"I would love to know how they differentiate the died with and the died of as I think it's one of the reasons why the UK figures are so high?"
MrsWombat No, most European countries count COVID deaths as any death with a positive test
However, some don't include care homes
e.g. Germany's 9k deaths includes care homes and all institutions.
Also includes anyone dying with a positive COVID test, even victims of accident or murder
The UK's figures don't look exaggerated, because the number of COVID deaths quoted is about 20,000 below the increase in total deaths over the historical average (called excess deaths)
We can see the comparison here between countries and also see the excess deaths for the 12 UK regions:
However, we can also see deaths are v low atm,
so imo time to retart schools and the economy