Good morning Yep back on course!! Wouldn't have anything to do with the fact he has gone back to work - I love him to bits but my god he was starting to annoy!! LOL In the nicest way possible obviously! TBH it wasn't him annoying me, just that, well we have our routines and it cocks everything up when the routines are out of sinc IYKWIM? Plus I was just being a moody cowbag - hormones!
Squack, when I got the late BFP with DS2, I had 'pin pointed' OV as the same day as the previous cycle, but, it seems that maybe my OV spotting wasn't as great as I had thought, going off how I thought I had OV'ed a lot later than I possibly could have done this time I got pregnant. And the weeks work had been to get the house de-cluttered, and the gardens/garage sorted. Got all of the house done, all of the gardens, and most of the garage, you can actually walk in the garage now and even stretch your arms out without touching anything so it is a lot better!! If you did OV later than FF is saying, then it most deffo isn't over, and all the signs are looking good, you have had a pretty much mirror image of Tink, and look at her!!
Same for Cal (Am determined to get you on the same ante-natel as me again! The labour thread/s won't be the same without you!! )
OK I am going to really moan now because I can't do it to DH, he has kind of washed his hands of the situation....
My mum, she is a lovely wonderful thoughtful person, who loves her kids and grandkids to bits, and would never purposefully hurt any of us, but, and it is a sodding big but, it is a very strong case of out of sight out of mind with her. Problem being that we are 200 miles out of sight, and may as well be 1000 miles out of mind. The day I got my BFP, she was having her phone number changed, I'd spoke to her in the morning (before I got the BFP) and she said she'd ring that evening to tell us the new number, that was a week and a half ago, she hasn't rang and . We normally talk at least twice a week, but it is always me that rings her, in fact the only time she rings me is if something is wrong, and I do mean that, if the phone rings and I see her number on it, my heart sinks because I know there is bad news of some sort.
DH is fed up of me moaning about her (obviously this has been going on for years, not just the last week or so) I haven't spoken to my sister all week because we've both been too busy (we did say to each other we probably wouldn't get time to ring, so not moaning about her) but we will speak later today, and I just know it is going to turn into another 'let's have a good old moan about mum chat' which does help to clear the air a bit, but it doesn't really change the fact that once again, our mum has put us on the back burner (sister lives 100 miles away from mum as well, so also has the same out of sight out of mind problems with her).
On top of all of that, firstly now obviously mum doesn't even know I am pregnant, when even the people at school/neighbours have seen for themselves, and secondly, I get to the point where I just think fuck it, if she isn't bothered about us, then I'll not bother with her, but because I know she would never hurt us on purpose, and well, just because she is my mum, I don't want to be the one who is causing trouble. And thirdly she is going on holiday later this week, so if she doesn't ring before then, it will be another week before we hear anything, and it just really pisses me off.
Grrrrr sorry, turned out longer than I thought! Fancy being practically AWOL for over a week and then coming back with that! What style and grace I don't have! Sorry everyone, I am going to sod off now!