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Anyone else can’t sleep?

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Lardlizard · 18/03/2020 04:43

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clairethewitch70 · 18/03/2020 05:52

Day 14 of symptoms. Still breathless. I appear to be in the dreaded second phase. Can’t get through on 111. Scared. Have infected my DM and she is a few days behind me.

Solasum · 18/03/2020 05:54

I just woke up, and for one minute I had forgotten. And now I have remembered and it doesn’t seem like this can be real. And I really want my mum, but I can’t even see her and may not ever again.

I saw a thing on Facebook about how the way we individually react to this will be what our children watch and how they learn to cope with adversity, which is so true,
And so during the days I am unrelentingly positive. But I don’t WANT my six year old to have to cope with adversity. I want to be taking him on days out and planning holidays and doing everything that makes normal life happen. And so I am shedding a tear in the dark. It will be gone by morning.

GratitudeGoddess · 18/03/2020 05:58

I agree school closures are imminent. We will get through this. ❤️

MarshaBradyo · 18/03/2020 06:00

If they closed the schools it would help. Two not going but teen dc is too keen. Last day today or Friday latest.

LadyPenelope68 · 18/03/2020 06:01

@langkaw you’d be amazed, I was jumped on for saying that the other day. Basically told teachers are free child care because people need to work.

EstuaryBird · 18/03/2020 06:02

DH and I both self isolating due to lung conditions. Made an early decision on that so both been indoors for 6 days already.

His work is gone anyway (event security). I’m usually really active - Cub Leader, Chair of Governors, Invigilator - keep really busy, but now nothing, anything that needs doing is done online...am going to really miss seeing the Cubs tonight Sad

Mostly scaring myself shitless about the possible breakdown of society though.,.I’m so worried that the panic buying is just the start of it. My positive side says people are generally good and everyone will look after each other but my doom and gloom side says that we’re all going to hell in a handcart!!

Plus...in 6 days of isolation I’ve put on 3lbs!! even though we’re trying to stretch our supplies out until our next delivery slot in 2 weeks time.

MarshaBradyo · 18/03/2020 06:04

Estuary I would hope they’d do like Europe and have police patrolling on a lockdown. Or army ready.

Nquartz · 18/03/2020 06:05

@Solasum I'm worried about breaking down in front of DD because she's coping brilliantly, she just misses her friends.

I had to cry in the loo yesterday because I didn't want her to see me upset.

How are we going to cope with lack of privacy?! We are lucky to have 3 bedrooms & only 3 people but we'll never really get away from each other.

I've been so busy planning video chats with DD's friends (they're 7/8) that I haven't thought about me, I'll miss the daily interaction at school pick up & work.

Solasum · 18/03/2020 06:11

@Nquartz. I honestly don’t know. I am determined not to turn into a snappy angry mother, but I really need my space at the best of times, and that is when we can spend most of the weekend doing stuff, and the week is busy. I am going to be much more proactive in the weeks ahead about staying in touch with people.

Once we are at home, I am going to suggest that we have ‘quiet time’ as part of the daily calendar (which I have drawn up, to establish any tiny modicum of control) where we stay apart doing reading or other quiet games for half an hour.

Good luck!

MsGillis · 18/03/2020 06:14

@clairethewitch70 Flowers I hope you're ok.

I've had some symptoms for 11 days now (sore throat, dry cough, burny eyes) and was just working out that if you only need to self isolate for 7 days after symptoms begin then technically, even though I'm probably feeling it more than the rest of the household (who have no symptoms) I can probably go out again now, according to the latest guidance, as I don't have a temperature?

Then I woke up at 4am short of breath and had to get up, take an anti-histmine and do some work to distract my mind. Anti-histamine has helped but trying not to dwell to much on the anxiety... Was glad for the excuse to keep the DCs off school yesterday and don't plan on sending them back until things calm down, whether they officially close or not.

Janus · 18/03/2020 06:17

Me too, been up since 5.30, looking at bbc news app, must stop that!! I have 2 children with birthdays in first week of April so need to order some more presents soon as won’t be able to go out soon I guess. My 50thnis in May, was meant to go to Paris, will have to have a french themed night at home!! Another child’s birthday in May, final one early July, not sure it will even be ‘normal’ then.
Spent a lot of yesterday in tears. My parents live 150 miles away, both nearly 80. I can’t cope with the thoughts I have for them. Went to the supermarket yesterday as stupidly listened to the ‘don’t stock pile’ and now there’s hardly anything left!
On a positive, all 6 of us sat down last night and worked out which box sets we are going to watch! All series of line of duty for me as I’ve dipped in and out of this! Breaking Bad, black mirror, some mafia type thing for husband etc! Will watch lots of pony films with one child and football YouTube videos with another! I may even learn how to play football!!
So what plans do you all have for Tv to watch or skills to learn?

