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Anyone feeling rubbish this morning due to new restrictions/tiers?

46 replies

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 09:19

It doesn’t really feel like Boxing Day. I’ve not really seen anyone for months, yesterday we were allowed to mix 3 households, we stayed home most of the day and my dad invited us over for an hour in the afternoon, they hadn’t seen anyone all day either so I was excited about seeing them, turned up and he had not told his partner we were coming and we were forced to sit in the garden in the freezing cold whilst dc’s opened their presents from them, we didn’t stay long as the kids were cold (we didn’t come prepared to sit outside). Now it’s Boxing Day and we can’t mix households at all and I’m feeling pretty rubbish about the thought of being stuck at home for the next 3/4 months.

Luckily our tier hasn’t changed today but I border a county that has gone into a higher tier, my friends are there, I go shopping there (as it’s literally 5 minutes up the road) and dd2 goes to school there. I’m sure in the next week or 2 we will end up in a higher tier anyway.

I know people are going through worse things, I know I’m lucky to be still i tier 2 but the loneliness is real. I am a single parent with 2 dc’s with sn’s, my mum is in my bubble but I only see her once every 2 weeks, I have just had my hours reduced at work so I’m stuck at home even more.

Anyone else feeling a bit down about it all this morning? Maybe just the come down after Christmas Day?

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Attictroll · 26/12/2020 11:31

We lost our Christmas because of entering tier 4 just glad today we as an extended family got through yesterday with no one being too depressed and dc had an ok day. Boxing Day is usually low key for us so now just got to stop worrying about primary not going back 😞 education for me is more important than seeing family in reality though.

RuleWithAWoodenFoot · 26/12/2020 11:39

I'm furious that my safety at school hasn't been considered AGAIN. While schools have no mitigation measures for my safety, I'm going to do what I like. Fuck the rules.

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 11:39

@GrapeLipBalm

Did your dad's partner not agree with households being allowed to mix in tier 2 on Christmas day op?
It seems she didn’t agree with the restrictions, the funny thing is my dad has been coming into my house once a week uninvited (for 20 minutes) and he has been working in other peoples houses. They had no one else over yesterday, cases here have been very low so I assumed when my dad invited us over that we would be allowed inside, they have a huge house so it’s easy to keep 2m away. If I had known we would have to sit outside I would have stayed at home, it was freezing, their lawn was still frozen from the frost the night before 😂.
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Glitterinthegrey · 26/12/2020 11:42

Yesterday felt reasonable normal, as our 'bubble' represents my entire immediate family, and is who I would normally have Christmas day with (when I don't work it) anyway. Boxing day is usually our day for visiting DH's family though, so feeling very much at a loose end. Back to work Monday so will feel more normal then.

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 11:44

And sending hugs and Flowers to everyone else that’s struggling.

And I agree with teachers and school staff not being protected, having to be in contact with 100+ children but then being told you can’t mix with your family, it’s just awful and I don’t blame people for breaking some rules.

Let’s hope the Oxford vaccine gets the go ahead in the next week so we can get the vaccine rolling out better without the use of special freezers.

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Bananachip · 26/12/2020 11:46

Yes, today feels very flat. Tier 2 on Christmas Eve, very lucky to be able to see family yesterday but waking up into tier 4 feels much worse than expected. Usually we'd be all over the place catching up with people and I was looking forward to being relaxed but now it's here I really don't like it. Christmas was the thing to look forward to and now there's nothing. Luckily we got lots of books for Christmas so much reading will be happening!

