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School have put my child at increased risk and I am livid. Head will call tomorrow morning. Any advice on what to say?

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Hmpher · 17/03/2020 17:12

My son has been picked to help at reception today. This involves sending messages and collecting children for pick up.

As a part of this, he has been sent around the school to collect children who have a family member who has begun to display symptoms, so that they can go home to self isolate for fourteen days. So he has been in contact with every child in school now in self isolation.

I called school and three people tried to fob me off. They told me that they have no confirmed cases (when they haven’t been tested so cannot definitively say one way or another). They told me that they are adhering to guidelines and any of these symptoms could also be a common cold. I’m not a hysterical parent and am fully aware of that, but they are also the symptoms of a current global pandemic. They told me he hasn’t been in contact with children who are displaying symptoms at school because they are placed into isolation. I’ve since found out that he was sent to collect a child who had a continuous cough which was reported to staff but the child herself didn’t want to leave so had to be collected by him when her parent came. He was also told to collect the belongings of a girl who came to reception complaining of feeling unwell, had her temperature taken and was running a fever. She went to collect her things and staff told her not to and sent my son instead. At no point was he reminded of hand washing so he didn’t wash his hands at all. The other girl doing collections with him was displaying symptoms from the morning and told staff three times before she was collected. Upon hearing her coughing, she was told to drink water and see how she felt because she was having fun and felt ok.

Staff told me that he could have come into contact with those children anyway, during lessons and in corridors. I was aware of that when I sent him to school. I didn’t expect them to engineer a situation in which he was guaranteed to come into contact with every potential case.

I feel this a huge oversight and no thought has been given to the safety of my son. It is entirely inappropriate for a child to be sent to do this. Absolutely no common sense or basic infection control at all. I was quite offended when a staff member told me that children don’t tend to succumb to the illness or aren’t badly affected. She is not a scientist or a doctor. It is not ok for them to decide increase the risk of exposure for my child because he’ll probably be fine.

I am expecting the head to try to fob me off tomorrow and I get quite nervous during confrontation so would like to be prepared. I trusted the school to keep my son safe as they have reassured us they will to the best of their ability, whilst accepting that there will be a risk. They have now increased that risk. How would you deal with this?

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TheMagiciansMewTwo · 18/03/2020 11:15

I wouldn't tell the local paper. You just need to remind the school of current advice, risk assessments, protocols and safeguarding.

Fancyaruck · 18/03/2020 11:34

You think a twelve year old putting his hand up absolves the school of responsibility?

Yup, that's exactly what I said. 🙄 Responsibility for what? Your son has been exposed to...kids he would have been exposed to anyway! Go to pretty much any secondary school up and down the country and you will see:

  • Students touching doors, handrails, walls, desks & chairs
  • Students sitting at a desk for one lesson, then moving to another room in another building, maybe as many as 6 times per day
  • Students sharing pens, water bottles, vaseline (eww, this one bothers me even when we're not in a pandemic)

And most of them do all this with minimal hand washing. So your son was at no greater risk than any other student who was sent to school that day.

Soontobe60 · 18/03/2020 16:14

Did you speak to the head today?

NeverDropYourMoonCup · 18/03/2020 16:24

Nobody here is volunteering to escort them?

It's literally my fucking job to deal with them. Every last one. And all the staff. And all the other illnesses, injuries, mental health issues, emotional distress and lead swinging that happen every day.

I'd quite happily carry a bag or walk along a corridor in preference to taking 37 temperatures and explain in very simple language that one cough in January and one that started this week are not the same fucking cough, so yes, this does count as a new one.

Hmpher · 18/03/2020 19:47

Yes, I spoke to the head who was very apologetic and appalled. It wasn’t supposed to happen, they have stopped the system now and looked into a few other things that hadn’t occurred to them. Head had done an investigation and informed chair of governors before speaking to me and getting full information but will investigate further with my info. I don’t expect this to be prioritised right now. I didn’t send him in today and he won’t return until things are settled - head was supportive of this. I won’t be taking it any further. It would be ridiculous right now and school won’t be in this situation next week anyway. I believe that this won’t happen again.

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AnotherEmma · 18/03/2020 20:47

Sounds like an appropriate reaction from the head, I would be satisfied with that.

Hope your DS doesn't come down with it Flowers

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