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A View From Lockdown in China

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Uberfoodie · 21/03/2020 04:07

I’ve now been in isolation for two months in China. It may surprise you to learn that I am not in Wuhan, or even Hubei Province, but Wuxi, a city in Jiangsu, over 700 Km away from the epicenter of the virus.

The impression created in the Western media is that by asking the residents of one city to self-isolate, China managed to bring the outbreak under control. It’s a dangerous misconception leading to a cavalier attitude and the false assumption that putting London in lockdown would somehow make things right. The truth is that China’s measures went far beyond anything imaginable in Western cultures and extended, at the worst of the epidemic, from Guangdong Province in the South to beyond Beijing in the North.

News of the virus made little impact outside of Hubei until shortly before Chinese New Year. The holiday is a time of mass migration when workers in the cities generally return to their hometowns to visit family. Faced with the prospect of millions of people moving around the country and potentially spreading the virus further, on January 23rd we went into official lockdown.

Initially we were told that the week-long New Year Holiday would be extended by a few days but as time passed and schools were closed indefinitely, we realized that we were in for the long haul. Today, two months later, some of the stricter controls here are starting to be relaxed but we are still in lockdown mode. Our business, a restaurant is still closed by order and this will not be reviewed until April 1st at the earliest. There is no confirmed date for schools reopening and movement is still highly restricted.

Overnight, the security guards at the gate of our complex were equipped with thermometers and our temperatures were taken each time we passed. Registering an elevated temperature carried a constant fear of being reported to the authorities and quarantined. We were fortunate in being allowed relatively unrestricted access to and from our home but for many of our friends, only one person per apartment was allowed out to buy supplies every two or three days. No deliveries were allowed into the complex and a makeshift collection point was set up at the gates. No visitors were allowed and social gatherings prohibited. All cars were stopped on roads and highways as police conducted detailed questioning about recent movements and checked temperatures. Long distance travel between provinces was either suspended or reduced.

The Chinese mobilized technology to establish highly sophisticated movement and contact tracing. There is almost universal usage of WeChat (social media) and AliPay (payment system) here so everyone was required to register and give a detailed description of their current location and recent travel history. Based on this we received a QR code and our estimated risk-level. We needed to scan this to gain access to a supermarket or public building. As a result, I have friends who received a knock on their doors and were taken into official quarantine for two weeks because someone on their incoming flight or in the supermarket at the same time had tested positive for the virus. A friend has just returned from Europe (a day before mandatory quarantine for returning European travellers was imposed) and is now in compulsory lockdown in her apartment. Movement is monitored by app; the complex management has electronically sealed her windows and doors. Trapped with 4 children and with her husband who had not travelled moving into a hotel to avoid quarantine, this is unbelievably hard to navigate in good spirits but she understands, as do we all, that it’s necessary. If it all sounds very 1984, that’s because it is! But ultimately this testing, contact tracing, and shutting down chains of transmission, is what stopped the virus from spreading.

In spite of this use of technology, one hangover from the early days of the Mao era is the habit of physically pasting notices and public announcements onto the doors of homes. As such we learned within hours of the lockdown that all weddings and funerals (or at least attendance at funerals) were to be cancelled, the wearing of protective masks was compulsory and that financial incentives would be offered to those who reported undocumented travellers from Hubei province. There has been much discussion about the efficiency of using surgical masks but one thing is for certain, the physical act of having to put on a mask, wearing it and seeing others do so, focuses the mind! It is impossible to “forget” that there is an epidemic. It never feels ok to drop your guard and as such, remembering to wash your hands thoroughly and use sanitizer and wipes becomes second nature. That small strip of surgical mask becomes a constant reminder of potential danger and the need to protect yourself and those around you.

Pharmacies were immediately prohibited from selling any pain/fever/symptom relief medication; the logic being that self-medication was detrimental to the public good and that anyone displaying symptoms should be under the care of the medical profession, allowing cases to be documented and all contacts traced. This caused us endless problems as our daughter is currently staying with us. She is an AS sufferer who came from the UK for the holidays and has since been trapped! As she is on a schedule of TNF inhibitors she is immune-compromised and as such is in a high-risk category. Flying (on the one or two routes still open) was too risky. Now that the danger is subsiding at this end, flying back into an uncertain situation in the UK seems equally challenging. We found extraordinary generosity from friends who shared what medical supplies they had. In Wuhan, HIV patients, who are often vilified and ostracized in society, willingly donated their meds to trial therapies in an act of selfless compassion that was truly humbling.

