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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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428 replies

SpookyTeaFan · 01/11/2009 10:07

Seeing as we're a bit cramped, have no room for shopping and have a fair way to go yet i've hired us a double decker, hope no-one minds. Good news is there is a hot chocolate machine and a luxury loo for lots of POAS!

OP posts:
stuffedmk · 17/11/2009 11:33

My cycles have been a bit messed up over the past year, getting worse over the last 6 months.
I started getting intermenstual bleeding most months (have seen the doc about it and there is no problem as such).
My cycles were a fairly reliable 26/27 days but it seems to depend how much I bleed in between periods now. I had a month a while ago where I had relatively heavy (not that much but enough to send me to the drs)bleeding and this seemed to send my cycle way out and it was about 34 days.
However my previous cycle I started taking evening primrose to try and help the hormones regulate and didn't get any bleeding did end up getting a 25 day cycle though.
This cycle I didn't have a bleed either but am sitting at 28 days. Have had loads of cramps (on and off) which seems to be reducing now, This is the first month that there is a chance that it isn't just AF taking her time, but really I wouldn't be surprised if she turned up in a week

stuffedmk · 17/11/2009 11:52

Make that day 1
looks like AF has decided to visit after all.
Damn that was a short bus ride lol!!

lucybrad · 17/11/2009 12:01

updated stats taking me and stuffed off. AF arrived just now!!! and never before have i been so relieved. I would rather AF than the uncertainty if the last few days!!! yay here comes the august bus!!!! byeee

FanjolinaJolie TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL33 CD48
eveywoo77 TTC#2 Cycle14 (clomid5) UCL25-3O CD47
sayanything TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL26-28 CD38
Lizkin TTC1 cycle 7 UCL 28-32 CD38
MyMyFruityPie TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL33 CD36
Schmoo75 TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL33 CD36
Besom TTC#2 UCL 30-31 CD32
Loopybear TTC#2 UCL 25-31 CD31
MmmCoffee TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL26 CD29
brownrabbit TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 29 CD29
PollyPoo TTC#2 Cycle 19, UCL who knows?! CD27
InTheMidnightGarden TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL29 CD26
KayloSpellmaker TTC#3 Cycle2 (mc Sept) UCL29 CD25
ScaryLoujalou TTC#2 UCL 24-26 Cycle 7 CD24
Liahgen TTC#6, Cycle10 UCL26 CD24
kkas TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL? CD24
Ameliamummy TTC#3 UCL28 Cycle3 CD?

Graduates
WickedWitchSouthWest BFP 21 Oct
GhoulsAreLoud BFP 22 Oct
latestincarnation BFP 26 Oct
Irishfairy BFP 28 October
mousemole BFP 1 Nov
Pinkwine BFP 2 Nov
Page62 BFP 3 Nov
beaufies BFP 3 Nov
NorkyStrokesMice BFP 3 Nov
Factsandfigures BFP 5 Nov
Firerise BFP 6 Nov
Violetbubbles BFP 6 Nov
Keevamum 7 Nov
EmNotPGYet 8th Nov
CurlyCasper 11th Nov
lifeistooshort 11th Nov
Givecarrotsachance 12th Nov
skihorse 14th Nov

stuffedmk · 17/11/2009 12:06

I know what you mean, it's the uncertainty that gets you.
I am keeping my fingers crossed that August will be lucky for us.

I really hope I don't keep getting PMT like this month, that was not nice!

LOL actually heres hoping I don't get PMT again for a long time to come

givecarrotsachance · 17/11/2009 12:11

stuffed are you sure it's not an ovulation bleed mid cycle?

stuffedmk · 17/11/2009 12:18

could be didn't really get into what it was with the doc just made sure it nothin bad IYKWIM.
Never had it before about a year ago. Am 30 and have been off pill for about 3 years.
I seem to have lessened it/stopped it by taking EPO and not being very active when it is likely to come. The worst month I happened to go running and was very active generally.

chalky3 · 17/11/2009 15:01

Lucybrad, I know the feeling, it's a relief isn't it? Thought I would be disappointed but just glad the waiting is over

chalky3 · 17/11/2009 15:01

Lucybrad, I know the feeling, it's a relief isn't it? Thought I would be disappointed but just glad the waiting is over

givecarrotsachance · 17/11/2009 15:12

stuffed thought you meant "active", not just running n stuff, meaning that if you avoided your DP around that time then if it was an ovulation bleed, then, well, you know .

