For those of you who are interested/want to know what action we took.
The decision was made as a family. DC2 understands the seriousness of DC1 condition and was surprisingly up for standing by his big brother and making sure he was safe even though he wasn’t going to see his friends for over a week.
Both boys stayed off school today and worked independently following their school timetables. Luckily I’m on my days off (I work shifts) and DH was able to put a days leave in at short notice.
We decided to ring the rheumatology team and ask for advice regarding DC1 (which couldnt be done until 10am) before marking a decision on whether they went to school.
DC1 is on immunosuppressant drugs. His condition seriously affects his lungs. Serious enough that in the past he has been hospitalised because of a cold which turned into a chest infection which turned into bronchitis and again for flu where he ended up in intensive care. This is why coronavirus is a real worry for us.
Rheumatology advised that because DC1 is immunocompromised the likelihood is that symptoms will present within the week if he has caught the virus and we need to keep a close eye on him. They also said either DC1 comes off the medication which suppresses his immune system if he is going to go into an environment with a confirmed case or, and I quote, “we can’t tell you what to do but it is probably best if neither of your children attend school for the next week to see if there are any more cases in the school”.
Based on this, and knowing taking DC1 off his medication will be an unnecessary nightmare which we want to avoid if at all possible, both will not be going to school for the next week at least and both myself and DH will be staying at home. We will reassess this time next week.
I have contacted the school and explained the situation. They were supportive of the decision we made considering DC1 condition and have agreed to send home work via the internet.
The boys will be following their school timetables as normal and working at home with our help where its needed.
I understand that to some this may seem an extreme measure and I agree that it isn’t 100% prefect but I can only do what’s best for my DC.