 09:25

Tier 4 here and I’ve had enough already and it’s only been a week, throughly depressing isn’t it!

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 09:32

Yes, also the fear of school not returning which could mean me not being able to work at all. We might as well be in a higher tier because we are pretty much surrounded by tier 3/4 anyway making it tricky to go far or see anyone. I will try and arrange a few walks with friends over the coming month to get me out of the house but most friends are working (either from home or front line).

January and February are always tough as I suffer from SAD but this year is going to be much harder as I’m sure it is for most people.

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AntiHop · 26/12/2020 09:35

There is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there. Can you see your mother more often?

Europilgrim · 26/12/2020 09:35

Yes. I'm abroad but where we are we can't even all go out for a walk together! Feeling a bit trapped.

GrapeLipBalm · 26/12/2020 09:40

I've been in tier 4 since before Christmas and did feel crap but have come out the other side and moved to feeling resigned instead. Was odd spending Christmas day just with dds (widow) but ok. Got a park round the corner which has been a godsend for going on walks with dds over lockdown

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 09:45

@AntiHop

There is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there. Can you see your mother more often?
It’s tricky, we had a disagreement a month ago mainly due to her partner so I don’t go to her house any more, she comes to me to help me with my younger dd, she will look after dd for an hour when I go out to get shopping but that’s about it, things are a bit tricky.
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RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 26/12/2020 09:46

Not really

Wont see ds1 and his partner for new years or ds1 birthday

But to be honest they are (nearly) 22 and 24 and ‘normal’ young adults might prefer to do things by themselves...but they are home like bloody homing pigeons 😀 (which is quite obviously lovely but its how im rationalising it to myself)

But im incredibly grateful that my children are all a bit older and my dad lives in our village, it must be incredibly difficult otherwise

💐 for everyone struggling...its miserable

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 09:47

I have ordered myself a exercise bike to keep me busy, I haven’t been to the gym since March so have gained weight, I’m looking forward to getting fitter. Spring will be here soon and things will seem much better.

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GrapeLipBalm · 26/12/2020 09:48

Did your dad's partner not agree with households being allowed to mix in tier 2 on Christmas day op?

GrapeLipBalm · 26/12/2020 09:51

Not surprised you didn't stay long. It was freezing yesterday

TheYearOfSmallThings · 26/12/2020 09:53

I'm feeling a bit down about it too. We've had a lovely advent and a good day yesterday and I basically put off thinking about the long slog ahead until after Christmas....

Sure enough it was all here waiting for me this morning!

ApolloandDaphne · 26/12/2020 10:01

Not really. We were in level 3 (Scotland) before today so could still go to the shops and we had a nice Christmas Day. Now we are in level 4 but we don't have any plans anyway and are looking forward to a quiet period. I might be gutted if things don't ease up on the 18th but until then I am quite content.

Northernsoullover · 26/12/2020 10:09

I burst into tiers (I actually wrote 'tiers' by accident but decided to leave it) when we went into tier 4. It just seems so bleak. Lockdown number one had good weather and walks. This has rain, wind and darkness. I am now resigned to it and will plod along forthwith. Its shit.

ExpensivelyDecorated · 26/12/2020 10:21

Yes, we re into tier 4 today and DD got told to self-isolate yesterday. Barely seen our families all year. The first lockdown was ok, long hours of daylight, warm weather, I did lots of baking and gardening (I have an allotment) but this one feels harder.

RuleWithAWoodenFoot · 26/12/2020 10:24

I've been grumpy about it since the announcement. Left a T2 on Tuesday to come to a T1 place for Xmas, now leaving a T2 to go for a walk in T2 with relatives before we go one to what is now T4. I'm not feeling like following the rules this time.

the80sweregreat · 26/12/2020 10:30

It's rubbish. Been in tier 4 since last Saturday and it was a feeling of ' here we go again '

user1487194234 · 26/12/2020 10:37

Feeling really low this morning
In Scotland s o level 4 which is not even supported by the figures

frozendaisy · 26/12/2020 10:40

Tier 4 here just going to hunker down and take it one day, one exercise session, one book, one Netflix series, one cooked dinner at a time.

latti · 26/12/2020 10:48

Greater Manchester has been under tiers/restrictions since July, with the exception of three weeks. You will get through it Smile

starfish4 · 26/12/2020 10:55

We've moved up a tier, but won't make any difference as we've been living well within restrictions and stil to the same in new tier.

Have my ups and downs, but the nights will start to draw out now. Hoping the vaccine will make a difference.

My friend just messaged to say her DF lost his fight yesterday, so I can hardly complain.

Happynew2021 · 26/12/2020 11:08

Thanks for this, it’s nice to hear not everyone is putting pics on Facebook of them all wearing Santa hats and being jolly.
Feeling very odd as mum had op and is being looked after by a member of family But it’s gone wrong and it’s now very very hard to get to her. The home we wanted to put her in while she got better has a worker who tested positive. So now member of family feels trapped and I feel anxious and guilty that I can’t get there.
Kids seem happy enough but concerned they are on computer all the time.
to me xmas seems like yet another weekend of cold and rain.
What do people do for fun?

WeatherwaxOn · 26/12/2020 11:13

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Thefeep · 26/12/2020 11:18

As long as the kids go back I’ll be ok! That was the killer in the first lockdown. Husband will still go to work so nothing much changes for us.

sweetchristmastime · 26/12/2020 11:24

We've been tier 4 for a week, we had no notice so couldn't finish Christmas shopping or have anyone for Christmas Day. It seems normal now. Just like the other lockdowns

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