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A View From Lockdown in China

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Uberfoodie · 21/03/2020 04:07

I’ve now been in isolation for two months in China. It may surprise you to learn that I am not in Wuhan, or even Hubei Province, but Wuxi, a city in Jiangsu, over 700 Km away from the epicenter of the virus.

The impression created in the Western media is that by asking the residents of one city to self-isolate, China managed to bring the outbreak under control. It’s a dangerous misconception leading to a cavalier attitude and the false assumption that putting London in lockdown would somehow make things right. The truth is that China’s measures went far beyond anything imaginable in Western cultures and extended, at the worst of the epidemic, from Guangdong Province in the South to beyond Beijing in the North.

News of the virus made little impact outside of Hubei until shortly before Chinese New Year. The holiday is a time of mass migration when workers in the cities generally return to their hometowns to visit family. Faced with the prospect of millions of people moving around the country and potentially spreading the virus further, on January 23rd we went into official lockdown.

Initially we were told that the week-long New Year Holiday would be extended by a few days but as time passed and schools were closed indefinitely, we realized that we were in for the long haul. Today, two months later, some of the stricter controls here are starting to be relaxed but we are still in lockdown mode. Our business, a restaurant is still closed by order and this will not be reviewed until April 1st at the earliest. There is no confirmed date for schools reopening and movement is still highly restricted.

Overnight, the security guards at the gate of our complex were equipped with thermometers and our temperatures were taken each time we passed. Registering an elevated temperature carried a constant fear of being reported to the authorities and quarantined. We were fortunate in being allowed relatively unrestricted access to and from our home but for many of our friends, only one person per apartment was allowed out to buy supplies every two or three days. No deliveries were allowed into the complex and a makeshift collection point was set up at the gates. No visitors were allowed and social gatherings prohibited. All cars were stopped on roads and highways as police conducted detailed questioning about recent movements and checked temperatures. Long distance travel between provinces was either suspended or reduced.

The Chinese mobilized technology to establish highly sophisticated movement and contact tracing. There is almost universal usage of WeChat (social media) and AliPay (payment system) here so everyone was required to register and give a detailed description of their current location and recent travel history. Based on this we received a QR code and our estimated risk-level. We needed to scan this to gain access to a supermarket or public building. As a result, I have friends who received a knock on their doors and were taken into official quarantine for two weeks because someone on their incoming flight or in the supermarket at the same time had tested positive for the virus. A friend has just returned from Europe (a day before mandatory quarantine for returning European travellers was imposed) and is now in compulsory lockdown in her apartment. Movement is monitored by app; the complex management has electronically sealed her windows and doors. Trapped with 4 children and with her husband who had not travelled moving into a hotel to avoid quarantine, this is unbelievably hard to navigate in good spirits but she understands, as do we all, that it’s necessary. If it all sounds very 1984, that’s because it is! But ultimately this testing, contact tracing, and shutting down chains of transmission, is what stopped the virus from spreading.

In spite of this use of technology, one hangover from the early days of the Mao era is the habit of physically pasting notices and public announcements onto the doors of homes. As such we learned within hours of the lockdown that all weddings and funerals (or at least attendance at funerals) were to be cancelled, the wearing of protective masks was compulsory and that financial incentives would be offered to those who reported undocumented travellers from Hubei province. There has been much discussion about the efficiency of using surgical masks but one thing is for certain, the physical act of having to put on a mask, wearing it and seeing others do so, focuses the mind! It is impossible to “forget” that there is an epidemic. It never feels ok to drop your guard and as such, remembering to wash your hands thoroughly and use sanitizer and wipes becomes second nature. That small strip of surgical mask becomes a constant reminder of potential danger and the need to protect yourself and those around you.

Pharmacies were immediately prohibited from selling any pain/fever/symptom relief medication; the logic being that self-medication was detrimental to the public good and that anyone displaying symptoms should be under the care of the medical profession, allowing cases to be documented and all contacts traced. This caused us endless problems as our daughter is currently staying with us. She is an AS sufferer who came from the UK for the holidays and has since been trapped! As she is on a schedule of TNF inhibitors she is immune-compromised and as such is in a high-risk category. Flying (on the one or two routes still open) was too risky. Now that the danger is subsiding at this end, flying back into an uncertain situation in the UK seems equally challenging. We found extraordinary generosity from friends who shared what medical supplies they had. In Wuhan, HIV patients, who are often vilified and ostracized in society, willingly donated their meds to trial therapies in an act of selfless compassion that was truly humbling.

