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To think January will be the point when people give up Covid restrictions?

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Antiquated100 · 09/10/2020 12:12

I’ve noticed amongst my friends that a lot of people are saying “January is when we will have a vaccine, we just need to wait until January, only a few months now...”

As well as this, I also assume everyone else is also noticing “lockdown fatigue” in general. It’s hard to tell people not to mix households at all when schools are open with no social distancing, workplaces, etc... (At least where I am anyway!)

Does anyone else think we’re going to be entirely f*** if there is no vaccine in January? It feels like it’s being hyped up so much, people are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. People are already ambivalent to restrictions- ie, the poor people of Leicester who basically never came out of lockdown. I can’t imagine how awful that must be.

All I can think is if the North has all these restrictions and cases are still going up WITH restrictions as people are just tired of having no life- again, no blame there, I understand people are only human- surely if there is no vaccine in January, or even an alternative strategy, I really don’t think the government are going to have enough control to get compliance on further restrictions. Maybe even sooner.

Perhaps I am even unreasonable to suggest the gov has control now. I’m in the South and already all of my friends have said they will ignore restrictions on households not mixing.

So AIBU to think a lot will change with the “new year,” vaccine or not?

Also I’m sorry if this thread seems overwhelmingly negative! I’ve tried to stay positive but with rising cases again and more restrictions, I’m simply struggling to care about the virus anymore. I followed everything to the letter the first time, I’m in an at risk group, but now I’m more concerned about my financial situation, my job, etc... I’ve become very desensitised to the virus itself, apart from still worrying about spreading it to my elderly relatives

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Rudolphian · 09/10/2020 18:25

I'm in a lockdown area.
I'm trying to avoid visiting my mu. But usually socially distanced once every 1-2 weeks.
I'm visiting my siblings as and when.
My sister had covid a couple of weeks ago. So I guess they would now be safe to visit?
Gonna give it a couple of weeks before we start visiting her to be on the safe side.
Apart from my mum everyone else low risk age wise.
I'm not going anywhere else though apart from work.
Avoiding cafes, restaurants and anything else.

Porcupineinwaiting · 09/10/2020 18:25

@baffledcoconut can I ask why you thought Sept would be better? I've heard a few people say it but dont know where it came from.

PicsInRed · 09/10/2020 18:30

[quote Porcupineinwaiting]@baffledcoconut can I ask why you thought Sept would be better? I've heard a few people say it but dont know where it came from.[/quote]
They were promising a vaccine by then - which was loopy stuff but they were adamant it was realistic and this kept enough people calm to maintain order.

Now they're saying January. Meh, we'll see. I hope more than expect not masking up outside though.

baffledcoconut · 09/10/2020 18:46

@Porcupineinwaiting

Everyone was coming out with ‘well in September when it’s back to normal’ ad infinitum for months.

I never worked out what was special about September. The weather was ok I suppose?

So January is the new September.

Pangwin · 09/10/2020 19:44

I think Christmas is more likely than January. After a thoroughly crap year I can't imagine that most people will sacrifice their Christmas and stick to the rules (whatever they may be in December). I certainly won't be. I've cancelled so much this year and stuck to the rules as much as possible, like hell am I having a crap Christmas Day. I will be spending it with my mum, sister and her family, and my family, and I will enjoy every moment of it.

BBCONEANDTWO · 09/10/2020 20:04

People have more or less given up now. It's soul destroying for so many.

CrappleUmble · 09/10/2020 20:58

No, sooner.

longsigh · 09/10/2020 21:14

But lots of people haven't given up,they are just getting on with their lives because they have to! No one in my household was furloughed we worked all the way through so life hasn't changed for us and won't in the future and if I'm working I'm certainly not going to stop going to the pub,shopping or meeting friends.

BogRollBOGOF · 09/10/2020 21:54

September was a focus for me, purely for the relief of getting my DCs back in to school and some structure back into life after a 6 month void of existence. Not that I thought it was a magic return to real normality... it was uncomfortably close to the cold season starting.

I am happy to abide by sensible precautions of distancing, trying to maximise outdoor interactions and having a quiet social life, not that it's particularly active, but it is even quieter than usual.

Where a rule is illogical for example being a couple of children over the limit for two households going for a walk, I treat it with the respect it deserves. Likewise rules state that I'm not allowed to sit 2m+ within DMs house, but we can sit within a metre in a cafe Hmm We both have low transmission rates in our neighbourhoods, despite local lockdown, hers is even lower than mine!

My priority is to live healthily. When my 7 year old was showing depressed behaviour lethargic, angry, rude) back in June, it was worth the barely existent risk of going to a closed of playground to stimulate him and bring some happiness back to him.

The majority of family, I haven't seen this year. I'm not going to decline any invitation to see my niece for the first time since last Christmas. It's not the time to catch up with more extended family members as much as I miss them. It's not the time for parties. But I can't live like a hermit forever, certainly not the next 6 months until Easter when virus rates should naturally fall.

Many people I know are fatigued after missing out on so many of life's pleasures for so long already.

Sunflowers247 · 09/10/2020 21:59

It’s hard to tell people not to mix households at all when schools are open with no social distancing, workplaces, etc... (

But those restrictions are they SO THAT we can continue to work and send our kids to school

quickque · 09/10/2020 22:08

@kittensarecute please don't. Things will get better, they will. Please ask for help if you need it - in real life or Samaritans on 116 123

janetmendoza · 09/10/2020 22:10

If things get bad which they will, people will comply. They won't want to be denied the last hospital bed so will limit the risks they take. Don't think there will be many people breaking the rules at Christmas as I expect it all to be so shitty by then that no one with any sense at all will be taking any chances

shinynewapple2020 · 09/10/2020 22:16

@Sunflowers247

It’s hard to tell people not to mix households at all when schools are open with no social distancing, workplaces, etc... (

But those restrictions are they SO THAT we can continue to work and send our kids to school

Exactly .

This thread is really depressing

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