@SheepandCow shielding was never mandatory no. But even though I was expecting it, it was a hell of a slap in the face to get a letter, and few people i believe would have ignored it. I don't scare easily, and I am pretty pragmatic, but I wouldn't have gone against the shielding advice then.
@EDSGFC I'm not sure. It's complicated. I live with and care for my parents. Dad is immobile and mum has dementia.
Dad shields too. I get help from siblings normally, but obviously not when shielding. Mum was difficult during shielding, and it will be worse this time because it will be darker earlier. I'm a supply teacher, and too scared to go back at the minute...i can't afford to pass it on to parents.... if either of them had to be hospitalised mum would take a huge turn for the worse.
So financially I'm lucky, I have savings in using for bills and don't pay rent or a mortgage, but obviously contribute to household costs. Mentally though is a different matter. My whole life revolves around them, because everything else has stopped. I don't escape to work, and my days go by in a flurry of sorting stuff out for them.
I have started a proofreading course so I can work from home, so hopefully that should cover money, but I desperately need life to start again before my sanity goes.
I guess nothing will change hugely for me, apart from occasional coffee with friends stopping, and a longer delay to getting rehearsals and stuff up and running. I'm shopping atm, I guess that would stop. I'll just be here... forever it seems like. :/
If they impose it again, they have to sort money out or it's pointless. People can't shield on fresh air. I really feel for you, it's such a dilemma.