Regardless of politics or social conditioning, what we have witnessed from the Chinese people in the past two months has really been the best of humanity. There was some anxiety regarding sourcing of masks (and price gouging until the government announced penalties for anyone attempting to) but this was quite simply a result of over a billion people suddenly needing them! Other than that, we have been limited to using three small shops within walking distance but have never experienced shortages or lack of availability of the basics – even toilet paper! There has always been fresh fruit and veg – maybe not what we would like but enough to keep us healthy! Yes admittedly, it helps that I am in lockdown with a Michelin starred chef who can turn a lentil, a chickpea and a bean into a feast, but basically this was down to the Chinese people who acted responsibly and were satisfied with “enough” rather than stock-piling or hoarding. My social media contacts have been uplifting and informative and there has generally been a phenomenal spirit of community and pulling together as a society in the fight against the virus. The cynical would call this propaganda, and much of it was certainly State driven or sanctioned but on a personal level, it’s far better for mental health than the venomous pit of Facebook conspiracy theories and rumours.

Without doubt, the past two months have been devastating; the business that we have run for 12 years is decimated and will never recover. We’ve been isolated, cut off from the medical care that two of we three desperately need and our daughter has faced the uncertainty of being isolated here and anxious about her friends and boyfriend in the UK. Our present has been put on indefinite hold and our future looks increasingly uncertain but that’s what it took to bring this virus under control and save lives.

We rightly value the freedoms that Western democracies afford us and so many of the measures adopted in China will be impossible to implement. But if we cherish that freedom we also have to accept that it is a social contract and only functions if we individually and as a society contribute positively and act responsibly.

To those expressing anger, hatred or even violence against others, please think about what entire nations have endured to halt the spread of this virus and instead of negativity, be thankful.

To those downplaying the seriousness of this virus and posting on internet boards about their toddler really needing his play date, asking if the supermarket manager will realize they are a special case and allow them to buy six packs of dried pasta, or saying that their parents cannot do without seeing their grandchildren because they really love them, please define “love”. Is it tonight’s dinner or tomorrow’s visit, or is it about doing whatever it takes to keep our loved ones safe, no matter the personal cost.

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springiscoming12 · 21/03/2020 07:57

Thank you so much for posting this OP - some of the measures may seem draconian but when you’re dealing with something this contagious and deadly, that’s the best approach. I hope you and your family stay healthy and well

Uberfoodie · 21/03/2020 08:03

My original post was a real “light a candle in the darkness” moment and all of your replies and positive wishes have really restored my faith – in people and in my own ability to carry on and get through this. Thank you!

Whatever form of isolation, or lockdown many of you have experienced or are currently facing, I cannot pretend that it is or will be easy. Your way of life will be changed – at least in the short term – but we all have greater resources to cope than we ever imagined and sometimes we don’t know how strong we actually are until we are really tested. No matter how dark it may seem, find your own little candle and realize that the human spirit is resilient and things will get better!

I’m British, my husband is German and our daughter is an adult now, which, I concede is much easier than trying to navigate lockdown with small children. Our daughter came to visit for the holidays and essentially became trapped once the virus hit. Is it selfish to admit that after “losing” her to University and a life in the UK, both my husband and I have loved having her here with us again? See what I mean about finding consolation where you can?

It is also true that going into any form of lockdown is easier when the whole of society is in the same position. There are no choices to be made here – just a clear and simple set of guidelines to which we had to submit. Much of what I have seen from the UK has resulted from the government making “suggestions” and then asking the public to make rational, sensible choices as to whether a play date for the children or a quick coffee with a friend was permissible or not. Closing restaurants and bars in the UK is an extreme measure for sure but we are living in extreme times. None of us like the idea of a Nanny State but right now we all need a little more guidance than usual! A dear friend of mine is looking after her father who is in post cancer recovery in the UK. She was finding it difficult to be firm about activities and outings but once we’d talked this through, she has found the resolve to be firm. Sometimes Tough Love is the most valuable of all.

I found it easier to cope knowing that I needed to keep my daughter and husband safe. It’s important not to become paranoid (and being locked in an apartment for two months can easily bring out those tendencies) but think calmly and logically about what you need to be safe. Masks and hand sanitizer became second nature from day one. Do you really care if a stranger gives you odd looks if wearing that mask keeps your family safe? We abandoned shopping bags, shoes, outdoor clothes outside of our living area and paid only electronically where possible to avoid contamination via cash. Is that sensible? Rational? Who knows? It’s unproven as to how long the virus can live on surfaces with some reports suggesting several days. The point was, we found ways of responding and implemented practices that made us feel safer. It kept us calm and you too will find your own ways of feeling positive and doing whatever you need to feel protected.