Regardless of politics or social conditioning, what we have witnessed from the Chinese people in the past two months has really been the best of humanity. There was some anxiety regarding sourcing of masks (and price gouging until the government announced penalties for anyone attempting to) but this was quite simply a result of over a billion people suddenly needing them! Other than that, we have been limited to using three small shops within walking distance but have never experienced shortages or lack of availability of the basics – even toilet paper! There has always been fresh fruit and veg – maybe not what we would like but enough to keep us healthy! Yes admittedly, it helps that I am in lockdown with a Michelin starred chef who can turn a lentil, a chickpea and a bean into a feast, but basically this was down to the Chinese people who acted responsibly and were satisfied with “enough” rather than stock-piling or hoarding. My social media contacts have been uplifting and informative and there has generally been a phenomenal spirit of community and pulling together as a society in the fight against the virus. The cynical would call this propaganda, and much of it was certainly State driven or sanctioned but on a personal level, it’s far better for mental health than the venomous pit of Facebook conspiracy theories and rumours.

Without doubt, the past two months have been devastating; the business that we have run for 12 years is decimated and will never recover. We’ve been isolated, cut off from the medical care that two of we three desperately need and our daughter has faced the uncertainty of being isolated here and anxious about her friends and boyfriend in the UK. Our present has been put on indefinite hold and our future looks increasingly uncertain but that’s what it took to bring this virus under control and save lives.

We rightly value the freedoms that Western democracies afford us and so many of the measures adopted in China will be impossible to implement. But if we cherish that freedom we also have to accept that it is a social contract and only functions if we individually and as a society contribute positively and act responsibly.

To those expressing anger, hatred or even violence against others, please think about what entire nations have endured to halt the spread of this virus and instead of negativity, be thankful.

To those downplaying the seriousness of this virus and posting on internet boards about their toddler really needing his play date, asking if the supermarket manager will realize they are a special case and allow them to buy six packs of dried pasta, or saying that their parents cannot do without seeing their grandchildren because they really love them, please define “love”. Is it tonight’s dinner or tomorrow’s visit, or is it about doing whatever it takes to keep our loved ones safe, no matter the personal cost.

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ArgumentativeAardvaark · 21/03/2020 19:57

@ilovejonnydepp maybe you need to read the thread on MN today by the poster whose 8 year old daughter nearly died because she had meningitis and there was no ambulance available to take her to hospital.

The point is not that some, mostly old, people will die from covid-19. It is that people will die from other, preventable things because the NHS is completely overwhelmed by coronavirus cases.

To give you an example- last year my 40 year-old brother fell from a roof and suffered head and spinal injuries. He was on a ventilator in an induced coma for 2 weeks. He is still with us (albeit paraplegic). If that ventilator had not been available he would have died.

Get it?

OutComeTheWolves · 21/03/2020 20:50

Can I ask op what about homeless people during a lockdown? Where do they go as surely they don't have permission or whatever to be outside but nor will they have somewhere to go.

MissyJane2 · 21/03/2020 23:57

@Queenscake from Uberfoodie the OP.

A friend has just returned from Europe (a day before mandatory quarantine for returning European travellers was imposed) and is now in compulsory lockdown in her apartment. Movement is monitored by app; the complex management has electronically sealed her windows and doors. Trapped with 4 children and with her husband who had not travelled moving into a hotel to avoid quarantine,

Letseatgrandma · 22/03/2020 00:08

In your lockdown, what has happened with schools?

As you’ve probably seen, the PM ‘closed’ schools as of yesterday, but they will open as childcare for children with SEN, vulnerable children with social workers and those who have a key worker as a parent. The list of key workers is huge. Some schools will have hundreds of pupils in on on Monday. Some LAs have combined schools to make hubs, welcoming 1000 pupils from numerous schools plus assorted staff from across them.

How does this compare with what you’ve done?

Sunflower20 · 22/03/2020 01:00

OP thanks for sharing and please carry on writing.
I wish that what you've written can be shared online to a wider audience so the stupid can get a grip.

Uberfoodie · 22/03/2020 01:38

Schools here have been closed since the Chinese New Year holiday (January 23rd). The large international school immediately implemented an online learning programme and local schools quickly followed suit. They've effectively tried to replicate their usual curriculum - just in a virtual environment with full teaching support. This has worked well for the international school whose staff had dispersed back to their home countries for the holidays and struggled to get back. We have friends still in Spain and Russia currently teaching classes in China. Students have login passes and so their "attendance" is registered. There have been challenges and it's been a massive adjustment but everyone seems to be finding ways to make it work. I've seen pictures of friends' children even doing PE lessons in their apartments.

