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To be annoyed that school requests parents wear a mask.

387 replies

j101112 · 06/11/2020 14:53

School have requested parents a mask on drop offs and pick ups. I’m not anti mask and I will wear one but I’m annoyed.

It’s a rural school. With less than 100 children. Majority of children aged year 4 and up walk to school on their own or at very least walk into the school grounds on their own. I barely see anyone dropping Ds (10) off. Maybe 1 other parent from a distance. Don’t come into close contact with teachers as it’s all done outside anyway.

They also have staggered times. So people going in and out different times and one way system.

With Dd who’s younger I see the parents of the children in her bubble but we all social distance.

Barely come into contact with anyone.

School are saying it’s because parents often talk but what do they do expect us to not talk to each other? What’s the issue with people talking whilst social distancing?! I’d understand if parents were standing in groups but it’s not like that here. Most parents are rushing off to work and too busy to talk. Others drop their kids and walk off quick like me 🤣

But being made to wear masks in a huge outdoor open space with plenty of room to distance? Really necessary? Lots of open space around the school! I just don’t really understand!

I don’t come into close contact with anyone during the school run!

OP posts:
Wishforanishwishdiash · 06/11/2020 16:46

@IceCreamAndCandyfloss

Education not solely the responsibility of the teachers. Why open school at all?

The slow shortening of the school day in the absence of after school clubs makes it very hard for me to do my job. My job which is at risk, and more at risk every time the school shortens the day by another 5 minutes.

Surely, it acceptable for me to have moan about that on a parenting forum.

loulouljh · 06/11/2020 16:47

It is completely mad being outdoors...and II would not want my child to come out to a sea of masked faces..how to the staff even recognise the parents?? Madness.

loulouljh · 06/11/2020 16:48

And for those who say do as you are asked? Er no. Why!!!! People are allowed to push back, question, challenge. And they should.

lotusbell · 06/11/2020 16:49

JFDI

loulouljh · 06/11/2020 16:49

No scientist has said to wear a mask at school pick up when outside! That is balls. People are perfectly safe outside keeping a distance. Have some critical thought people!!!

freddosfrogs · 06/11/2020 16:51

@loulouljh

No scientist has said to wear a mask at school pick up when outside! That is balls. People are perfectly safe outside keeping a distance. Have some critical thought people!!!
Where is your evidence for that?
loulouljh · 06/11/2020 16:51

When your child gets taken by the wrong person I hope you don't complain on here!!!! Just do as you are told and sod the consequences...

Bollss · 06/11/2020 16:51

@lotusbell

JFDI
ooh have we got a new acronym.

like my mother used to say would you jump off a cliff if your friends did it???

freddosfrogs · 06/11/2020 16:53

@loulouljh

When your child gets taken by the wrong person I hope you don't complain on here!!!! Just do as you are told and sod the consequences...
Like I said, where is your evidence for no scientist having said to wear a mask at school pick up?

You cannot prove that no scientist has said it.

MoonJelly · 06/11/2020 16:56

Seems they are making everyone wear one because a few parents are stood around talking but most of us are not.

Short of doing a naughty list of parents who must wear masks because they talk to each other, I don't see what the school can reasonably do other than issue a blanket instruction.

JuliaJohnston · 06/11/2020 16:56

@loulouljh

When your child gets taken by the wrong person I hope you don't complain on here!!!! Just do as you are told and sod the consequences...
What in the name of all that's holy does this mean?? 🤣🤣🤣
tinatree · 06/11/2020 16:57

We're in a similar position, tiny rural school, no cases etc. We've all been wearing masks since the second week back. If it helps lower the chance of the school getting covid cases I'm more than happy to do so.

Cookiecrisps · 06/11/2020 17:00

@Bytheloch

The OPs point is around parents wearing masks. Who is saying the teachers don’t have the right to wear whatever they feel will offer them protection in their workplace?
My head teacher. They are allowed to do it because of government guidance. They say that visors and masks will unsettle the children.
37weekswithno2 · 06/11/2020 17:03

We have to wear one for nursery run now, we don't go in the building and there are never crowds of parents. It doesn't bother me, I just take it off when I've got ds and we're walking home.

loulouljh · 06/11/2020 17:05

IT is a safeguarding issue. Can you not see that? How many times have you walked past people and not recognized them! So how is a teacher supposed to match the child with the parent especially as we are so near to the beginning of the term and teachers won't know parents that well! It would be very easy for someone else to take your child.

Scientists are not advising this. Yes of course there no doubt is someone somewhere saying if you wear a mask outside at school pick up it will lower the risk. , But really. Outside. The risk of transmission is negligible otherwise unlimited time outside would not be allowed during this lockdown.

The request (and it is merely that) to wear masks outside at pick up is purely to schools look as if they are doing something and to appease the paranoid parents (who are here in their droves). That it is.

