Dear all, after my ectopic last summer, I joined a charity counselling programme and decided to take a break from the thread but I have found it so helpful learning about everyone's journeys that I thought I would share my journey/update. (Ps the counselling was incredible and has helped me feel more like myself than I have for the past 2 years. I really recommend speaking to someone who is impartial and the charity I went through had a 10 step programme to follow which gave it a really good structure).
Brief history: 3 early miscarriages at 5.5 weeks, came to Dr Shehata, 3 months of trying naturally with medications and then 3 Superovulation cycles, the 3rd one ending in an ectopic. So after 3 months out due to the Methotrexate, I started the Superovulation cycle again but on 4 tablets, which produced a good response the 1st time but 4 follicles the 2nd time which Dr E said she didn't want to trigger. It was quite heartbreaking because it feels a waste of a cycle & pennies...Also I thought Chriatmas spirit and having had a break might mean quick conception so it was all a bit disheartening, anyway we dropped back down to 3 tablets (Note: a higher dose isn't always best!).
On the 4th cycle since ectopic I conceived and due to my ectopic last year, I went to EPU today for a 6 week scan (so I could cancel CRP & not pay if it was bad news again...). I'm pleased to say there was a little baby in the correct place and a heartbeat, so the 1st hurdle has been achieved. After 3.5yrs I never thought I would reach this point but what has amazed me and kept me going is the strength and perseverance of all the women here and that there is hope.
I have had humira jabs and then been on 25mg of Prednisolone, 2x 400mg Progesterone, low dose aspirin, Intralipids, multivitamins, Vitamin D & COQ 10. I have managed to get the hospital to prescribe the Progesterone but not the steroids but at least it saves a little bit. Please do ask if any questions about my journey but what I have learnt is that SO is basically trial and error, I found it hard when I didn't get pregnant straight away on Dr S's plan. But the one thing Dr S gave me was a plan and hope whereas the NHS just told me to come back when I was pregnant which wasn't good enough for me. As I lost my babies so early, I felt I needed early support which Dr S gives you from ovulation.
I know it is early days but this is the furthest I have ever got, so a big milestone! I have been keeping track of all your journeys these past 6 months and sending you all love and strength 💗