It is quite weird, isn't it!
Iran retaliate with 150 missiles and 170 drones, but make sure that Israel could shoot them down.
Israel retaliate with just some drones, which have apparently caused no damage.
Iran plays it down so that they don't have to retaliate.
They're both trying to de-escalate, but in a way that doesn't leave them having been attacked last!
And all the way along, the US keep shouting as loudly as they can that they'll defend Israel but they aren't going to attack - so that no one else needs to get involved.
I wonder whether this will change the balance at all? Will Iran be any more cautious about using it's proxies against Israel in the future? That was presumably Israel's intention in assassinating the Iranian commander Mohammed Reza Zahedi who was heavily involved in previous proxy attacks against Israel, apparently including October 7th.