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The GOF-express is rampant, meanwhile the wagons been totally pimped! A ttc and waiting to TTC thread!

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Broodybabywannabe · 15/04/2008 17:22

Here we go ladies! hope titles ok!

Lets hope for more BFPS!!

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lardylumps · 18/04/2008 10:43

Thank you ladies you are making me feel a bit better. DD really hold a grudge so I expect dp will be her number one tonight!

kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 10:45

Give her a big cuddle and she'll be fine. Or a Organic chocolate biscuit like I have jut done to cheer him up after I snapped at him.

lardylumps · 18/04/2008 10:45

PMSL at jesus shooting out your nose BB, just imagine picking that one.....

Kay when (in relation to AF due date) did you get your pfp on a FR. I thought these tests were god and if they say no then that means no...

kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 10:48

I got a BFN 2 days before and the day before with FR. I got a BFP with an Ebay cheapie the same day I got a BFN with a FR. I didn't get a BFP with a FR until the day AF was due.

lardylumps · 18/04/2008 10:51

Wow so there is a small glimmer of hope then. Thank you BB and Kay I feel a lot happier now... Just hope dd is as forgiving as you two

kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 10:53

I'm sure she will be. Don't know if she will learn though as DS doesn't as he is now trying to fall off the sofa head first. Why not feet first?

Playingthewaitinggame · 18/04/2008 10:56

Morning ladies, how are we all today?

lardylumps · 18/04/2008 10:59

I am just so worried about her she is not eating or sleeping at the moment. I dont think I would of snapped if i hadn't been so tired.

kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 11:04

I'm sure it will pass soon. You could always take her to the GP if you are really worried.

Hello Playing, How are you?

NatalieJane · 18/04/2008 11:05

Cor LL, not having a good run of it are you sweetie? Sorry about BFN but as has been said, it really isn't over until your period arrives (then you can wing it for at least a day more convincing yourself it's implantation!! )

If I were you, whilst DD is out with MIL, forget the ironing, go to bloody sleep, else you'll end up either burning yourself, or doing my trick (melting the plasticy stuff on t-shirts with the iron!!)

BB did you say you have his email address?

YouCantTeuchThis · 18/04/2008 11:06

LL - try not to worry about DD, children are so resilient and the have an amazing instinct to do what is needed at that moment in terms of eating, etc. You know the drill...plenty fluids and don't worry about food for now, just have things available that she can pick at if she feels like it. (DS is notorious for bowls of dry cereal!!)

And give yourself a break, woman!! Seriously, we all lose it sometimes and we wouldn't be human otherwise.

What is she doing when she is up during the night?

And I am gutted for you too about the test but it certainly is not a fait accomplit (sp?). Remember that these test statistics are in controlled circumstances when they know exactly (by hormones, temps, scans, etc) when the woman has OV'd and so they know exactly when period is due.

Diege · 18/04/2008 11:11

Hi Nat! Good to see you back, and things must be looking up if you are planning a gof . LL, no way does a but of snappiness make you a bad mum!!! It is really tough when they don't sleep, and you would have to be a saint not to react at all (or a robot). Fingers crossed for testing over the next few days. Kay is right, tests before af is due (or even a few days after) are so variable in their accuracy. Out of 3 pregnancies, I've never got a postive before af was due (in fact 4 days after was my earliest bfp.
Well, I have to get my things ready for London tomorrow - feel strangely unfaithful meeting up with my 'other' mumsnet groups , like I'm doing the dirty on you lot!

Diege · 18/04/2008 11:13

x-posts TEUCH! LL, meant to add (not wanting to sound like a drug dealer), have you tried giving dd a spoon of mediced before bedtime? It sounds like you both need a rest, and as she's poorly I would say it's entirely justified. It's just a slightly better version of calpol that all the HVs and GPs use themselves - you can get it from any chemists and even swig a few mouthfuls yourself

lardylumps · 18/04/2008 11:14

Thank you ladies you are all so kind. During the night she is just crying, she will then go to sleep with me holding her hand or cuddling her but a couple of minutes later she is awake crying again.

She has no temperature and the crying isn't a painful cry, so dont think she is in pain but she is normally such a good sleeper that I think it may be teething or she is still getting over her bug!

She does go down at 7 but is waking at 10 every night and is up most of the night from then on..

kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 11:15

LOL Diege!!
I feel quite unfaithful to you lot for disappearing to my Ante Natal group. Also for leaving you all on Monday for 4 days!

lardylumps · 18/04/2008 11:16

Right mediced it is tonight then..

kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 11:22

It really does help LL. When DS is teething we give him some when he is about to go to bed.

Diege · 18/04/2008 11:22

It's odd isn't it Kay I suppose it's the same in 'real life' too with different groups of friends? I would love to meet up with this group though - have visions of us getting thrown out of places for raucous laughter .
LL, def. use it I say. BTW,just checked and it's spelt 'Medised'and is for 3 months plus, in case they don't know about it in the chemist (unlikely).

Broodybabywannabe · 18/04/2008 11:23

i do indeed NJ what should i do with it???

Aw everyones off to london lol!! diege is cheating on us

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kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 11:24

We will have to meet up. It will be great fun. We'd have to go to a park or something so we don't get thrown out.

NatalieJane · 18/04/2008 11:37

Ooooho BB, sign him up for every site you can think of that gives daily emails, and if you have his mobile number or anything make sure you enter it in the registration details.

Then sign him up for the free trials on freaky dating websites, not the 'normal' ones, ones that cater for peoples specific tastes.... I am sure they exist somewhere!

Not exactly the best kind of revenge, but you can be sure he will be pissed off with his inbox being filled up (and I know it to be true that these sort of companies pass your info around as well, so he'll have a load of junk mail through the door )

We do need a meet up, but not in a park, children will be hanging around, we would be watched by their parents!! Can you imagien the faces

kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 11:41

Yeah thats true Nat.

BB do it!!!!!!!

lardylumps · 18/04/2008 11:43

where would we meet though? Teuch is way up north and LG&T way down south, where would be central?

kayzisexpecting · 18/04/2008 11:44

Somewhere like Birmingham. Thats fairly central or Manchester. Dunno really

luvingtinkerbell · 18/04/2008 11:45

wow you are all chatty ladies
dont worry about snapping ll it is hard when you havent had alot of sleep you wont be your normal self i would definetly go to sleep now ironing can wait then you should feel better
definetly use medicene medised is meant to knock them out!!