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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Come on 2024 BFPs let’s be having you!!!

302 replies

MrBigsCat · 07/01/2024 07:30

39 years old
cycle 7 ttc

2024 is the year for my bfp I feel it, anyone else??

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Elisabeth3468 · 15/01/2024 16:45

Period arrived for me today right on time! Despite not tracking this month using OPKs I predicted my ovulation right because period has arrived 2 weeks later.
On to cycle 9...

hopingforapeainapod · 15/01/2024 19:11

@MrBigsCat ah I’m so sorry about your dodgy tests, how unbelievably frustrating! I’ve heard Clear Blue ones can be really dodgy too when it comes to evap lines etc.

Really hoping we can get some positive success stories on here soon! 🤞🤞🤞

NSCat · 15/01/2024 22:10

Please tell me I'm not the only one still waiting for ovulation? 🙈😂

Currently on CD21 and a few rises but no peak. I've been using OPK and BBT tests-never been later than CD16...making this cycle sooo much longer (more mentally than physically longer). Anyone else still waiting?

Hope some good news is coming from you all soon!

MrBigsCat · 16/01/2024 07:02

@NSCat thats strange, maybe just a weird cycle.
do you take vitamin b6? This works great for regulating mine

I feel like af is on the way!

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Angelselevenx · 16/01/2024 09:48

@NSCat I O normally CD19/20 anyway and I'm only CD15 so I've got a few days yet too!

ElleBelleLou · 16/01/2024 10:24

Hello everyone! Joining this thread as well - I'm TTC baby number 1, I'm 28 years old. I've had two miscarriages and a chemical, with the most recent miscarriage early 2023. I took some time off TTC but my DP and I have decided 2024 is the year to start trying again.

I'm currently 8DPO, lots of discharge and feeling a bit crampy here and there, trying not to symptom spot but it's so hard not to!

Good luck to all xxx

MrBigsCat · 16/01/2024 18:30

Welcome @ElleBelleLou sorry you have been through a journey already. Hope 2024 is your lucky year 💫

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Wictc · 16/01/2024 18:35

Do any of you do the Clearblue ovulation tests? I did one on day 10 and 11 and was just a plain circle. Did one today (day 12) and it says peak ovulation. No flashy smiley face at all? I’m not really sure what to do? I don’t feel like I’ve ovulated.

hopingforapeainapod · 16/01/2024 21:36

@Wictc I don’t use clear blue ovulation tests (I just use the cheapies!) so difficult to say but maybe you had a very quick LH surge so that’s why you skipped the flashing smiley?

moosey89 · 16/01/2024 21:39

@Wictc I do! The flashing smiley tests for oestrogen rising, and the static smiley shows LH rise. So it's measuring 2 different hormones. It may be that you just have a quick oestrogen rise (which usually happens in the lead up to LH rising).

Wictc · 16/01/2024 23:50

Thanks @hopingforapeainapod and@moosey89

Do you know that means in terms of ovulation? Have inputted into Kindara and Fitbit. Kindara shows peak day on Friday and Fitbit says tomorrow. I’m on day 12 today, when I’ve managed to get pregnant before (although not to fruition!) it’s always been through sex on day 12 and 14 but maybe I used to ovulate later? Do you know when would be the best time for sex with a quick rise? I think I need to read up more on hormone surges!

hopingforapeainapod · 17/01/2024 14:09

@Wictc I’m not 100% sure I’m afraid - I think ovulation is more of an art than an exact science - sometimes I would get contradictory dates on Flo / Fertility Friend so I think the best thing is just to DTD as much as you can over your fertile week to make sure you have yourself covered? Could try following the sperm meets egg plan, I know lots of people have had success with that (although unfortunately I am not one of them!)

moosey89 · 17/01/2024 14:46

@Wictc I'm not too sure - essentially you still want to be dtd in the days leading up to the static smiley. Women have different level of all our different hormones so it's hard to know what is going on exactly in our bodies! Which can be super frustrating. I've had no days of flashing smiley and the first full cycle after my most recent miscarriage I had 7 days of flashing!

