The problem with the school not mandating mask wearing is that it puts off children who otherwise would like to. My daughter would like to but hell will freeze over before she's the only one doing it in a class of 28.
But I think personal choice shouldn't be as big a factor as reducing transmission. Agree where there are ECV staff/ students then they should be wearing masks but I'd be surprised if it happens.
Children aren't allowed to say they don't want to wash their hands 'because they don't want to'. There are some children (those with eczema) who are exempt from this for medical reasons too. So it just doesn't make sense.
And arguably washing hands does a lot less to prevent transmission of coronavirus than masks since it's primarily transmitted via the respiratory route.
Agree that Germany's method seems sensible (allowing ECV staff and students to WFH) but requires money which is probably the stumbling block. But the bigger difference with Germany is their excellent test and trace which allows them to stop community spread before it gets out of hand - not so in the UK.
Many countries have children wearing masks from the age of 6 all day so I don't really see the mental stumbling block.
Risk budgets (anecdata): the problem here is choice. I am very sympathetic to my friends actually. For both families, both parents WFH so almost their entire risk budget is taken up with sending their kids to schools. So they've decided to completely ignore all SD rules between families. Whilst they do go shopping and do some other socialising, it's all with SD and/or masks.
It does seem rather strange when your children are literally sitting touching shoulders for 6 hours in an enclosed environment breathing each others' air to then have to tell them to separate once they get out of school and a bit weird that the parents would do so too. I know they were against schools going back as is - they are being forced to accept that risk with no other option. That's when you get people who are pissed off and don't comply with other nonsensical rules.