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Anybody else 4 dpo - I'm going crazy!

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WonderVibe · 25/02/2023 17:58

Could do with people to get through the 2ww with!

DH is away and back on Saturday so hoping to test Friday / Saturday at the earliest and don't want to cave sooner

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Darcy86 · 12/03/2023 08:06

Boymum111 · 11/03/2023 10:32

Hi @JoRobyn thanks for checking in! How are you feeling now?

so sadly it has been a chemical. I was getting positives, albeit very faint, until Thursday, and then AF arrived last night. It’s sad but tbh I’m glad that the not knowing is over, it’s such a rollercoaster. Things just didn’t feel right.

Hoping next month things are better for us all…

@Darcy86 how did you get on? Everything crossed for you.

I do have an update this morning...turns out those twinges and the nosebleed was an actual symptom! Eek!

Anybody else 4 dpo - I'm going crazy!
Boymum111 · 12/03/2023 18:18

@Darcy86 no way amazing! Massive congrats! This looks like a strong positive as well. Delighted for you 🥰

Darcy86 · 12/03/2023 21:10

Boymum111 · 12/03/2023 18:18

@Darcy86 no way amazing! Massive congrats! This looks like a strong positive as well. Delighted for you 🥰

Thanks so much! Best of luck to you 😊

JoRobyn · 13/03/2023 08:30

@Boymum111, am so sorry you have gone through this. How are you feeling now? I understand the relief of knowing where you stand, my first ever BFP ended like this, and the uncertainty was hard. Definitely give yourself time to process it though, it's very upsetting still. Sending love.

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JoRobyn · 13/03/2023 08:30

@Darcy86 delighted for you! Congratulations and hope all continues to go amazingly for you xx

JoRobyn · 13/03/2023 08:32

I honestly don't know where my head is. I don't want to stop. My partner absolutely does, not for not wanting another baby, but for practical reasons which are very valid. I don't disagree with him but it makes my heart hurt. I haven't got forever to play with as I'm getting older (I'm 40).

Boymum111 · 13/03/2023 22:33

@JoRobyn thank you - I am doing fine. It was hard during the time of not knowing but now that I have processed it, I am ok. I feel ready to start again next month with all it’s up and downs.

I understand the battle of the head and heart. I am coming 38 and hoping for my second, i feel so young but with a traumatic birth last time my body doesn’t think so! Hope you get the clarity you need, and we will be here should you decide to go again next month! And if not, you’ll be so happy with your boys going forward and can enjoy the not trying.

@Darcy86 hoping you are feeling fab and still on a lovely high ❤️

Darcy86 · 14/03/2023 17:43

@Boymum111 thank you, sending hugs to you and lots of sticky bean dust for your next cycle 💗

Boymum111 · 26/03/2023 00:36

@Darcy86 hoping you are having an easy time of pregnancy! How wonderful.

@JoRobyn i hope you figured out the battle between head and heart. Thinking of you both through this cycle.

all the best ❤️

Darcy86 · 30/03/2023 15:57

Boymum111 · 26/03/2023 00:36

@Darcy86 hoping you are having an easy time of pregnancy! How wonderful.

@JoRobyn i hope you figured out the battle between head and heart. Thinking of you both through this cycle.

all the best ❤️

@Boymum111 thanks so much! Have had a couple of wobbles but all good otherwise (I hope), got my scan in about a month's time which seems a tad early but I'm not complaining! Hope you're doing well and wishing you lots of luck on your journey 😊

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