The biggest challenge in this is the effort that parents have to make in order to support their children in this, especially the little ones - imagine a 4 year old being taught via ipad! The schools have found that the parents needed as much support as the students - but it's understandable given that most parents were also trying to juggle working from home at the same time. The parents who were able, required or allowed to return to work have often taken their child with them to the office and set them up with a desk in the corner.

It's a sweeping generalisation but largely true that the family unit here is most typically two parents, one, possibly two children and grandparents who share the responsibility of child care. It's also largely true to say that people here have very tight bonds within their own social network and do step in to help each other where they can.

The "Tiger Mom" is not a mythical creature; generally speaking parents here are very concerned about and involved with their children's schooling and found ways to cope because they had no alternative and they do prioritise education. I've had many phone calls from friends asking for help with their kids' English homework. Not for the children - for the mothers:-)

To date there is no official update regarding plans to reopen schools here but the general feeling is that they will start with University and High School and bring younger students back at a later date. That seems to be the real litmus test as to whether we're out of the danger zone or not.

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MarshaBradyo · 22/03/2020 01:58

Uberfoodie what financial help is there? Do you have wage payments, mortgage or rent help? Payments frozen? Do you feel this will get strained as time goes on.

Uberfoodie · 22/03/2020 02:22

This is why our business has pretty much been decimated: as a private, foreign owned business here, we're on our own. Chinese New Year is always a stretch financially for companies. The public holiday is mandated for a week. Staff receive their bonuses (usually a double salary) at this time. It's just something you have to account for but it does mean that cash flow is always tight at that time of year. Unfortunately since then, we've not been allowed to open and as such have generated no income. The bills keep coming though!

The government has introduced stimulus packages but largely for State Owned Industries. Banks have been "advised" to offer additional loans or favourable terms but as foreigners here, we don't qualify. We can't even get a credit card from a local bank in spite of living here for over a decade.

Measures like extensions on tax/accounts filing don't really have any impact when the total for the month is a large round zero!

It's a terrifying situation to be in. We're scared for ourselves. We feel awful for our staff who've always been wonderful and now face losing their jobs but we're literally at the end of the road and it will take a miracle to get through this. In many respects, being in lockdown was like a state of limbo - there was literally nothing we could do. As we're coming to the end of that, picking up the pieces is the challenge.

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Absentwomen · 22/03/2020 02:45

Thank you, OP for sharing this. Sending you warmest wishes for you and your family. You've kindly shared an insightful look into life in lockdown.

LINABE · 22/03/2020 03:14

@Uberfoodie thank you for an honest, humbling, beautifully written account of life under lockdown.

I wish - oh how I wish that we had already done the same in the U.K.
I know that to date not one person has been tested for COVID on entering the country unless they are showing symptoms.

I seriously think we are at great peril - people are STILL doing their own thing, and that it is going to be horrendous.

Kindest regards to you all and I hope the future gets brighter ASAP.

CanadianJohn · 22/03/2020 03:51

In the same vein as a previous poster, my granddaughter recently returned from China. Here is her FB post:

Hi everyone! As most of you know, I have been living in China for over a year now. I was there in January when the Coronavirus was beginning to be known about out of Wuhan, a ten hour drive away from me. As it started to spread to other cities, the country very quickly went into full quarantine in an effort to contain it. My work, and the majority of businesses were closed and everyone was told to stay inside as much as possible. If we had to go out, for food and necessities, it was ok as long as you wore a mask and plastic gloves, both very recommended. There was a lot of anxiety, and fear of the unknown, as we are now experiencing here in the US. I was in quarantine for six weeks in China before I decided to come home to visit my family, and am now self-quarantining at home for 14 days, as requested by the CDC for travelers who are returning from a country impacted by this virus. I am 100% healthy and am checked on every day by the health department. I’m perfectly fine!

Having been quarantined for so long, and now starting all over again, I thought I could maybe offer some information from my experiences in China to help fears and anxieties many people may have.