stuffedmk · 17/11/2009 15:48

lol not avoiding DH at the time.
Sex doesn't seem to bring it on at all luckily. However it doesn't make me feel hugely 'up for it' when there is a lot.

givecarrotsachance · 17/11/2009 16:03

OK well that's less likely to be cervical erosion then, which I sometimes get after all that stuff. That's nothing to worry about. Sooooo seems like something I'd REALLY like to work out as if it's hormone related that could impair your ability to conceive of course.

Do you track your other fertile signs? Have you considered going back to docs to find out what it was?

stuffedmk · 17/11/2009 16:58

Don't track anything.
This month was fairly doubtful anyway as it was more possible happy accident than trying lol.
DH has been reluctant to try for number 2 for years but has now agreed so.
When I went to the doctor I wasn't expecting to have the option to try so didn't really worry. Although she did give me some hormone related reason as the probable cause, I was too worried about it being something terrible to really listen. I didn't bother to go back once I had found that all the test results were fine.
However I did have a chat with her because I bit down about the whole DH not wanting another thing. Apart from saying that there are lots of reasons to try for another sooner rather than later if we were going to she didn't seem concerned about the bleeding affecting anything.
Can't say it hasn't crossed my mind that it I might not work right down there anymore but will prob TTC for a couple of months before going back I think

stuffedmk · 17/11/2009 17:03

I try not to think about the possibility of fertility problems TBH. It would be so upsetting to finally get DH to agree after 8 years and then find it was too late

givecarrotsachance · 17/11/2009 20:56

stuffed I am divorced from the father of my child (5). I've gone through the difficulties of being with someone who didn't want a child, and if you are happy in the relationship otherwise (I wasn't) then it's really hard to get a resolution.

If I may make a suggestion, if I were you and your DH has agreed to it, then I would be doing all I could to make sure I knew what was going on inside, so that assuming you keep going with TTC you have the best chance of catching before he changes his mind!

I don't mean to be patronising but do you know about temping, tracking your other fertile signs, etc?

I was incredibly lucky as my DH and I managed to catch first cycle after I had my mirena removed. However, I also was tracking my cycle so we knew exactly when we needed to DTD which gave us a much better chance of it working.

Sadly it isn't always that easy of course, but it may make you feel more in control of the situation. It depends on what you like. Personally, I like to know everything that's going on with my body - some people don't.

Shmoo75 · 18/11/2009 20:44

Wednesdays Stats:

FanjolinaJolie TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL33 CD49
eveywoo77 TTC#2 Cycle14 (clomid5) UCL25-3O CD48
sayanything TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL26-28 CD39
Lizkin TTC1 cycle 7 UCL 28-32 CD39
MyMyFruityPie TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL33 CD37
Schmoo75 TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL33 CD37
Besom TTC#2 UCL 30-31 CD33
Loopybear TTC#2 UCL 25-31 CD32
MmmCoffee TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL26 CD30
brownrabbit TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 29 CD30
PollyPoo TTC#2 Cycle 19, UCL who knows?! CD28
InTheMidnightGarden TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL29 CD28
KayloSpellmaker TTC#3 Cycle2 (mc Sept) UCL29 CD26
ScaryLoujalou TTC#2 UCL 24-26 Cycle 7 CD25
Liahgen TTC#6, Cycle10 UCL26 CD25
kkas TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL? CD25
Ameliamummy TTC#3 UCL28 Cycle3 CD?

Graduates
WickedWitchSouthWest BFP 21 Oct
GhoulsAreLoud BFP 22 Oct
latestincarnation BFP 26 Oct
Irishfairy BFP 28 October
mousemole BFP 1 Nov
Pinkwine BFP 2 Nov
Page62 BFP 3 Nov
beaufies BFP 3 Nov
NorkyStrokesMice BFP 3 Nov
Factsandfigures BFP 5 Nov
Firerise BFP 6 Nov
Violetbubbles BFP 6 Nov
Keevamum 7 Nov
EmNotPGYet 8th Nov
CurlyCasper 11th Nov
lifeistooshort 11th Nov
Givecarrotsachance 12th Nov
skihorse 14th Nov