Wictc · 17/01/2024 16:51

Thanks both. I didn’t start testing on the day they recommend, so not sure if that’s something to do with it. I don’t feel like I’ve ovulated yet. I think I’ll ditch the tests, they cause too much stress and uncertainty!

Angelselevenx · 17/01/2024 18:01

@hopingforapeainapod how're you doing? I've entered FW weeks now, here we go again cycle 12!

riverlodge90 · 17/01/2024 19:25

@Wictc I get this if I use them too late in my cycle! It hasn't detected the "rise" in estrogen as it was already there when you started them. So it's jumped up to LH solid peak!

@Angelselevenx Well I've tested today and got peak solid smiley two days early! Haven't had sex since Friday and Saturday last week, so DTD tonight and tomorrow, maybe Friday and hoping for the best. I am wondering if all the supplements has made my cycle shorted which wouldn't be a bad thing.
Are you using the clear blues too?

Angelselevenx · 17/01/2024 21:25

@riverlodge90 that's great! What CD are you now?
I use cheapy OPK as my two digital clearblue holders aren't working, complained though and they're sending me new ones.

I'm CD16 so due to O on Saturday or Sunday. Going to DTD tonight, Friday Saturday and Sunday and if I can, Monday 😆

ElleBelleLou · 18/01/2024 15:39

How is everyone getting on - I'm 10DPO today, anyone on the same timeline as me? x

ElleBelleLou · 18/01/2024 19:23

Here's my 10DPO test - with my previous two pregnancies (both losses sadly), I had positives from 8/9DPO so I'm quite sure I'm out this month but ready for the next cycle - I plan on trying ovulation tests and the sperm meets egg plan x

40yoGinger · 18/01/2024 19:44

I’m about 12dpo and too scared to test!! Keep thinking I am, then the chances are tiny! I’m trying to wait to see if the red witch arrives on Sunday!

riverlodge90 · 18/01/2024 20:03

@Angelselevenx

Ahhh that's so annoying! How long have you had the holder for? I've had one since August haha I don't want use to new one as I read it gets more accurate the more you use it, god knows if that's true! But it's done me well so far. Glad they've sent you a new one! I did that clue blue study ages ago and been hooked on them since 🙃

I'm ovulating today I think which is good as had big BBT drop this AM. DTD last night and will do tonight aswell.

Awh it's so much better when ovulation falls on a weekend, the motivation is easier to keep going 😂

Angelselevenx · 18/01/2024 20:07

@riverlodge90 I know, very frustrating! I did that study as well you've just reminded me i still have the £50 voucher as well 😂

Woohoo that's great! We dtd last night, LH has started to rise so I should peak tomorrow which will last until Saturday with O hopefully on Saturday or Sunday 🤞🏼

I know 😂 my OH works a shift pattern though so he's on nights Sunday, will have to have a day deed 🤦🏽‍♀️

When is AF due for you?

hopingforapeainapod · 19/01/2024 07:30

@Angelselevenx heya, I’m CD30, AF due today, no sign yet but just did a test and it’s a BFN :( my bbt is quite low and I’ve woken up with a headache so I’m sure AF is on her way and just teasing me. I shouldn’t have tested really, it just puts me in an awful mood and now I have to go to work (I’m a teacher) and put on a brave face. Hope you (and others!) are having more luck than me!

Angelselevenx · 19/01/2024 07:32

@hopingforapeainapod oh I'm so sorry, it's just gutting isn't it.

I've hit peak today on CD18 so will likely O tomorrow or Sunday 🤞🏼

hopingforapeainapod · 19/01/2024 14:13

@Angelselevenx AF has officially arrived, so at least she didn’t make me wait!! I have an appointment with a different doctor on Monday so I’m just holding onto the hope that she can give me some answers. I spotted for 9 days before AF this month so I refuse to believe this ‘unexplained’ malarkey!!

Have fun BDing this weekend! 😂

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