I've said this on another thread just a minute ago so apologies if you've read similar on there.
Our DS (aged 13) has a congenital heart condition. He's allowed to go to school - so he does. He has friends who have diabetes, severe asthma, survived a brain tumour and survived childhood leukaemia. They are the ones I know about - I'm sure there are many more in the school.
I have a family member who survived a brain tumour and is now back at work. She has two young children and she and her husband have a mortgage to pay.
I have a friend who survived breast cancer and another who has had an operation for bowel cancer. Two teachers in DS's school have cancer but are working. The kids mask up for their lessons. No one moans about that btw, they just do it.
My point is that many people say 'well, let's get back to normal. The vulnerable can shield'.
Fine, if DS shields because of his heart, then I and DH have to shield too. My friend, his family. My cousin, her family. My DS's school friends and their families - all have to shield. And you have to pay our mortgages. Because we can't work to pay them so we go on benefits. And your tax burden rises because of all those 'young and shielding, children and families shielding'.
All for the sake of a bit of common sense. Not going into a pub when it looks too busy, not expecting to pitch up to a restaurant and get a seat without booking, not expecting to be able to get a party of 20 seated for a meal (as a waitress told us about when we were in a restaurant on a weekend away). Accepting that we have a new type of 'normal' at the moment.
I don't want another lockdown. I want DS to enjoy his life at the moment and I want to enjoy mine. I, DH and the families of those I've mentioned have 'sacrificed' a few things so we can carry on going to the cinema, enjoy a meal now and then, go for a day out. But it's the 'I want to go to a pub when I want to go' or 'I want to party when I want to party' brigade that annoy me. In most cases it just takes a stop and think before doing approach. That way we stay out of lockdown, my DS lives to fight another day and I'll be a very grateful mum. Thank you.