ReggieCat · 06/11/2020 17:05

Carry on being annoyed but just wear the fucking mask. Will it harm you? No. So just bloody wear it.

IncludeWomenInTheSequel · 06/11/2020 17:07

Just stop whining.

Seriously, just stop fucking whining about this. It's unimportant.

loulouljh · 06/11/2020 17:09

She is allowed to moan!!! FFS. It is obviously important to the OP otherwise she wouldn't have mentioned it!

marveloustimeruiningeverything · 06/11/2020 17:10

Suck it up, buttercup.

If I have to wear a mask IN school in hallways, the lunch hall, walking in and out, you can manage this. We're just trying to keep ourselves and YOUR children safe, even when it's a hassle.

Aloethere · 06/11/2020 17:11

Parents and teachers have been wearing masks at pick up since September here. I can confirm that no child has left school with anyone but the person they are supposed to leave with.

freddosfrogs · 06/11/2020 17:11

@loulouljh

IT is a safeguarding issue. Can you not see that? How many times have you walked past people and not recognized them! So how is a teacher supposed to match the child with the parent especially as we are so near to the beginning of the term and teachers won't know parents that well! It would be very easy for someone else to take your child.

Scientists are not advising this. Yes of course there no doubt is someone somewhere saying if you wear a mask outside at school pick up it will lower the risk. , But really. Outside. The risk of transmission is negligible otherwise unlimited time outside would not be allowed during this lockdown.

The request (and it is merely that) to wear masks outside at pick up is purely to schools look as if they are doing something and to appease the paranoid parents (who are here in their droves). That it is.

Scientists are advising this and you are unable to prove otherwise: www.tes.com/news/coronavirus-should-parents-have-wear-masks-school-site

Parents and face masks

The request does not appear to have been made by the Department for Education, which has been contacted for comment as to whether it supports the primary school requests (no response as yet).

However, some heads report being asked by local authorities or local public health bodies to make the request. This seems to be based on the fact that some school sites do not easily enable social distancing in the playground or on the school premises.

The majority of heads, though, seem to have taken the decision themselves.
Coronavirus precautions

Some report the need to take every precaution available to ensure that schools can continue to operate.

Others point to the fact that parents congregate in large groups and fail to social distance, so face masks become a necessary extra layer of protection.

And some believe that the presence of masks makes the parents feel that extra bit of security in sending their children to school.

But is there any scientific basis for doing it?
Science and face masks

Yes, says Professor Paul Digard, chair of virology and head of the infection and immunity division at the University of Edinburgh.

“Face masks will still make a positive difference when worn, even outside in well-ventilated areas,” he says. “The reason: virus-containing droplets from the respiratory tract of an infected person come in a range of sizes and, large or small, they probably all carry a risk of transmitting the disease.

“Ventilation helps disperse the droplets that form aerosols that float around, but doesn’t do so much for blocking the spread of larger droplets that behave ballistically – think of someone sneezing in front of you without covering their face.

“It doesn’t matter whether you’re indoors or outdoors, you’re going to get sprayed. A mask on the sneezer (cougher or even speaker) will stop this very effectively, reducing the risk of transmission.”

KittCat · 06/11/2020 17:14

Yabvu ffs!

loulouljh · 06/11/2020 17:17

God...madness. Wear this head covering. Just go on. And this badge. Don't moan just do it. This has happened before people...and reading this I can see how!!!!!

Aragog · 06/11/2020 17:17

@Witchcraftandhokum

Jesus fucking Christ. The threads on here are ridiculous.

Keep the schools open at all costs... But....

We don't think teachers should wear masks!

Children shouldn't be made to wear masks!

Parents don't want to wear masks!

Schools shouldn't have all the windows open!

This!

This week pretty much all of these statements have had threads complaining about them.

Last week when lockdown was something we were hearing rumours about the threads were all about how schools had to stay open, it was only right, unfair to the children, etc.

Well if you want schools open then you have to accept that there will need to be guidelines and rules, and some of them you might not be so keen on. But surely its better that and keeping the school open?

I don't mind the mask. I do mind that I need to collect my daughter 15 minutes earlier than normal so they can "stagger" pick up. This amounts to a missed day of learning every half term, and there is no after school care this year, you can't share with other parents, and it just gets a bit harder every day.

So do 15 minutes reading or writing, or some times table practise each evening after school to make it up, or spend one day one weekend per half term, having a 'learning day' with your child.

You can share childcare - there is an exemption for informal childcare arrangements.

As already said - we want schools to stay open but we need to have restrictions, rules and guidelines in place in order to make them safer for staff, children and families.

Tearsfortiers · 06/11/2020 17:17

It's for a few minutes a day. Some of us wear masks all day at work and don't complain!