Shmoo75 · 18/11/2009 20:45

I will be testing on this Sat 21/11. Is anyone else still on the bus or, am I left alone with the choc drinks machine and posh loo all too myself?

lucybrad · 19/11/2009 09:06

its horrible being on the back of the bus. I think that maybe everyone has given up or left for the august bus. Good luck with the testing schmoo

stuffedmk · 19/11/2009 11:49

carrots I haven't really looked into temping etc, I suppose I never thought I would need to. With DS I came off the pill and that was that, but then that was 9 years ago.
I know what you mean with the changing his mind comment though, he has agreed before a couple of times but he changed his mind overnight both times. I will probably make a docs appt soonish to ask the important quetions, although burying my head in the sand seems much more appealing right now
I did bring up my concerns with DH last night but he just reminded me that the doc told me it was a common thing etc.. I suppose we will see!

PollyPoo · 19/11/2009 12:45

Droid arrived last night.

PollyPoo · 19/11/2009 13:13

Thursday Stats: (have taken me off)

FanjolinaJolie TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL33 CD50
eveywoo77 TTC#2 Cycle14 (clomid5) UCL25-3O CD49
sayanything TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL26-28 CD40
Lizkin TTC1 cycle 7 UCL 28-32 CD40
MyMyFruityPie TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL33 CD38
Schmoo75 TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL33 CD38
Besom TTC#2 UCL 30-31 CD34
Loopybear TTC#2 UCL 25-31 CD33
MmmCoffee TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL26 CD31
brownrabbit TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 29 CD31
InTheMidnightGarden TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL29 CD29
ScaryLoujalou TTC#2 UCL 24-26 Cycle 7 CD26
Liahgen TTC#6, Cycle10 UCL26 CD26
kkas TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL? CD26
Ameliamummy TTC#3 UCL28 Cycle3 CD?

Graduates
WickedWitchSouthWest BFP 21 Oct
GhoulsAreLoud BFP 22 Oct
latestincarnation BFP 26 Oct
Irishfairy BFP 28 October
mousemole BFP 1 Nov
Pinkwine BFP 2 Nov
Page62 BFP 3 Nov
beaufies BFP 3 Nov
NorkyStrokesMice BFP 3 Nov
Factsandfigures BFP 5 Nov
Firerise BFP 6 Nov
Violetbubbles BFP 6 Nov
Keevamum 7 Nov
EmNotPGYet 8th Nov
CurlyCasper 11th Nov
lifeistooshort 11th Nov
Givecarrotsachance 12th Nov
skihorse 14th Nov

kkas · 21/11/2009 10:28

Saturday stats. I've taken myself off as I think I would actually be 1 Aug DD if I caught on (some calculators say 31 July, that's why I originally stayed on). Think AF is on her way anyway....

FanjolinaJolie TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL33 CD52
eveywoo77 TTC#2 Cycle14 (clomid5) UCL25-3O CD51
sayanything TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL26-28 CD42
Lizkin TTC1 cycle 7 UCL 28-32 CD42
MyMyFruityPie TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL33 CD40
Schmoo75 TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL33 CD40
Besom TTC#2 UCL 30-31 CD36
Loopybear TTC#2 UCL 25-31 CD35
MmmCoffee TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL26 CD33
brownrabbit TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 29 CD33
InTheMidnightGarden TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL29 CD31
ScaryLoujalou TTC#2 UCL 24-26 Cycle 7 CD28
Liahgen TTC#6, Cycle10 UCL26 CD28
Ameliamummy TTC#3 UCL28 Cycle3 CD?

