It’s difficult, I can see where you are coming from OP. I think some things will never go back to the way they were before but we couldn’t continue lockdown forever. Things are far from 90% normal now. I work in school and things are going to be very different come September. I am pleased the children will be back, but school won’t be the same. Everyone who works in school is expecting a lot of behavioural issues come September, and large gaps between those who have been supported at home to learn and those who haven’t. Unfortunately this is going to have widened the attainment gap massively between rich and poor. We just won’t know the long term effects yet.
I speak as someone in one of the groups who initially was told was vulnerable (asthma) but then later on it was decided we weren’t after all. (So no just because I occasionally get a bit wheezy with hayfever doesn’t make me clinically vulnerable).
I don’t personally know anyone who has died or been seriously ill from Covid. Obviously I know thousands have died or been ill from reading the news, but it does surprise me when other posters seem to personally know loads who have had it.
I think as humans we often find risk hard to judge rationally so I veer between thinking I am being over-cautious or reckless....
I do however know people who have been affected by lockdown - my good friend lost her job (which has affected her mental health), another friend is fighting to keep his business afloat, and most of my friends have had pay cuts. So I am aware of the wider impacts of Covid, not just the health ones.
As for dismissing the effect on children as just being a few months off school to play computer games - that is really dismissive of the Y11s and Y13s who had their final year of education cut short - I guess when this year’s GCSE and A Level results come in we’ll know the full impact this has had on them....