Lots of self care, lots of relaxing, lots of joy in the simple things.
We’re doing a deep clean of the flat, little by little. Much more thorough than usual cleaning. Just one job a day between the two of us.
I’m going to get back to the hobbies I love but have neglected in favour of too much retail therapy: sewing/crafting with paper; and take up new ones: embroidery/cross-stitch. Today I’m making little fabric hearts to go with some mini Christmas trees I picked up in the January sales. Long term this relates to a business I’ve wanted to start up, so I’m treating this is laying the groundwork.
We watch YouTube videos on subjects that interest us. Travel, food, gardening/allotments, handbags/style and beauty (me, not my DH, heh!), cars, homestead living in Russia, furniture making, and many more. Lots of the channels I watch have a very meditative, mindful feel and are beautifully made too, so they are soothing, calming and lovely to watch.
We are going to cook two ‘special’ meals per week, have wine and eat by candlelight and enjoy a date at home. We do that fairly often anyway but we’ll dress up nicely as if we’re eating out. I’ll wear some of my ‘going out’ clothes/jewellery that I’ve not yet had a chance to wear.
We’re having to keep our distance from my daughters (one of them is in the vulnerable group) but we’ll meet up sometimes for evening walks.
My DH ordinarily has an extremely long commute (up to 1hr, 50 min twice a day) so working from home means his day is much more relaxed overall. He was also suffering with RSI related to the long drive so it will allow him to heal and hopefully the pain will go.
We got married last month so we’re looking at this as a cosy home-honeymoon.
I’m well aware that we’re fortunate to be able to approach it this way.
I was a SAHM when my girls were little, homeschooled my eldest for two years, and for the latter part of my girls’ childhood I was a divorced resident parent who worked part time, so I’ve been there with all of that too. I wish all of you well who are dealing with challenges and difficulties, you are strong people.