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Conflict in the Middle East

What did you do during the genocide in Gaza?

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ssd · 22/05/2025 22:05

This is a brilliant article.

This will be taught in schools one day and our grandkids will ask us but what did you do when you knew this was happening?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/may/22/israel-gaza-genocide

What did you do during the genocide in Gaza? | Arwa Mahdawi

When future generations read about Gaza with horror and wonder how we allowed a livestreamed genocide to happen, what will you say?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/may/22/israel-gaza-genocide

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SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 19:32

Odras · 26/05/2025 19:29

Nobody is proposing that Israel does not exist: it does exist and its existence is not even on the table to discuss.

What is certain is that the plan is for Palestinians to leave Gaza. Their existence is under threat. This is crystal clear from what Netanyahu and his cronies have said. It’s not interpretation of a protest slogan- it’s Israeli policy and it is going to happen.

What do you think 'Judaism yes, zionism no' means? People every day of the week, from Iran to the streets of the UK suggest Israel should not exist. This conversation is moving into the realms of gaslighting now

SomeWomanSomewhere · 26/05/2025 19:35

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 19:20

I said it was ACCUSED of being an ethnostate i.e. being a homeland for the Jews is seen as something wrong, linked to it being accused of settler colonialism, ie its legitimacy as a homeland for Jewish people is delegitimised. Despite the fact that Jews are indigenous and that Israel is remarkably successful in the middle east as a state that maintains ethnic and religious diversity.

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We may have to politely disagree on "is ethnonationalism intrinsically wrong?" here. Because I genuinely think it is a) in general and b) specifically in a situation marked by the absence of an ethnically homogeneous population (though I can't for the life of me think of many places where that is the case. Iceland, perhaps. They regard it as a problem and have literally developed an app for "when I meet a hot bloke at a bar: can we just check how inbred our kids are likely to turn out before we make it happen?")

Personally, I will always find "Deutschland den Deutschen" deeply and viscerally horrifying. And the same goes for Hungary, Israel, and anyone else.

Jujujudo · 26/05/2025 19:38

Odras · 26/05/2025 18:31

Israel is not the most criticised country in general. It’s an ally of the West. And it’s not being criticised for being Jewish. It’s being criticised for war crimes, ethnic cleansing, attempted genocide.

I completely understand that are you saying that you feel personally attacked. I’m not denying that you do. I just don’t think people should stop criticising the Israeli government because you feel like that.

If you don’t agree with Netanyahu yourself and you will like his ethnic cleansing plan is wrong then surely you agree that other governments should put pressure on him to stop.

Yes of course. I want Netanyahu out! I also want the hostages (alive and dead) home with their families. I also want Yemen to stop sending missiles into populated civilian areas. I want Palestinians to stop bombing buses, stabbing and shooting civilians, I want Hamas out and a proper governing body in who can provide education and shelters and infrastructure and hope for Palestinians. It is not only Israel to blame for this mess. Netanyahu needs to go, and he will eventually because the Israeli people will find a way. Iran needs to stop funding terrorism and Arab leaders need to support Palestinians in building bridges to peace - people to people.

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 19:40

SomeWomanSomewhere · 26/05/2025 19:35

We may have to politely disagree on "is ethnonationalism intrinsically wrong?" here. Because I genuinely think it is a) in general and b) specifically in a situation marked by the absence of an ethnically homogeneous population (though I can't for the life of me think of many places where that is the case. Iceland, perhaps. They regard it as a problem and have literally developed an app for "when I meet a hot bloke at a bar: can we just check how inbred our kids are likely to turn out before we make it happen?")

Personally, I will always find "Deutschland den Deutschen" deeply and viscerally horrifying. And the same goes for Hungary, Israel, and anyone else.

What are yoi talking about? You seem to have no understanding of the history of the Jewish people or Israel and Im not going to play polite parlour games with someone who is going to pretend that theJewish people have ever been safe in a country where they are a minority.