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 18/03/2020 06:30

My chest hurts and my glands are swollen. I have a painful cough though I don't know if I'd call it continuous. I ache all over too, and I can't get warm, though my temp is apparently normal.

So scared, I don't want to make DH or the kids ill.

HeronLanyon · 18/03/2020 06:35

janus (and others) really sorry you have lost of worries on your plate.
I took a break from watching news yesterday and feel better for it.
I will watch twice only today - this am and maybe 9 o’clock. When all of the confused unclear press conferences etc have been digested and corrected/clarified etc.
I’ve got full wfh day but I’m getting my electric keyboard out later, plugging in headphones and doing some music.
Also have deep sorting plans - watched a Marie kondo Netflix episode yesterday to get me a little bit in the headspace.
Support all.

Whatelsecouldibecalled · 18/03/2020 06:38

Been awake since 3am feeling seriously stressed. I’m nearly 38 weeks pregnant with my first (ivf) baby. I’m trying to stay level headed and failing miserably. Social distancing really affecting my mental health. I’m worried that if DH get so much as a sniffle they won’t let him be there at the birth. I’m frightened about the situation and what is to come. I dreamed For so long of maternity leave and having a baby and all the things that come with that baby groups my family etc but that’s all going to be different now.

I’ve had a minor headache for two days now which I’m 99% sure is stress related and starting with a very minor Cough which has now made me so paranoid. I realise this post is all about me and it’s very indulgent I just feel so worried and upset

swishthecat · 18/03/2020 06:39

Mostly scaring myself shitless about the possible breakdown of society though.,.I’m so worried that the panic buying is just the start of it.

This is what scares me too, but I honestly don't think it will happen. The supermarkets are beginning to take action to stop panic buying I think so that will help, none of us will starve. Do you know, people seem to have been panic buying chest freezers to go along with their panic bought food? The selfishness of it, FFS.

swishthecat · 18/03/2020 06:41

Oh Whatelsecouldibecalled This will all pass and you will be able to enjoy your lovely baby. Flowers

Flippetydip · 18/03/2020 07:06

Feeling so so sorry for everyone who is anxious about this. I'm not saying it's not serious, it absolutely is, but in a bad year of flu around 20,000 people die and it NEVER hits the media. Everyone in my city is whipped into a frenzy of panic buying - and we have only had 2 confirmed cases which has stayed stable over the last 5 days.

Now I know, we have to do social distancing. We have stopped everything. Church, Scouts, swimming, drama, choir, orchestra, running club (there are 4 of us including adults that do these things in case you think my kids are shunted from pillar to post!) and meeting with friends. Everything other than school and work. I already wfh. So I know it's serious but I do think we (including me, who has been awake since some awful hour stressing in bed but not wanting to wake everyone) need to get some perspective and I especially need to stop checking the news every 10 minutes.

FWIW, I am worried. I am worried about the breakdown of society, I am worried about elderly people with the likes of dementia having to self-isolate, I am very worried that when the time comes for schools to shut (which it will) there will be children who live in horrendous conditions who will have horrendous times at home, I am worried that the amount of domestic violence will soar, I am worried about my elderly parents and yes, I am worried about our jobs. To date, we've lived very comfortably but DH is on zero hours contracts in school-based roles and is already being laid off to avoid cross-contamination between schools, and I work in travel insurance - which is ludicrously busy at the moment but in about a month is going to come to an abrupt halt - no-one travels, no-one buys travel insurance. I am also worried that as we haven't given in to the panic buying we are going to be reduced to buying the Daily Mail in lieu of toilet roll but still, probably the best use for it

All that said, I have to focus on the positive. Have to. We are OK at the moment, my kids are well and healthy. DS is making timetables for the "lockdown" and DD is not worried. We are making an effort to keep in touch with elderly people we know from church and with elderly family members. Despite the fact we've had to cancel two holidays and are sad, we will book for when times are better.

Let's use this horrific situation to generate a different kind of community, a non-physical one, to look after our elderly and vulnerable in whatever way we can and to spend loads of time with our family!

MrSkinnyLegsSpider · 18/03/2020 07:08

Couldn't sleep either! Agree that I need to model resilience for DD so crying at night. Haven't been able to sleep for more than a few hours each night and know we should be getting plenty of sleep for immune systems!

Janus · 18/03/2020 08:02

Greebols, I hope you feel better today but keep taking temperature I guess.
Whatelsecouldibecalled, what a stress for you. I know it may not be quite the same as you had planned but you will have an amazing time just being with your newborn, sleeping when you can, feeding and snuggling. Maybe all the peace and quiet that’s coming will actually be amazing, it will just be you 3 together ❤️

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