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Any other people think the clapping is stupid and pointless

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EL8888 · 09/04/2020 23:22

Myself and partner think it’s a load of crap and don’t participate. For clarity we are both healthcare professionals. We would prefer the NHS to be funded properly and the public use it appropriately. Rather than this hypocrisy and “support”

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RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 09/04/2020 23:24

Yes

There are eleventy billion threads about it

Every Thursday one seems to be started

(Eleventy billion may be a teeeeeny bit of an exaggeration)

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EL8888 · 09/04/2020 23:26

Well, maybe a slightly different slant as we are both working in healthcare....

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girlicorne · 09/04/2020 23:26

And the pans. Please can a law be passed to make the pan banging illegal???

Forgetaboutme · 09/04/2020 23:27

Honestly. I think a lot of people who do it are doing it more for community spirit rather than for the NHS. My son really wanted to do it tonight so we went out and clapped and it was lovely seeing all the neighbours. I'll be honest, I didnt think of the NHS while I did it. Although I am extremely grateful for what they are doing.

FlamingoAndJohn · 09/04/2020 23:28

I like to go out and see my neighbours. It’s a time when I know everyone will be there and we can all wave and chat.
You don’t like the clapping then that’s fine. Just ignore it.

MajesticWhine · 09/04/2020 23:28

I find it quite uplifting - a sense of togetherness or something.

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 09/04/2020 23:29

Well, maybe a slightly different slant as we are both working in healthcare...

There also seems to be a multitude of healthcare professionals on clapping threads who loathe it

And some who don’t

Butterymuffin · 09/04/2020 23:31

Three points

  1. Thank you for doing the work you're doing
  2. Other health professionals do feel supported the clapping and have told me so, so it's a matter of opinion.
  3. Clapping and increased funding aren't an either / or. You can be in favour of both.
LilacTree1 · 09/04/2020 23:32

“ Please can a law be passed to make the pan banging illegal???”

Yes. Wasn’t this done to people when they were being driven out of their home, or that was the aim, in the older days?

FrustratedTeddyLamp · 09/04/2020 23:33

Its been going 3 weeks. The first week i forgot until 8:05, last week didnt know about it but got a text friday asking why i didnt when the whole road was. Heard it today so thought fuck it to stop the neighbours gossiping only to hear nextdoor gossip because i had

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 09/04/2020 23:34

I was on a thread the other day on which posters were called hypocrites for saying that they hoped boris would get better

On this thread the very act of of clapping makes one hypocritical

Mum2jenny · 09/04/2020 23:34

Personally I think let the ppl who want to Clap let them get on with it, but it’s a bit pointless in my opinion. And I’m a healthcare professional!

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 09/04/2020 23:34

Please can a law be passed to make the pan banging illegal???”

And the fireworks

Where the fuck are they getting the fireworks!

IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 09/04/2020 23:34

No I don't think its stupid - im a nurse , im pretty low myself atm because of covid 19 and how it's affecting peoples lives - seeing all my neighbours clapping this evening cheers me up.

It also gives us all time to check in with each other.

Menopauseandteensdontmix100 · 09/04/2020 23:36

We do it partly to support the NHS, partly because i am worried about my father in hospital and i am really thankful to the NHS staff but for us it is also a lot to do with community spirit to wave/smile at neighbours from a far. Our street isn't normally that friendly or cohesive but i think this has brought us a lot closer together.

RedToothBrush · 09/04/2020 23:36

Its virtue signalling bollocks. The people I know who are most into it, are the ones who bend the social distancing rules to suit themselves. Its almost like because they've clapped and shown how much they support the nhs they are off the hook for following social distancing.

It just gets on my tits and is meaningless bullshit even on a community level. It enrages and stresses as many people as those who are supposed to feel soothed by the sound of clapping. It's ridiculous nonsense that's led to a spate of copy cat Claps (which competely weaken the stress of the original idea if you support it)

But the worst of all are the dickhead who are letting off bloody fireworks for it...

It's like clapping disconnects your brain for your actions.

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 09/04/2020 23:40

I clapped this week

Haven’t the last few weeks

Probably won’t again

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EL8888 · 09/04/2020 23:40

@RedToothBrush yep totally all this Angry

@Rufus people love to clap and be “seen”. But do the actually want to cough up and actually fund the NHS properly. Probably not

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DailyKegelReminder · 09/04/2020 23:42

Some people get strangely worked up about this. Clap, dont clap, most people dont care. If you have neighbours who judge you for not clapping etc then who gives a shit.

On a similar note most of my road have done the rainbow in the window thing, I'm not entirely sure what it is for or have I done it myself. Would be silly of me to get worked up about it though.

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 09/04/2020 23:43

I was in an upstairs window...so pretty much unseen Grin

Though I appreciate thats not your point

RedToothBrush · 09/04/2020 23:45

Don't get me started on the ones who film it for social media...

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 09/04/2020 23:46

I don’t do Facebook...so thats a mercy

Filming seems a bit weird, what would you actually do with the film

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EL8888 · 09/04/2020 23:47

@RedToothBrush what?! Mind you, nothing surprises me these days about the self indulgence and showing off

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RedToothBrush · 09/04/2020 23:49

On a similar note most of my road have done the rainbow in the window thing, I'm not entirely sure what it is for or have I done it myself. Would be silly of me to get worked up about it though.

It's twee and supposed to make you feel part of the same club.

Or it just makes you want to vomit at how vacuous and shallow it is. Its a way of avoiding the conversation to people about how they are afraid of being evicted, struggling to pay the bills and manage the children. But 'oooo look at all the cute rainbows, arrrrhhhhh'.

FFS.

It doesn't help anyone who is really struggling mentally and can't relate to the 'happy clappy club'.

Littlepond · 09/04/2020 23:50

I like it. All my neighbours come out, it feels like a nice community thing. Someone drove past today and whooped out their window while we were clapping. My kids like doing it. It’s nice 🤷🏼‍♀️

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