We resist any form of invasion of privacy in the UK – even rejecting a National Identity Card – but there is little doubt that the ability to trace contacts has been critical in ensuring that chains of transmission were halted in their tracks. Hong Kong has, as pointed out, introduced electronic wristbands for new arrivals. Singapore, also with SARS fresh in their memories, had managed to contain the virus but recorded their first deaths yesterday. This morning the government launched an app to enable easier contact tracing should someone fall ill. This is in stark contrast to the UK where the Minister for Health had to post on Facebook because she couldn’t recall with whom she had met in the previous week.

Regarding my friend who just arrived back from Europe, she lives in a “Smart” building in Suzhou and yes, the windows are doors are electronically sealed under the control of the building management. She is able to open the door with a code (so no safety issues) but it is monitored and movements have to be accounted for. She is allowed to leave for short periods of time such as shopping every few days. From Monday, it was announced that arrivals from Virus hot spots would actually go into mandated quarantine rather than lockdown so in spite of the challenges, she’s actually grateful to be in her own home with her children’s games and resources rather than in a quarantine hotel at the airport. Another example of finding the positive in a dire situation!

As measures here start to ease, we’re faced with another challenge – how to recover and resume “normal” life. What will that even look like! How do we learn from this and move forward in a positive way? Have we been forever changed by this experience? We can only hope that we learn and grow as a result but right now, it’s hard to know how to achieve that. We’ve been devastated financially. We feel responsibility to our staff who have been like family to us over the past years but we cannot give them guarantees that our business will recover. Our suppliers are unable to provide the quality of produce that we rely on given that most of our ingredients in the restaurant are imported. How will people respond once restrictions are fully lifted? I think it will take a while for people to feel comfortable relaxing in a social setting again when we have been living with such extreme levels of fear and anxiety for so long. It’s become the new normal to isolate. International business travel, which is a huge part of our customer base, will not resume for the foreseeable future and in spite of this I can honestly say that I am thankful. We are safe; we are together and will find a way back from this.

In the meantime, I have a Chef on hand who for the first time in his career has had to navigate a can opener and feed us from meager supermarket stocks so if any of you need tips or advice, feel free to ask!

Should any of you wish to share the post, please do so. The more information people have, the more we will all be able to make the best and safest choices for ourselves, our families and our communities.

We’ve been uplifted and grateful each time a friend has reached out to ask how we’re doing. Be kind to each other, share what resources you can, say thank you to the people who are working to keep you safe and above all find your own little candle in the darkness to help you through the dark times!

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alloutoffucks · 21/03/2020 08:03

Quarantining all visitors to the country for 2 weeks actually safeguards their economy though. Of course it makes tourism much more difficult and numbers will plummet. But countries that act like China will in the long run suffer less economic impact than countries that do half hearted measures lasting far far monger.

ArgumentativeAardvaark · 21/03/2020 08:04

Fascinating and beautifully written. Thank you OP. The Guardian would snap this up. I also love the image of you being in isolation with a Michelin-starred chef!

HelgaHere1 · 21/03/2020 08:05

Very interesting thanks.

Unescorted · 21/03/2020 08:21

Amazing post! thank you for sharing.

There has been a huge degree of minimizing here. The government here has form for not wanting to scare the horses. This is a cultural thing and doesn't apply to any one colour of Government. The language that is used is mild, but codified so where the intention of the message tone is DON'T UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES we are told "it is suggested that you may want to consider". Pneumonia / respiratory failure is reported as mild flu like symptoms exacerbating underlying conditions. People come away with the feeling that it is something that happens to other people, and even if it does happen to them they will have a bit of a sniffle. I doubt HM Treasury would underwrite £330bn of expenditure to save us from mild flu symptoms.

FeelTheRush · 21/03/2020 08:23

This is super interesting, thank you for taking the time to write it. I am in Hong Kong and my husband is abroad for work atm so will have to quarantine when he gets back (as will I). Good to hear from someone else who has been through similar!

wecandothispeeps · 21/03/2020 08:23

Your update is perhaps is even more beautifully written than your original post, and I have to confess having held it together for over a week which already feels forever, it brought a tear to my eye. The tremendous hardship you have endured, the tunnel of fear we are all experiencing, the loss of so much of life that we enjoy. You have sewn it it all into a post that radiates with kindness and the goodwill.

You have certainly given me hope, and helped me prepare mentally for week two, and three and beyond. Thank you op Flowers

PumpkinPiloter · 21/03/2020 08:23

What an excellent informative post!

