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Defo positive isn't it- this isn't good news

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Lorddenning1 · 27/02/2023 23:18

Just posting for confirmation as I can't tell anyone else in real life, came up straight away but its definitely there isn't it.
This won't be a good thing either.

Defo positive isn't it- this isn't good news
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SlightlyJaded · 27/02/2023 23:20

Yes, that's positive.

I'm sorry it's not a good thing. You have options (unless you are somewhere where the choice has been taken away). I hope you are ok

anon1411 · 28/02/2023 07:14

Definitely a positive lovely.

I'm sorry this isn't good news for you, if you want to chat then feel free to private message me. 🥰

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Lorddenning1 · 28/02/2023 07:52

It isn't good news because we cannot afford it, we have 3 children between us, none together. I'm so upset, I have struggled with infertility in the last too

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Lorddenning1 · 28/02/2023 15:45

Confirmed today, head is a bit of a mess.

Defo positive isn't it- this isn't good news
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maddy68 · 28/02/2023 15:49

You have options. I'm sorry x

BakedBeeeen · 28/02/2023 15:54

So sorry OP. There was someone who posted the other day about an unwanted pregnancy (she had 3 other children) She had struggled with infertility in the past so she felt awful about choosing an abortion. There was some good advice about not having to justify keeping a pregnancy just because of past infertility.

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Lorddenning1 · 28/02/2023 15:56

@BakedBeeeen Do you have the link to the thread please?
I think I would keep the baby, this is what I'm leaning too and trying to find reasons to why it's a good idea, but there are reasons why it's not a good idea either.

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BakedBeeeen · 28/02/2023 18:54

I’ll try and find it. It was a woman who was 45 I believe.

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Lorddenning1 · 28/02/2023 19:12

Thank you,
My OH does not want to have this baby, last year we had an extension put on our house so our 3 children could have their own room, he says we have done everything up to now to enjoy the life we have built for ourselves to enjoy, and the childcare costs etc but he says it's up to me and he would love it if I have decided to have it. But he currently hasn't eaten all day, been really quiet and doesn't want to go to work.
It's scary for me too but I would want the baby and would try and make it work. He is listing all the reasons why it would work and I'm listing all the reasons why it would. I can't stop crying and keep going round and round and getting nowhere. It's been 24 hrs since we found out.

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Sendhelp2021 · 28/02/2023 19:18

Sorry it’s not good news for you OP.

I can’t offer any advice other than do what you feel is best. Maybe write down pros and cons so you can actually see them in front of you.

Springchicken75 · 28/02/2023 19:55

Op you will find a way if you keep the baby, millions of women have been in the same position. You also have options if you can’t keep it don’t want to. It’s just a few tablets op. Do what you need to do - take care.

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Lorddenning1 · 01/03/2023 22:21

We have decided to keep the baby and deal with whatever comes our way in the future, I know I would regret not having this baby and I wouldn't be able to live with myself after.

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SlightlyJaded · 02/03/2023 17:28

In that case, congratulations OP!

Now you have made that decision - go forth and be excited for your pregnancy.

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