Odras · 26/05/2025 19:43

@Jujujudo So you completely agree with many of the points being made here. About Israel going to far basically. You just don’t want us non Israeli’s to criticise it as you feel that it will be dealt with internally within Israel?

Eatcakeplease · 26/05/2025 19:50

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 19:24

Have you ever witnessed a pro-Pal demo that did not include 'from the river to the sea' as a core chant?

Did you even understand my post or are you just arguing now for the sake of it?

Jujujudo · 26/05/2025 19:51

Odras · 26/05/2025 19:43

@Jujujudo So you completely agree with many of the points being made here. About Israel going to far basically. You just don’t want us non Israeli’s to criticise it as you feel that it will be dealt with internally within Israel?

Christ you’re a piece of work. What’s your problem? I was married to a narc for 20 years and you’re triggering me. Stop, please. You may not be doing so intentionally but you’re intimidating me and coercing me and not being respectful. I’m not sure what your problem is, or what your background is, but I hope that you are never in a war situation or in a situation where you are afraid to allow your children to discuss their own ethnic background. All the best. I’m out.

Alexandra2001 · 26/05/2025 20:02

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 19:40

What are yoi talking about? You seem to have no understanding of the history of the Jewish people or Israel and Im not going to play polite parlour games with someone who is going to pretend that theJewish people have ever been safe in a country where they are a minority.

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Of course Jews throughout time have been persecuted, thats historical fact and is only denied by extremists and lunatics.

The attacks on Jews wherever they occur should be condemned and stopped, the people involved prosecuted etc.

BUT that doesn't mean that what is now happening in Gaza to the ordinary Palestinian is right and should be allowed to continue.

It is also very counter productive, does anyone believe that Palestinians throughout the the middle east and beyond will not seek revenge on anyone connected to Israel etc.

Look at the poor couple killed in the USA? & btw i hope his sentence is the death penalty but that wont bring them back.

Odras · 26/05/2025 20:02

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 19:32

What do you think 'Judaism yes, zionism no' means? People every day of the week, from Iran to the streets of the UK suggest Israel should not exist. This conversation is moving into the realms of gaslighting now

Sorry I mistyped there. There are of course people who don’t want Isreal to exist. But it’s not up for debate right now. It’s not on the table to discuss.

I think that Judaism yes, Zionism no is a call to ask either that Israel stops increasing it’s boundaries or saying that they disagree with Israel being an Ethno-nationalist state.

I’ve lost the train of your thought though. Clearly there will be those who wish Israeli out of existence. But the vast majority of criticism that we are hearing now is rooted in concern for what’s happening. That is my point.

SomeWomanSomewhere · 26/05/2025 20:03

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 19:40

What are yoi talking about? You seem to have no understanding of the history of the Jewish people or Israel and Im not going to play polite parlour games with someone who is going to pretend that theJewish people have ever been safe in a country where they are a minority.

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I'm not ever going to pretend that European antisemitism wasn't real, remains real, was not eliminatory, was imagined. It wasn't. And that was and continues to be wrong.

I fundamentally disagree with the notion that the solution to the victimisation of group A is the victimisation of the next one in the queue.

That way, perpetuating cycles of destruction lies.

Personally, I fundamentally think the idea of nationalism is intrinsically wrong and was arguably the worst idea to come out of 19th century Europe, and that it has led to untold atrocities and suffering.

That said: we will probably never agree here but I do appreciate the engagement beyond "but Khamas!" and I mean this genuinely.

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 20:05

Alexandra2001 · 26/05/2025 20:02

Of course Jews throughout time have been persecuted, thats historical fact and is only denied by extremists and lunatics.

The attacks on Jews wherever they occur should be condemned and stopped, the people involved prosecuted etc.

BUT that doesn't mean that what is now happening in Gaza to the ordinary Palestinian is right and should be allowed to continue.

It is also very counter productive, does anyone believe that Palestinians throughout the the middle east and beyond will not seek revenge on anyone connected to Israel etc.

