TTC FOR JANUARY

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Af just arrived so I'm officially out for this month :(

But onto new beginnings!
Trying to conceive for 2024 <3

Everyone welcome to join and discuss :)

I can't be 100% certain, but I think I ovulated Christmas Day or Boxing Day, so my first positive would have been day 9/10! I had a very obvious negative the day before. Fingers crossed for you, lovely!

@KittyFantastica i really can’t be sure. It wasn’t there when I first looked but my dad had arrived so I put it down. Don’t want to believe it. Oh I really want to get excited. How long did your first like take to come up? I think I’m only 8DPO

Ps do I order off Amazon? I’m too scared to test anymore as the disappointment

@Newmumwales do another do another!!! 🤞🤞🤞 hopefully it's not an evap.. When did you take it & how much longer afterwards did you look?
I've seen Evaps on these but not like that! Xx

@LuceNumberTwo i done it this morning about 11am and didn’t look until tonight so defo an evap?! My mind playing tricks on me 😢😢😢😢😢 I’m too scared to do one as will be negative

@Newmumwales Doesn't mean it's a evap, did you have a chance to look at it this morning?
I'm really hoping it's not for you!!
The thing is you can think of it this way, which is what I'm trying to do, you aren't out until AF shows! So even if you do one & it's negative, you are still really early like me 💖

Nothing there 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

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@Newmumwales Oh hun! But you are still so early 💖 don't get down hearted yet, I know it would've been amazing! & I'd have gotten super excited. These tests can be crap (and I mean all not just this brand) for indents & evaps!
Please don't get too down 💖

Can anyone else see that?

I don't want to get hopes up.. But I can?

@Newmumwales @LuceNumberTwo we are all around the same, also Kitty got her BFP after a negative at 8dpo. Were too early to tell 🫣 could still be implanting. We still have as much chance 🤞🏼 in 2/4 days we will know. The wait is hard but dont let that test get you down you could still be implanting. It says on google only 10% of people get a positive at 8dpo xx

@LuceNumberTwo @H938
thank you ladies. Just come to get my daughter from gym and I just feel something is happening but then I think my mind playing tricks. My boobs are not sore which is strange for me but I feel nausea like my stomach is empty and some light goings on in stomach. Awwwwww I don’t know! I don’t feel this is going to be as easy this time around 😢😢😢😢😢 we only DTD 27th so I can’t be any more than 8DPO.

@Newmumwales i still see a line there!

i can def still see that lime on the second test!!!!

Ohhhh I'm on the edge of my seat!

@Newmumwales get bloody back home we are invested 🤣🤣🤣

@LuceNumberTwo omg youre good!! I can see that now.

awaiting third test 😁 @Newmumwales

You could have already ovulated and on 27th sperm meets egg situation in which case you could be 9dpo!? So exciting 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Home now, I’m not convinced lol 😂

Ive only got FRER and clear blue here so will have to order some more for next week. I’m not hopeful.

@H938 ive come home, come in the bath and getting my thoughts together. Already feel like I’m out before I’m out. I’m telling myself if AF comes end of next week then next cycle I’ll be expecting October which is my gramp who passed birthday month. Felt nausea walking around Tesco mind you. Body STOP!!!!

@Newmumwales I wouldn't count yourself out yet though hun, I think we can see the line, so I'm really hoping this is it 🤞🤞 hopefully that progresses into a lovely BFP!! 💖

@LuceNumberTwo thank you Luce 🩷 this has definitely shown me I really want it so next cycle instead of not preventing I’m getting us to try and get BD!

All you ladies are so kind and lovely. We all got this! ❤️ what pregnancy tests shall I get off Amazon and ovulation ones for next cycle?

Do any you guys want to create a WhatsApp or Facebook messenger group? Sorry I feel like the needy girl asking you all to be my boyfriend on the first date… hahaha

@Wanderingthroughparenthood I'm happy with that, but I have to say Lucy isn't my first name.. So incase you thought I was a total weirdo, was just a but wary of using my real name as its uncommon. It's my middle name though so not a total weirdo 🤣🤣

Hahaha not at all! If anyone wants to join feel free to DM me your name and number and I can create a group! X

I think my TTC journey have been rumbled a little more :(

Can't remember if I mentioned previously but I have endometriosis. I had an operation in Nov 2021 to remove it behind my uterus, bladder and on my bowel. I was told that due to where it was and not being on my ovaries, I should be ok to have children, but with where it was on my uterus I had a higher chance on miscarriage. But we're determined to have our dream baby.

My ovulation pain has been horrendous this month. It's always a little painful but today I've been in agony, killer back pain, cramping, feeling sick, just as my LH has been peaking so I called 111 and they said I need to go see a doctor.

They suspect the endometriosis has spread to a kidney so are sending me for a scan. I'm so scared. We're of course going to keep trying but I am terrified that this means it's got worse than I realise in its usual areas.