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This will never end will it

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SleepingStandingUp · 09/09/2020 00:13

DS is in yr1. How will he ever get a decent education with schools having to close so much? There's only so much teachers can transfer online as a moment's notice. What happens when these kids get to secondary school and they've missed essentially years of education? I'm so worried they won't academically be anywhere near where they should be at 11 unless the parents can pay for additional tutoring. And then what about the babies, who aren't even 1? How will they even learn the basics when they're in and out of school from one month to the next? Will we just adjust our standards? Will formal education to extended? Or will the gap just widen and it be accepted that more and more kids will leave school barely literate and numerate because they didn't years of education at home whilst parents worked or otherwise inadequately supported their home learning?
And most of them will never get to do all the normal kid stuff. The school trips, holidays, big family parties. No meet ups with 20 cousins or whole class parties.

I feel so sick thinking about the life our kids are going to get and yes I know it's better than them or their parents etc being dead. We shielded DS all summer long. But what sort of adults will we create, not being allowed to touch other people being parents and siblings, not doing all the stuff that cements friendships, not getting a consistent education

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MadameBlobby · 10/09/2020 00:44

Jesus, he’s what, 5? Calm down. My eldest is 14 so I’m concerned but not stressed or panicking - yet!

TheSunIsStillShining · 10/09/2020 01:14

You really need a chill pill.

  1. Yr1 ffs, so your son has many-many years to catch up to your imaginary standards.
  2. normal kid stuff. The school trips, holidays, big family parties. No meet ups with 20 cousins or whole class parties.
I never had big family parties as we are a tiny family. I don't even have cousins. Never had a whole class party. According to you I might as well be dead.

You do know that these are first world luxuries that we can live without?!

SleepingStandingUp · 10/09/2020 01:18

@TheSunIsStillShining

You really need a chill pill.
  1. Yr1 ffs, so your son has many-many years to catch up to your imaginary standards.
  2. normal kid stuff. The school trips, holidays, big family parties. No meet ups with 20 cousins or whole class parties.
I never had big family parties as we are a tiny family. I don't even have cousins. Never had a whole class party. According to you I might as well be dead.

You do know that these are first world luxuries that we can live without?!

Where the hell have I said you might as well be dead? And by extension they might as well be?
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SleepingStandingUp · 10/09/2020 01:21

@BabyLlamaZen thank you, I want in a good place the other night, it just doesn't feel like it will be over even then, school are cancelling so much stuff and the idea of the babies going to nursery where they're not allowed soft toys or sand pits or bean bags in the book corner. Silly stuff in the scheme of it but the things that l they make memories out of. Rather than I remember when we started nursery and we were temperature checked 3 times a day and washed our hands 6 times a day and we all sat in rows and didn't touch anything

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ChavvySexPond · 10/09/2020 01:43

@Justaboy

ChavvySexPond

Got any references for those facts?..

Google.
Shockingstocking · 10/09/2020 01:59

They're really not saying that about the Oxford vaccine. You need to model calming self regulation for your son if you can.

I'm not a better parent than you but I'm happy to help with what's worked for us if you pm me. It's not hard and you can do it in little bits.

Shockingstocking · 10/09/2020 02:01

But he's going to be grand regardless if you can just be a safe harbour for a little while. Deal with today.

Shockingstocking · 10/09/2020 02:05

And don't worry about there being enough vaccine, it's not like the tests. Not made in the UK and they're making lots.

Shockingstocking · 10/09/2020 02:06

But do you actually want to be reassured?

Shockingstocking · 10/09/2020 02:07

Your children will not remember anything about this blip.

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