LimitIsUp · 26/12/2020 11:53

I'm feeling very fucked off - we've been in self isolation since 17 December because dd contracted Covid (at her work), and we are due to emerge from this on the 27 December straight into tier 4 (the rest of us haven't caught it from her)

I live in a small rural village - there is no way we should be in tier 4. It's a crude tool - because we get our services from a borough council where there has been a spike in cases in a town 17 miles away (which none of us access - we use facilities in a town 10 miles in the opposite direction in Wiltshire) then we are tier 4! I could accept tier 4 if it was pertinent to our local situation, but it isn't and it delegitimises it

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 11:55

Same, Christmas here usually lasts a few days, we usually spend Christmas Day at home and then Boxing Day and the following day visiting relatives. The dc will go to their dads tomorrow and I will be on my own, we haven’t really seen anyone. The dc’s are ok as they get a 2nd Christmas tomorrow and get to see their dad, his partner and her children but I can’t really go and see anyone.

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elliejjtiny · 26/12/2020 11:58

Tbh not much has changed for us. We were able to see pil for the first time in months yesterday which was great. Today we have gone into tier 3 from tier 2. I don't think that means anything different for us though as we have been very limited in what we can do anyway as my 6 year old has autism and puts everything in his mouth.

Mintjulia · 26/12/2020 11:58

Tier 4 here too.

We are going to cycle and spend at least an hour a day doing stuff together.

I'm starting new fitness plan on 28th. I'm starting to redecorate another room tomorrow. Trying to make it positive and useful. Might even get time for some gardening.

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 12:02

I’m looking forward to getting out in the garden and planting things in the greenhouse.

I have stayed pretty positive through all of this until now, I’m not a very sociable person usually and I spend a lot of time alone but usually I spend time at the gym or outdoors walking, if the suns out I feel much happier, I guess the thought of gloomy/cold January fills me with dread as I can’t do the things I usually do. I need to plan to do things, keeping fit and dieting will be one of them, then hopefully by spring I will fit into my summer clothes and be able to do more.

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RuleWithAWoodenFoot · 26/12/2020 13:51

I've decorated every room in the house since March. Nothing left to do.

My hobby is considered non essential. To rich white posh men. They can carry on doing their shit sport, while the rest of us have to exercise in the dark outside. Yeah, thanks cocks.

I'm raging today. Probably need some booze or something.

the80sweregreat · 26/12/2020 14:53

Loads of people out shopping in tiers 2 and 3 today ( online news photos)
I just hope they are sensible and don't end up like us ( 4)

Lovemusic33 · 26/12/2020 15:00

@RuleWithAWoodenFoot

I've decorated every room in the house since March. Nothing left to do.

My hobby is considered non essential. To rich white posh men. They can carry on doing their shit sport, while the rest of us have to exercise in the dark outside. Yeah, thanks cocks.

I'm raging today. Probably need some booze or something.

I’m done with decorating too, did it all in March, I will have gardening to do once spring comes but nothing to do right now.

I’m tempted to book a holiday (uk) to give me something to look forward too but who knows when we will be able to safely go anywhere and actually enjoy it. Also I’m unsure if I will be able to afford it as I don’t have much work.

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Nerdygirl · 26/12/2020 15:12

Yep feeling totally miserable and more worried about the future than ever

This video sums up a lot of how I feel and she does it well without looking like a tin hat conspiracy fan

FuzzyPuffling · 26/12/2020 15:16

Nope. We'v e gone from 1 to 2, but with CEV DH we have been living under "more or less full lockdown with exercise" rules for over 9 months. Makes no difference to us...in fact Tier 4 would be a relaxation!

LH1987 · 26/12/2020 15:22

I feel rubbish today because I am monstrously hung over.

ExpensivelyDecorated · 26/12/2020 15:27

This is the first time since it all kicked off that I've felt seriously down about the whole thing. I just feel as though I've used all my reserves of tolerance for it all now. My DCs (teens) are going to be climbing the walls with no sport and even more so if school return is further delayed. I know others have it worse, but today I feel thoroughly grumpy.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 26/12/2020 15:32

I feel rubbish today because I am monstrously hung over

True. That's definitely a contributing factor!

LimitIsUp · 26/12/2020 15:47

I should crack on and book that UK holiday soon - I looked at the Scilly Isles and Jersey recently and accommodation was booking up fasy

LimitIsUp · 26/12/2020 15:48

'Fast'
That was to lovemusic btw

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