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Taking Babies on Walks Safe?

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SLMater · 01/05/2020 19:01

Hello,

I wanted to canvas opinion as to whether I should intervene and say something to my friend about the fact she is still is taking her five-month-old baby out for a walk everyday in London despite the Coronavirus lockdown.

She has a large house and garden, no other children (so she's not accompanying older kids to the park or anything) and a husband she could leave the baby with if she felt she still wanted to take the risk and go out for a walk. Instead, she insists on taking the baby with her every day.

I am a parent myself of teenage offspring, so I have been there and I do sympathise with people who have toddlers/young children and are living in a flat without a garden who need to burn off some steam. But to take a small innocent baby outside who has no say in the matter just seems unnecessarily selfish.

Studies have proven the virus is airborne, can stay in the air for up to three hours, is worse in urban areas, attaches to air pollution and can be spread by people jogging as far as five metres away. It's surely no coincidence that the U.K. tragically has one of the highest death counts per capita in the world when the government is still allowing people to go out every day to shops and parks? (By comparison, in Greece, for instance, people have to text the local police station for permission to leave the house for any reason whatsoever and, as a result, there have been only 150 deaths from Covid 19.)

I feel so worried that my friend keeps putting her baby at risk like this. I've sent her articles on studies about the dangers of going out, which she seemingly has chosen to ignore. Do you think I should say something more direct to her or do I just have to stand back and watch her do this?

Thanks for your thoughts!

OP posts:
Everdreamer1990 · 02/05/2020 15:45

I have been taking my 10 week old out most days for the last 6 weeks. She is tucked away in her buggy & hasn't gotten sick yet.

My partner works out of the house all week so he is more likely to pass something on to us than us going out for a walk. She still also has to attend my GP surgery for vaccinations too.

She still needs to see & hear things in the outside world. It is good for her. She sleeps better after being in the fresh air & it is also extremely important for my mental health as I'm home alone with her for 90% of the time.

It's not fair to say that mums of babies are selfish for taking them out for a walk when there really is minimal risk!

lollipoplola · 02/05/2020 17:26

I'v just got back from taking my baby for a walk. Saw 2 cyclists in the distance. The benefits of being out in the fresh air far outweigh the tiny risk of catching covid from particles lurking in the air.

lollipoplola · 02/05/2020 17:28

And actually if you were my friend sending me articles I'd tell you to F off. Presumably she reads the news and has conducted her own risk assessment.

RoryGilmoree · 02/05/2020 17:55

I don't really see the issue with this. I also don't think it is airborne for 3 hours. It's spread by droplets so if you're coughed on by someone you could catch it but it isn't lingering around unless there are covid patients on ventilators for example. Happy to be corrected but considering I've worked in a hospital throughout the outbreak and half of us haven't caught it yet, we don't wear masks when just sitting on the wards, only when within 2m of patients so I highly doubt it remains in the air for 3 hours.

Mammyloveswine · 02/05/2020 19:15

You would not be my friend anymore...

Who the fuck do you think you are?? Your friend is NOT putting her baby at risk! Jesus Christ!!

Also, lockdown was all about ensuring the nhs can cope... covid 19 is not going away and lockdown cannot last forever!! So we will all be exposed to it and at risk, we are going to have to live with it!

eurochick · 02/05/2020 19:28

You need to deal with your own anxiety and leave your friend alone.

agteacht · 02/05/2020 19:31

I have a five month old... we go for walks everyday... it's the highlight of my day right now!! And it gets the baby to nap... YABU I'm sorry

PineappleDanish · 02/05/2020 19:34

I've sent her articles on studies about the dangers of going out, which she seemingly has chosen to ignore

How very dare you, talk about overstepping the mark. It's been a gorgeous sunny April and there have never been "rules" banning leaving the house. You are totally OTT. Please do not say anything to your poor friend.

PineappleDanish · 02/05/2020 19:41

Also OP your sense of risk-assessment is seriously awry if you are equating a shift treating Covid patients in a hospital to taking a walk in the park.

Jeezo.

Spacemonkey2016 · 02/05/2020 20:13

You're being outrageous sending her studies. I take my 3 year old and 3 month old for a walk as often as I can, following social distancing. Perfectly safe. I would be fuming if a 'friend' did that to me.

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