Graduates
WickedWitchSouthWest BFP 21 Oct
GhoulsAreLoud BFP 22 Oct
latestincarnation BFP 26 Oct
Irishfairy BFP 28 October
mousemole BFP 1 Nov
Pinkwine BFP 2 Nov
Page62 BFP 3 Nov
beaufies BFP 3 Nov
NorkyStrokesMice BFP 3 Nov
Factsandfigures BFP 5 Nov
Firerise BFP 6 Nov
Violetbubbles BFP 6 Nov
Keevamum 7 Nov
EmNotPGYet 8th Nov
CurlyCasper 11th Nov
lifeistooshort 11th Nov
Givecarrotsachance 12th Nov
skihorse 14th Nov

Shmoo75 · 21/11/2009 11:31

Updated Saturday Stats now showing me on my correct CD of CD39:

FanjolinaJolie TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL33 CD52
eveywoo77 TTC#2 Cycle14 (clomid5) UCL25-3O CD51
sayanything TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL26-28 CD42
Lizkin TTC1 cycle 7 UCL 28-32 CD42
MyMyFruityPie TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL33 CD40
Schmoo75 TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL33 CD39
Besom TTC#2 UCL 30-31 CD36
Loopybear TTC#2 UCL 25-31 CD35
MmmCoffee TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL26 CD33
brownrabbit TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 29 CD33
InTheMidnightGarden TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL29 CD31
ScaryLoujalou TTC#2 UCL 24-26 Cycle 7 CD28
Liahgen TTC#6, Cycle10 UCL26 CD28
Ameliamummy TTC#3 UCL28 Cycle3 CD?

Graduates
WickedWitchSouthWest BFP 21 Oct
GhoulsAreLoud BFP 22 Oct
latestincarnation BFP 26 Oct
Irishfairy BFP 28 October
mousemole BFP 1 Nov
Pinkwine BFP 2 Nov
Page62 BFP 3 Nov
beaufies BFP 3 Nov
NorkyStrokesMice BFP 3 Nov
Factsandfigures BFP 5 Nov
Firerise BFP 6 Nov
Violetbubbles BFP 6 Nov
Keevamum 7 Nov
EmNotPGYet 8th Nov
CurlyCasper 11th Nov
lifeistooshort 11th Nov
Givecarrotsachance 12th Nov
skihorse 14th Nov

Shmoo75 · 21/11/2009 11:37

kkas stay on the July Bus. If I am pg this cycle going by my LMP my EDD would be 21/07/10 but, going by when I got my Peak on my CBFM I would be due 04/08/10. I am staying on the July Double Decker!
polly i am so sorry that she caught you. Hope you have better luck on the August bus hun.

I didn't test this morning as, decided I will wait until Wed when I think she who must not be named is due. To be honest with you I am scared to see a BFP just as I am scared to see a BFN and witch appear! Think i will post a question in a new thread as to the excess amount of milky/lotiony cm I had yesterday along with a couple of faint but bright red blood spots when I wiped yesterday!

skihorse · 22/11/2009 11:31

shmoo I can understand that, the negatives were destroying me and this was the first month I actually waited to test. And got my BFP - the line came up before I'd finished my pee. I'm pretty sure the line would've come up a couple of days earlier (at least) - but this way I was pretty confident it was going to be a good one rather than the wishing & hoping then feeling like shit when the BFN pops up.

Shmoo75 · 22/11/2009 16:40

Sunday Stats:

FanjolinaJolie TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL33 CD53
eveywoo77 TTC#2 Cycle14 (clomid5) UCL25-3O CD52
sayanything TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL26-28 CD43
Lizkin TTC1 cycle 7 UCL 28-32 CD43
MyMyFruityPie TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL33 CD41
Schmoo75 TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL33 CD40
Besom TTC#2 UCL 30-31 CD37
Loopybear TTC#2 UCL 25-31 CD36
MmmCoffee TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL26 CD34
brownrabbit TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 29 CD34
InTheMidnightGarden TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL29 CD32
ScaryLoujalou TTC#2 UCL 24-26 Cycle 7 CD29
Liahgen TTC#6, Cycle10 UCL26 CD29

Graduates
WickedWitchSouthWest BFP 21 Oct
GhoulsAreLoud BFP 22 Oct
latestincarnation BFP 26 Oct
Irishfairy BFP 28 October
mousemole BFP 1 Nov
Pinkwine BFP 2 Nov
Page62 BFP 3 Nov
beaufies BFP 3 Nov
NorkyStrokesMice BFP 3 Nov
Factsandfigures BFP 5 Nov
Firerise BFP 6 Nov
Violetbubbles BFP 6 Nov
Keevamum 7 Nov
EmNotPGYet 8th Nov
CurlyCasper 11th Nov
lifeistooshort 11th Nov
Givecarrotsachance 12th Nov
skihorse 14th Nov