TheElementsOfMedical · 21/03/2020 08:35

Thank you OP Flowers

lubeybooby · 21/03/2020 08:48

This is incredible. I had no idea - thank you OP Flowers

Lordfrontpaw · 21/03/2020 08:52

Thank you so much for sharing - beautifully written. So calm and measures - we are a little to kill each other and it’s only day 5 (well, day 3 with all of us).

Frenchfancy · 21/03/2020 09:06

Thank you for your post. We are 5 days into the French lock down and I'm finding it difficult today. Like you we have built up a business over 17 years and we do not know if it will ever recover. It is so difficult to get a picture as to what is really going on in other countries so posts such as yours are important.

pocketem · 21/03/2020 09:25

Very interesting. I had a few questions. What are the government doing to keep small businesses open and to ensure lockdowned workers get an income? How do essential workers get to work if there is no public transport and no schools open to look after their kids? How do the shops stay well stocked if shop assistants, delivery drivers, farm workers etc are all in lockdown?

foreigngal · 21/03/2020 09:56

This is unbelievable! Thank you OP for enlightening us. This honestly has to be shown everywhere. We should all get sharing and get this post online on all platforms. SHARE, REPOST DaffodilBiscuitDaffodil

GenxfeellikeaBoomer · 21/03/2020 10:42

Interesting post.

Such a small % of the Chinese population has had the virus that as soon as they relax measures will they not be back in the same situation as they were to start with? More warning. Awareness of what the virus is? Intention to flatten the curve etc... but with a population that has not had the virus and so also like Europeans has no immunity to it, will they not be in the same situation as the rest of us as soon as they relax the rules?

Uberfoodie · 21/03/2020 11:37

Hi GenxfeellikeaBoomer - China's decisions regarding lifting the restrictions are being made according to rates of local transmission. If an area has no recorded cases of a person-to-person infection over the previous days (14 days, I think but I may be wrong!) then an area is deemed virus free and restrictions are cautiously eases rather than lifted altogether. That's the phase we are currently in. Some fast food restaurants are now open for example but with strictly monitored disinfection protocols, mandatory mask/glove wearing for staff and a required minimum distance between customers. Restaurants like ours are still closed and there is no word on schools yet although any reopening of schools will likely be phased in starting with the universities and high schools.

According to local reports, the only new cases that have been recorded are among returning travelers which is why quarantine protocols have been initiated for arrivals from certain countries and 14 day isolation/monitoring for arrivals from less infected areas. As such, the logic is that any new outbreak would be small and contacts both limited and easily traced.

How this will progress is anyone's guess, but it seems certain that these containment measures for travelers will remain in place to a degree until there are no more hotspots and a cure or vaccine has been found.

Ultimately we're all in uncharted territory here...

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lunarain · 21/03/2020 12:24

We are being groomed to give up our freedoms please wake up people. they dont do proper testing. they havent properly bothered to quarantine people but all of a sudden they have unlimited resources to remove our freedoms. this is what grooming looks like. You have been warned. We are being groomed to give up our freedom. What next -"The virus has come back so now we have to microchip everyone so we can serve ourselves in shops and not spread it' WAKE UP THIS IS INSANITY

HelgaHere1 · 21/03/2020 12:40

I'm surprised I don't see interviews or articles about people going off grid - even before the CV - mind you if you are far enough into the woods how would anyone know you were there?

MsSafina · 21/03/2020 13:55

Thanks for your post. What do you think of the measures being taken here? Too little too late?

GenxfeellikeaBoomer · 21/03/2020 16:26

Thank you @Uberfoodie

@lunarain how would testing everybody work? they would have to comply with that! and the problem is that there are low levels of compliance. Iceland tested nearly their entire population I think but I don't know how that is administered. Iceland had about 150 cases when Ireland had 2 but their cases have levelled and ours have gone up to about 700 now.

hopefulhalf · 21/03/2020 18:32

Lunarain can I direct you to sky news' report from Bergamo we are 2 weeks away from that.

ilovejonnydepp · 21/03/2020 18:56

I live in a country which is now in lockdown. I am shocked at how easily our Government has closed down businesses, schools, transport. How easily they have forced people into their homes, stopped freedom of movement. It's insanity and I don't understand why and how we agree to it so easily too. It's a virus. Most people will get it and move on, some won't. A little like the flu. Maybe I am naive, but actually it scares the cr*p out of me that an entire country the size of China has successfully destroyed people's businesses and locked them all up. Why are we accepting this???

MarshaBradyo · 21/03/2020 18:58

Trouble is JohnnyDepp you get the opposite over here saying the government didn’t do enough to stop spread and save lives. Our projected U.K. death rate is far higher than China and probably most other countries.

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