Look at the poor couple killed in the USA? & btw i hope his sentence is the death penalty but that wont bring them back.

I think you've tagged the wrong person.

Odras · 26/05/2025 20:09

Jujujudo · 26/05/2025 19:51

Christ you’re a piece of work. What’s your problem? I was married to a narc for 20 years and you’re triggering me. Stop, please. You may not be doing so intentionally but you’re intimidating me and coercing me and not being respectful. I’m not sure what your problem is, or what your background is, but I hope that you are never in a war situation or in a situation where you are afraid to allow your children to discuss their own ethnic background. All the best. I’m out.

I’m so sorry. I’m not at trying to hurt you at all. And I’m honestly very sorry if you felt I was being intimidating. That was not my intention at all. I just think that we agree on more than we disagree.

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 20:09

Odras · 26/05/2025 20:02

Sorry I mistyped there. There are of course people who don’t want Isreal to exist. But it’s not up for debate right now. It’s not on the table to discuss.

I think that Judaism yes, Zionism no is a call to ask either that Israel stops increasing it’s boundaries or saying that they disagree with Israel being an Ethno-nationalist state.

I’ve lost the train of your thought though. Clearly there will be those who wish Israeli out of existence. But the vast majority of criticism that we are hearing now is rooted in concern for what’s happening. That is my point.

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You literally said nobody is proposing that Israel does not exist, now ypu're saying of course there are people that don't it want to exist. You are pretending not to understand what people mean when they reject 'zionism'. I think you need to examine your own train of thought and perhaps pull back from the gaslighting.

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 20:14

SomeWomanSomewhere · 26/05/2025 20:03

I'm not ever going to pretend that European antisemitism wasn't real, remains real, was not eliminatory, was imagined. It wasn't. And that was and continues to be wrong.

I fundamentally disagree with the notion that the solution to the victimisation of group A is the victimisation of the next one in the queue.

That way, perpetuating cycles of destruction lies.

Personally, I fundamentally think the idea of nationalism is intrinsically wrong and was arguably the worst idea to come out of 19th century Europe, and that it has led to untold atrocities and suffering.

That said: we will probably never agree here but I do appreciate the engagement beyond "but Khamas!" and I mean this genuinely.

Why are you suggesting that the need for a Jewish state means 'the victimisation of the next one in the queue'. Who said that? That's a grotesque suggestion. Israel is responding to those that want to wipe it off the face of the earth as it has done since day 1.

Odras · 26/05/2025 20:14

I apologised for mistyping - there are people who don’t want Israel to exist but this is not something that is being plausibly discussed.

I have given you my honest opinion. And like I’ve said before we just aren’t going to agree here.

Mylegishangingoff · 26/05/2025 20:20

Jujujudo · 26/05/2025 19:32

You know what? Get lost. I’m not going to talk to someone who intentionally prevents my family and friends from earning a living. I won’t be replying to any more of your provocative and gaslighting posts.

I didn't even say I was boycotting Israel. I was just explaining boycotts to you because you didn't seem to understand them. Its OK that you can't answer, you could just say that, rather than accusing me of all sorts because I asked a simple question based off your post.

Martymcfly24 · 26/05/2025 20:36

Jujujudo · 26/05/2025 19:29

Well Hamas was elected democratically so let’s blame all Palestinians for the Oct 7 atrocities then by your reckoning

In 2006.

I never said all Israelis were responsible for what's happening at the moment I was trying to debate the point with you that "Israel doesn’t want to remove Palestinians from Gaza. Palestinians want to remove all Jews from Israel from the river to the sea. Israel wants Gaza to continue with a moderate leadership and to stop trying to kill Israelis" which is in direct opposition to the stated aims of the current administration and leadership.

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 20:38

Mylegishangingoff · 26/05/2025 20:20

I didn't even say I was boycotting Israel. I was just explaining boycotts to you because you didn't seem to understand them. Its OK that you can't answer, you could just say that, rather than accusing me of all sorts because I asked a simple question based off your post.

