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Emiily887 · 2025-01-01T18:28:40+00:00

Hi ladies, a new thread for us to continue the amazing support into the new year. Praying this thread will hold the key to many positives🩷 I’m currently on CD4 today and looking forward to a fresh cycle. We have now hit the one year mark TTC no. 3 so hoping for a miracle soon xxx

LuxyLocket · 28/02/2025 10:40

Oh @Summerrose24 ive just seen this and I am so so sorry to hear this my lovely. I can only imagine where you’re at right now. It is just heartbreaking and I found being in the ‘limbo’ of not knowing for sure is so hard and upsetting. It just takes over and is all you can think about.
I don’t want to be the person that gives you success stories or hope as that may not help right now, I do know a success story of a friend in the same situation you’re in,
there is always hope but as you say you knew your days and I totally understand you wanting to prepare yourself.
ill be thinking of you and if you feel you want to please let us know how you get on and I’m sending you all the love and strength and hugs possible 🤍🤍

HopeB · 28/02/2025 12:20

Summerrose24 · 27/02/2025 22:49

Hi @hopeB thanks so much for responding and your kind words. It's not the wrong thing to say at all and it's really nice of you to offer reassurance. Unfortunately at these early stages there are very set measurements for what size a fetus/sac etc should be at each week. The only possible hope she could offer would be that my dates are wrong and I'm only 6 weeks. Unfortunately this is impossible in my case as I would have gotten a positive test far too early for this to work. I have a repeat scan next week and then it'll be managing the next steps. Just heartbroken tonight. Thanks again for your reply x

I’m so sorry. I didn’t know 😔 it sucks so much that you have to wait another week for another scan. If you can, try to take care of yourself in the meantime and be kind to yourself 💕 I’m thinking of you xx

Ncl31 · 04/03/2025 06:36

Unfortunately, we find out yesterday or little one stopped growing 2 weeks ago and no longer has a heartbeat. So difficult at the 12 week mark when I should be shouting from the rooftops.
we’ve decided to go ahead with a surgical management so we can have genetic testing done too.
sorry to hear there have been other losses on here too.
thinking of you all

Summerrose24 · 04/03/2025 13:42

Ncl31 · 04/03/2025 06:36

Unfortunately, we find out yesterday or little one stopped growing 2 weeks ago and no longer has a heartbeat. So difficult at the 12 week mark when I should be shouting from the rooftops.
we’ve decided to go ahead with a surgical management so we can have genetic testing done too.
sorry to hear there have been other losses on here too.
thinking of you all

So sorry to hear this @ncl31 It's incredibly unfair and especially at this stage. I go back for my 2nd scan on Thursday but I don't have any hope, I was just hoping my miscarriage would start but no sign. I got surgical management previously and had a very positive experience (if it's possible to call it that). But it was good closure for me and I woke up feeling relieved. We also found out it was a genetic issue that time so it helped me process and have a reason. I was very emotional the days after which I wonder was it down to hormones, I took 2 weeks off work and felt I needed it. Thinking of you and I'm sorry this has happened xx

HopeB · 04/03/2025 17:11

Ncl31 · 04/03/2025 06:36

Unfortunately, we find out yesterday or little one stopped growing 2 weeks ago and no longer has a heartbeat. So difficult at the 12 week mark when I should be shouting from the rooftops.
we’ve decided to go ahead with a surgical management so we can have genetic testing done too.
sorry to hear there have been other losses on here too.
thinking of you all

Oh my goodness @Ncl31 i’m so sorry. It’s just heartbreaking 😔😢 my love to you and your other half xx

dev86 · 06/03/2025 09:55

Summerrose24 · 27/02/2025 16:52

Hi everyone, bad news for us again unfortunately. I should be 8 weeks tomorrow and my scan today showed under 6 weeks measurements. They kept just saying it's too early to say and that I've to com3 back next week, but I am 100% sure of my dates, was tracking ovulation and got my positive test at 8DPO. I just feel numb now and I also feel ridiculoisly annoyed at my body for not just miscarrying properly, knowing I'll now have to go the route of medical or surgical management. This is my 4th time being pregnant in 12 months and we are just done. Sorry to bring bad news to this lovely group. Wishing you all the very best with your pregnancies and thanks for all the support along the way.

I’m so sorry - I only just came on here and saw this. That’s so heartbreaking I really am so sorry for this. Sending you all the love at the moment. Xxx

dev86 · 06/03/2025 09:56

Ncl31 · 04/03/2025 06:36

Unfortunately, we find out yesterday or little one stopped growing 2 weeks ago and no longer has a heartbeat. So difficult at the 12 week mark when I should be shouting from the rooftops.
we’ve decided to go ahead with a surgical management so we can have genetic testing done too.
sorry to hear there have been other losses on here too.
thinking of you all

I’m so sorry to read this. It’s awful you are having to go through it. Sending lots of love & support 🩷