@ChristmasinJune
That sounds very stressful. 
Cases much lower near me, though rising rapidly, and people are acting like we've gone back to normal here too. I think schools going back as normal has a lot to do with it. Seeing a lot of people not bothering social distancing at school gates, at park outside of school etc. The same people who were rigorously social distancing in June/July when rates were 1/10th what they are now.
It makes no logical sense but I think a lot of people gave up when they realised their kids would be crammed in together right next to each other all day, that's my theory at least.
If your biggest risk is completely out of your control.... maybe the psychological result is people just giving up. Is there any research on this? In a job long ago I ended up reading a bit about risks that people can control and those they can't and IIRC correctly it does result in different behaviours but can't remember any more about it.
I haven't given up entirely but there have been times I've felt like I wanted to because I find it quite stressful with the kids being in school as they are and then having to social distance everywhere else. It's confusing - is it safe in school or not? If it is, why do we have to do this everywhere else? Kids don't cope well with this level of cognitive dissonance.
DD2 has been consistently seeing a little friend outside since we've been allowed and they've been brilliant at social distancing until now - now they're back in school and we're constantly having to remind them because they're not SD in school and it's confusing. (they're in different schools so there is a reason still to SD but they don't get it, being 3)