Of course she understands what a boycott is.

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 20:43

Odras · 26/05/2025 20:14

I apologised for mistyping - there are people who don’t want Israel to exist but this is not something that is being plausibly discussed.

I have given you my honest opinion. And like I’ve said before we just aren’t going to agree here.

What on earth does 'plausibly discussed' even mean? Was the genocidal attack on 7 October 'plausibly discussed'? It was pretty well planned so yes, I think some discussion went into it. Why do you think the Iron Dome exists? I think Iran plausibly discusses its financing and providing of weapons to terrorists who want to destroy Israel. I think various ways to destroy Israel and to kill Israelis are plausibly discussed on a fairly regular basis. Thank god Israel defends its citizens and thank god America invests in its security.

Mylegishangingoff · 26/05/2025 20:44

@SharonEllis I'm sure she can speak for herself. It certainly didn't seem that way when she said "You’re not giving money to Netanyahu by buying Israeli products!".

OpheliaWasntMad · 26/05/2025 20:51

Re the Op
Ironically the original question “ What did you do in the war Daddy?” Was a form of manipulative propaganda aimed at coercing young men into joining up.

What I have tried to do is learn more about the causes of this conflict.

Odras · 26/05/2025 21:08

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 20:43

What on earth does 'plausibly discussed' even mean? Was the genocidal attack on 7 October 'plausibly discussed'? It was pretty well planned so yes, I think some discussion went into it. Why do you think the Iron Dome exists? I think Iran plausibly discusses its financing and providing of weapons to terrorists who want to destroy Israel. I think various ways to destroy Israel and to kill Israelis are plausibly discussed on a fairly regular basis. Thank god Israel defends its citizens and thank god America invests in its security.

Hamas can’t destroy Israel because it doesn’t have capacity to do so because as you mention Israel has one of the strongest militaries and the support of the US.

What is actually possible is the destruction of Gaza and the Palestinians who live there. That’s something that is very much on the cards. So you can twist and pick on my words as much as you want but you can’t deflect from this fact.

Odras · 26/05/2025 21:10

@Mylegishangingoff based on their posts tagging me i think they might be taking it very hard.

I totally understand that you were explaining the point of boycotting.

inamarina · 26/05/2025 21:15

SomeWomanSomewhere · 26/05/2025 19:35

We may have to politely disagree on "is ethnonationalism intrinsically wrong?" here. Because I genuinely think it is a) in general and b) specifically in a situation marked by the absence of an ethnically homogeneous population (though I can't for the life of me think of many places where that is the case. Iceland, perhaps. They regard it as a problem and have literally developed an app for "when I meet a hot bloke at a bar: can we just check how inbred our kids are likely to turn out before we make it happen?")

Personally, I will always find "Deutschland den Deutschen" deeply and viscerally horrifying. And the same goes for Hungary, Israel, and anyone else.

How is “Deutschland den Deutschen”, a slogan historically tied to nationalist and Nazi ideologies and used to promote ethnic purity in Germany
comparable to the call for a Jewish state in Israel, rooted in centuries of persecution, pogroms and the Holocaust?
I’ve lived in Germany as an immigrant, someone saying “Deutschland den Deutschen, Ausländer raus” wouldn’t make me think that what they had in mind was a multicultural and multi-religious state like Israel.

SharonEllis · 26/05/2025 21:22

inamarina · 26/05/2025 21:15

How is “Deutschland den Deutschen”, a slogan historically tied to nationalist and Nazi ideologies and used to promote ethnic purity in Germany
comparable to the call for a Jewish state in Israel, rooted in centuries of persecution, pogroms and the Holocaust?
I’ve lived in Germany as an immigrant, someone saying “Deutschland den Deutschen, Ausländer raus” wouldn’t make me think that what they had in mind was a multicultural and multi-religious state like Israel.

It was a truly disgraceful thing to say. The gaslighting on this thread is absolutely shameful.

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