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Wear a face mask when having sex

60 replies

FluffyKittensinabasket · 11/08/2020 21:22

www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/newsbeat-53736087

Is this a thing now?

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Iwantacookie · 12/08/2020 08:55

That is hilarious I've just shown dp and told him weve been doing sex wrong during lockdown.

NiceGerbil · 12/08/2020 09:36

What marmalady said.

Terence Higgins trust was set up in response to HIV/ AIDS and focuses on gay men.

This is aimed at men who are having casual sex with other men.

The only from the same household comment comes across pretty odd though Grin

HIVpos · 12/08/2020 11:56

@Marmaladey

The advice is written by Terrence Higgins Trust, so I imagine is probably aimed at gay men having hook ups. Hook ups will still happen, so harm minimisation is over. This is pretty tame for gay sexual health messages, to be honest.

It is not suggesting that you wear a mask with your long term partner. It is not that ridiculous. It comes from a long history of harm minimisation in sexual health messaging where people know that people will have risky sex and try and make it a bit less risky.

Yes, this. THT promotes itself as a “sex positive” organisation and is, somehow, trying to say still have sex, but do it as safely as possible Hmm.

It is aimed at anyone though and relevant to all. I’ve been reading the response tweets to the article - a couple made me laugh:

1. Face down, ass up...stay safe ladies...

2. ”That’s not to say sex is off the table, but should ideally be with people who are part of your household”

Some awkward discussions at the family dinner table

I’ve also seen some “Covid friendly” sex positions somewhere, but can’t find them 🙁.

Serious note though - where the article misses the emphasis is in the last paragraph and relates back to previous articles promoting the end of new HIV transmissions by 2030 - something the government’s committed to. Now is the perfect opportunity to test. They missed a trick here in promoting their new free HIV online test finder test.tht.org.uk/breakthechain

For reference, a third of people with HIV in the U.K. are women, me included, and just under half of late diagnoses are women. Don’t know the exact stats but last I saw about 8,000 people in the U.K. are living unknowingly with HIV. Shame this wasn’t mentioned more.

NiceGerbil · 12/08/2020 19:40

I don't really want to read nasty jokes about women having to do anal on here tbh.

And it's pragmatic advice. They know that some gay men will continue having casual sex. So better to give some advice than ignore it, I'd have thought.

I worked in hiv in the 90s and back then people who injected drugs were a high risk group (probably still are). Nothing wrong with targeting high risk groups with relevent info.

HIVpos · 12/08/2020 19:58

The tweet actually came from a woman, and wasn't intended to be about anal necessarily - sorry you thought that or were offended by it. Confused

As I said, THT prides itself as being a sex positives organisation, and is just trying to suggest it be done as safely as possible.

NiceGerbil · 12/08/2020 21:18

Well the men at my work make jokes like that and it's grim.

I hope to escape that sort of shit on here!

Klaudia14 · 12/08/2020 21:21

Meanwhile in Canada.....

globalnews.ca/news/7204384/coronavirus-glory-holes-sex/

Shock
NiceGerbil · 13/08/2020 02:16

Sex in public toilets is illegal in the UK, not in Canada?

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Zoflorabore · 13/08/2020 03:08

Next on the market- antibac lube.

This is getting ridiculous now.

“They” cannot Police people’s sex lives and I say that as a forty something woman in a sexless relationship.

I doubt doing the reverse cowgirl will make much difference. Wonder what Boris does? Yuck

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