It’s unnecessary to hoard food and toilet paper! It’s only adding to fear-mongering. The US isn’t on the same level of quarantine China was placed on and I hope we won’t have to get to that point, but even at full quarantine we never lacked for food and supplies. Though, even in China, you were still freely allowed to leave your apartment, you were asked to leave as little as possible. If you did need to go to the grocery store, they told us to buy food for 3-5 days, keep your distance from others, and only send one person to go shopping, don’t bring the whole family. Groceries were accessible and some restaurants were open for ordering food, just not dining in.

Quarantine was extremely boring and somewhat eerie. The streets were empty and it looked as if it were an apocalyptic movie. This was especially shocking to see as this virus began just as Chinese New Year was starting, the biggest holiday in China. We were inside all day (except for a small walk I would occasionally go on for some fresh air) with the same people day in and day out. Online video games rose in popularity significantly in China. 😂 But, the boredom and, for many, the lack of any income, is what we had to endure for the greater good of society. A collective effort by everyone to keep others safe and to stop the spread of this virus was necessary, and ultimately, was successful. China is slowly starting to return to normal life.

I guess my whole reason for this post is to express how important social distancing is during this time. This doesn’t mean you need to be confined to your homes, but making small changes helps towards the greater good of everyone. Limit your outings, check in on your elderly neighbors to see if they need anything and maybe include their list in your grocery run, since they are more vulnerable to sickness. Quarantining is just an effort to keep people from gathering in public places, it’s not something to be feared. It’s a great time to read more, catch up on that Netflix series you’ve been meaning to watch, call a friend, try a new recipe, but don’t panic! It’s such an unprecedented time, I know that we just don’t know what to expect, but having gone through this in China, I can say that it may get worse before it gets better, but it’s going to all be okay. ❤️

PeachesPlumsPears · 22/03/2020 04:21

Thank you for sharing - it was fascinating to read it and yes, you do write beautifully.

Wishing you and your family all the best Flowers

PlanDeRaccordement · 22/03/2020 05:12

My family in China were not sealed in by electronic doors and windows!
The QR code is correct though.

Uberfoodie · 22/03/2020 05:20

@PlanDeRaccodement neither were we subject to electronically monitored windows and doors. However, the family in question flew in from Europe this week and were allowed to self-isolate at home rather than spend a 14 day quarantine in a hotel on the basis that their movements could be controlled and verified in this way.

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SophocIestheFox · 22/03/2020 07:07

Thanks, uberfoodie, for your informative and well written posts. Wishing you and your family strength in these trying times Flowers

PlanDeRaccordement · 22/03/2020 08:38

Ok, it just seemed from your post that it is common to be sealed into your apartment. It doesn’t happen to everyone. My niece recently flew back to China from France on one of the last flights out and she is currently doing her quarantine in a hotel. She is also not sealed into her room.

halexanderamilton · 22/03/2020 08:52

Thank you @uberfoodie. I wish this could be shared amongst the people having a jolly day out in my town who appear to think that no rules apply to them Sad
I hope that normality returns to you soon Thanks

Ylvamoon · 22/03/2020 09:04

Thank you for this thread - we need more people like you. To stop all this selfishness and scaremongering.

ilovejonnydepp · 22/03/2020 09:13

@ArgumentativeAardvaark I do get it and I am sorry to hear. My brother was in an accident a few years ago and lived as a quadriplegic until sadly he passed away. I do get it.. and I wish him well and strong, it's awfully sad. But where I live we only have a population of around 7million and more hospitals per capita than the UK. Every country is different. We only have 500 cases here and most are quarantined. I just feel uncomfortable with the ease in which we are controlled by the authorities.

fedup21 · 22/03/2020 09:14

It's a sweeping generalisation but largely true that the family unit here is most typically two parents, one, possibly two children and grandparents who share the responsibility of child care.

So were grandparents providing childcare in general? Were the schools completely closed for the children of frontline workers?

millmoo · 22/03/2020 09:23

Thank you op xx

buckeejit · 22/03/2020 10:03

Thanks for that OP.

I agree if we all take this as seriously as we should, it should curb it sooner but it looks like some people are still out & about as normal.

BigChocFrenzy · 22/03/2020 10:11

Excellent and informative post, OP
and very well written

dorapicasso · 22/03/2020 11:42

One of the most informative and powerful things I have read on Mumsnet OP. You write beautifully. Thank you.

chartreuse · 22/03/2020 12:20

Thank you OP, this should be compulsory reading.

I wish this could happen here, the backlash would be huge, but it would be so worth it.

Wishing you the very best as you rebuild your lives.

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